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Cleaning My Room - 2/18/2007 4:19:43 PM   
needdiscipline23


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Status: offline 		I just posted about this on my LJ, but I'm interested in what y'all think here...

I was supposed to meet with my domme on Friday, and instead got an email to take time to clean/unpack my apartment, as I'd just moved, and she knew I really hadn't taken the time to do these things, and write back later to let her know what I'd gotten done.

I felt slightly upset and disappointed (I mean, hullo! play, or clean???) but took some time to think about how submission isn't just about having fun.  So, yeah, I did it, and even found that I kinda enjoyed doing it as a sort of act of submission...that was nice.  As was getting something done that I'd been dreading.

So, I'm curious from others--what was your first experience (or even just a notable one) of realizing that submission isn't just about playing and having fun? When was the first time you did a chore and realized, "hey, I don't feel all kinky and used, I just don't feel like doing this chore I need to do!"? 

Is it just completely lazy and immature of me to have even felt the way I did, or a typical part of growing as a submissive?

Thanks!
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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/18/2007 4:30:25 PM   
proudsub


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So, I'm curious from others--what was your first experience (or even just a notable one) of realizing that submission isn't just about playing and having fun?]


When we got married 38 yrs ago.

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/18/2007 4:31:51 PM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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Status: offline 		When I had to write a report on the life, care and reproduction of the crawfish. 





*Stop laughing!*



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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/18/2007 7:26:58 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

When I had to write a report on the life, care and reproduction of the crawfish. 





*Stop laughing!*



..crawfish huh?...Well now if that subject ever comes up, you will now be a noted authority on it!!...how awesome is that!!...~chortle~...Tempting

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/18/2007 7:29:18 PM   
sub4hire


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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/18/2007 7:37:50 PM   
BitaTruble


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ORIGINAL: needdiscipline23
what was your first experience (or even just a notable one) of realizing that submission isn't just about playing and having fun?


When I stopped resenting that submission wasn't just about playing and having fun and realized that I was, finally, actually submitting.

Celeste

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Rock, paper, scissors."

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/18/2007 8:34:04 PM   
behindmirrors


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Status: offline 		Not the first, but a notable, was when I discovered doing the dishes at his request suddenly made it that much more thrilling. I did them right away, and was very pleased- as was he.

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/18/2007 10:29:27 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		When I didn't get my school lessons done and he wouldn't let me masterbate even though  I was horny cause important school stuff wasn't done like it should be, or like Valentines day when I wanted to nap maybe some hanky panky, but school was coming up in an hour.

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/18/2007 10:55:31 PM   
YourhandMyAss


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Status: offline 		course I never thought submission was all play an no seriousness. Those are just instances when daddy didn't let me weasle by.

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/18/2007 11:54:08 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		The day he began training me, when I received my first set of rules.

But yes, it can be tough.  I recently had a tough time when work interfered with my Stats class, causing me to fall behind.  In the two weeks when I was catching up, I didn't get to do for him all the wonderful things I normally get to do for him, as he had me focused on school.  It was admittedly a drag having to learn about Linear Regression when I wanted to commune with my Master instead, but a friend of mine pointed out, "Going to school IS serving him."  Yeah but...but..but...it wasn't they way I wanted to be serving him!!  Anyway, I quit pouting, caught up, got an A on my exam, and everyone was happy.

It's all part of the bigger picture.  Everything I do comes from my place of submission to him.

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/19/2007 12:28:52 AM   
slavekara


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Status: offline 		Greetings All,

this girl knew she was submissive even before learning of the alternative lifestyle.

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/19/2007 3:32:33 AM   
swtnsparkling


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BRNaughtyAngel
When I had to write a report on the life, care and reproduction of the crawfish

I had to write a report on the Osprey 

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/19/2007 3:35:13 AM   
sleazybutterfly


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Status: offline 		I am not really sure, its been a while.  To me now, its the acts I do everyday.  I fix his lunch and breakfast, clean the home, do the laundry, and all of the other normal everyday chores.  At the end of the day, its not about a scene we did, its about the satisfaction I feel when wrapped in his arms at night, knowing I have done everything I could today to make his life easier and more comfortable. 

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/19/2007 4:50:43 AM   
topcat


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ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

When I had to write a report on the life, care and reproduction of the crawfish. 

*Stop laughing!*


Did you cover their use as an insertable?

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/19/2007 6:42:39 AM   
goodpet


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ORIGINAL: topcat

quote:

ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel
When I had to write a report on the life, care and reproduction of the crawfish. 
*Stop laughing!*


Did you cover their use as an insertable?


I am so glad you said that, i thought i was the only one who went there.. LOL

*note: no crawfish were harmed in the making of this posting*

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/19/2007 6:48:15 AM   
goodpet


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Status: offline 		I am a service submissive so i came into the lifestyle with a strong sense of service and work.

Also my vanilla life is one that took me down a path of doing more service and work then typical. So it was natural for me to see work and service as part of the relationship. I knew from the beginning that is was not about play, bdsm, sex and me me me.. it was about service and giving and providing pleasure taking care of needs.. and in the process that includes play, bdsm and sex (thank goodness).

We live 24/7 M/s and most of my time is spend in service working not in play or sex. The play and sex is part of it but if i went with a mind set that it was about the play and sex i would soon be disillusioned and disappointed.

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/19/2007 7:37:50 AM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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quote:

ORIGINAL: topcat

quote:

ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel

When I had to write a report on the life, care and reproduction of the crawfish. 

*Stop laughing!*


Did you cover their use as an insertable?



   GAH! 



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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/19/2007 7:39:47 AM   
needdiscipline23


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Status: offline 		Thanks for sharing your experiences! I'm hoping that I can learn to enjoy submission this way as well as I do any other submission, b/c I know that my main focus should be pleasing my owner, not myself! Meh, I'm still a little selfish. :)

A report on crawfish? Osprey? Ugh...that would be a LOT harder than what I have to do...


And crawfish as insertibles....I'm sorry, but some of y'all just aren't NICE. ;)

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/19/2007 7:42:03 AM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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ORIGINAL: goodpet

quote:

ORIGINAL: topcat

quote:

ORIGINAL: BRNaughtyAngel
When I had to write a report on the life, care and reproduction of the crawfish. 
*Stop laughing!*


Did you cover their use as an insertable?


I am so glad you said that, i thought i was the only one who went there.. LOL

*note: no crawfish were harmed in the making of this posting*


Well eating tails and sucking heads is standard protocol for crawfish....... HOWEVER

It's crawfish season here and I just don't think I'll be able to sit down to a table of boiled crawfish again without that little tidbit you two chose to share going through my mind!    Evil, sadistic perverts!

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RE: Cleaning My Room - 2/19/2007 7:54:37 AM   
slaveish


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Status: offline 		Just when I think I have a good grasp on understanding what it is to serve ... I learn I didn't know as much as I thought I did. ~chuckle~

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