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porthuronsub -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 5:40:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: spankmepink11 There's nothing i can add here that hasn't already been said...over....and over....and over... I just wanted to give a shout out to the guy from Port Huron...( I grew up in Marine City!) [sm=hello.gif] Hello, sent you a message...

Valyraen -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 5:40:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: happypervert quote: .try and find a vanilla man and introduce some kink to the relationship gradually. I don't think this is a good idea -- she appears to have a serious sadistic streak considering the way she always tortures us by trying to cram her dimwitted ideas down our throats. I think she could put her , um . . . "talents" to work as a pro domina specializing in mind fucks. I'm SO glad I wasn't drinking anything when I read that, or I'd have had to buy a new keyboard and monitor. [:D]

porthuronsub -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 5:43:46 PM)
Another narrow minded person on the forum....great. I think this issue has been beat to death. I got a great idea, lets all look for another thread and jump on it. Sounds like fun huh.

gooddogbenji -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 5:45:57 PM)
Who called this one about 10 pages ago? Mike, meet defiant. Hey, defiant, hope you don't mind equal opportunity bitching. Yours, benji

Valyraen -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 5:47:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: porthuronsub Another narrow minded person on the forum....great. I think this issue has been beat to death. I got a great idea, lets all look for another thread and jump on it. Sounds like fun huh. Very fun... but in agreeing to do so, I'm bumping this thread... which I want to see buried... Aaaah, the conflict! The pain! Must make agreement without bumping thread... head explodes

czarlipet -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 5:48:00 PM)
Hope this helps some, I don't identify as a bisexual woman. I identify as a kinky straight woman. The thing is... I am attracted to both men and women who are dominant. Bisexuals tell me I am not bisexual and they get offended if there is a question of me identifying as such. Straight people see me in a hot tub submitting to a woman and say...there is no way you are straight. No... I am not straight, I am kinky. I like women who are dominant. I think I could easily sleep with someone like Angelina Jolie but I feel there are exceptions to every rule and she is one of them. I don't look for women and I don't look at women thinking... oh yeah I would love to get my hands on that tight ass. I do watch a dominant woman with her girl or boy and go a little weak at times. So, because I don't want to appear to be decieving anyone I identify on my profiles as bi-sexaul. I think of myself as kinky. And I tell my bi-sexual friends that I am straight until the question comes up about being attracted to dominant females. Czarli

AquaticSub -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 5:49:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: porthuronsub Another narrow minded person on the forum....great. I think this issue has been beat to death. I got a great idea, lets all look for another thread and jump on it. Sounds like fun huh. I could always post a thread about slave rights.... [:D]

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 5:50:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl No, I don't hate you. I don't hate anyone for their sexual orientation.......straight, bi, or gay. I just think potential partners have a right to know if someone has engaged in bisexual acts before sleeping with them. You have a dom anyway. If for some reason you and your dom split and you are seeking, telling new potential doms that you're bisexual would actually benefit you. Most men are turned on by bisexual women. Ask these same men if they like watching two males get it on and they're like no thanks. That's why I'm surprised TopCat was so mean. Straight male doms normally don't like to think about two men getting it on. no straight man does like watching this stuff. (although, to each their own) my personal opinion is: it's just gross. but that's just my opinion

dcnovice -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 5:51:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: porthuronsub Another narrow minded person on the forum....great. I think this issue has been beat to death. I got a great idea, lets all look for another thread and jump on it. Sounds like fun huh. I could always post a thread about slave rights.... [:D] Could you make it about whether thin slaves should have more rights than fat ones? [:)]

porthuronsub -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 5:55:59 PM)
and can a slave add to his list of rights as he/she sees the need...

AquaticSub -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 5:56:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia no straight man does like watching this stuff. (although, to each their own) my personal opinion is: it's just gross. but that's just my opinion That isn't the problem anyone has been having been with her. The problem we've been having is that she (and apparently you) believe it's impossible for a sub/slave to be obedient to the point of doing something that doesn't arouse them. And in fact, turns them off. Such levels of obedience are possible and in fact common. Just because you can't fathom it, doesn't make it impossible.

AquaticSub -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 5:58:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dcnovice Could you make it about whether thin slaves should have more rights than fat ones? [:)] See I think the thicker the slave the more rights. After all, we can squish our masters!

Valyraen -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 5:58:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dcnovice quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: porthuronsub Another narrow minded person on the forum....great. I think this issue has been beat to death. I got a great idea, lets all look for another thread and jump on it. Sounds like fun huh. I could always post a thread about slave rights.... [:D] Could you make it about whether thin slaves should have more rights than fat ones? [:)] Hey, that's discrimination! I'm an equal-opportunity oppressor... no rights for anyone! Edited That just sparked a question in my head... is there such a thing as politically correct oppression?

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 6:00:25 PM)
quote: That isn't the problem anyone has been having been with her. The problem we've been having is that she (and apparently you) believe it's impossible for a sub/slave to be obedient to the point of doing something that doesn't arouse them. And in fact, turns them off. Such levels of obedience are possible and in fact common. Just because you can't fathom it, doesn't make it impossible. for me, it IS impossible. i will serve to the best of my ability but some lines will never be crossed. Obeying a MIstress only goes so far.

FukinTroll -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 6:02:46 PM)
We need a thread about cannibal Doms too. And what drinks, appetizers, veggies, etc… go good with people.

Valyraen -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 6:03:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll We need a thread about cannibal Doms too. And what drinks, appetizers, veggies, etc… go good with people. Well, ketchup, obviously... but only if the people are crunchy.

KatyLied -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 6:04:54 PM)
quote: drinks, appetizers, veggies, etc… go good with people. fava beans and a nice chianti (second time I've used that phrase here today)

Valyraen -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 6:06:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied quote: drinks, appetizers, veggies, etc… go good with people. fava beans and a nice chianti (second time I've used that phrase here today) I was waiting for someone to bring up Lector...

AquaticSub -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 6:07:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia quote: That isn't the problem anyone has been having been with her. The problem we've been having is that she (and apparently you) believe it's impossible for a sub/slave to be obedient to the point of doing something that doesn't arouse them. And in fact, turns them off. Such levels of obedience are possible and in fact common. Just because you can't fathom it, doesn't make it impossible. for me, it IS impossible. i will serve to the best of my ability but some lines will never be crossed. Obeying a MIstress only goes so far. That's great. For you. However many other people, including myself, will do something that completely turns them off because it turns on our dominant. This includes having sex with the same sex. I am bisexual, however, submitting to a woman is a complete turn-off for me. When it comes to women, I want to be in control. For Valyraen, I would let another woman control me. That doesn't mean I enjoy it. I means I want to please him more then I care about my sexual needs. It's not for everyone. Clearly, it's not for you. But I don't think people should be applying their labels to others.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/19/2007 6:07:16 PM)
Damn you Katy, I was going to say that DV

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