RE: honesty about sexual orientation

RE: honesty about sexual orientation (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive

Message

FukinTroll -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 12:34:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Valyraen Hey... anyone checked the post # of DBG's last posting? I think the proof is now conclusive! Damn! Now I have to go see if "23" was hers too.

FukinTroll -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 12:35:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Is it short, pudgy and green with little tufts of hair also? What ever lie... um...er... reality gets ya in the sack babe!

gooddogbenji -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 12:35:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Sooooooo benji, what colour did you dye it? Does you asking me this mean you're a potential partner, you bisexual hussy? Yours, benji

mnottertail -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 12:40:34 PM)
well, but she is telling you that she has sucked a cock up front (more than once), before your marriage ensues, so it should be 'you honest and straightforward homo'--- Let's keep to the mainstream definitions here. Ron

LaTigresse -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 12:41:19 PM)
Ohhhhhh, this will be like a kinky farm or zoo thing!!! A Tigresse, a green troll and a cute lil (colour yet to be determined) pup. Now we need some female critters to round things out.

FukinTroll -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 12:45:01 PM)
LaT I think your proclivity towards cocksucking may damage our lesbian~lesbian relationship. But I guess I can settle for bi.

stef -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 12:45:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl If this is my own reality, why is it happening to so many others? Where are these "many others" you speak of? And no, the similarly closed-minded "mainstream community" doesn't count. Your own "reality" has to do with you ignoring simple facts because they directly invalidate things that you preach as gospel such as in this post and this post and in your interesting definition of the word bisexual. quote: What about people who have had a sex change? What about them? Did you turn your ex into a transsexual as well? Holy shit! quote: We lived together before we were married. If I turned him gay that would've happened before the marriage. He said his openly gay friend was just a friend. Since we had an active sex life at that time, I saw no reason not to believe him. He knew if he refused sex before the marriage, I would suspect something and end the relationship. He wanted the marriage to hide his sexual orientation. I did not turn him gay. Sure thing. Whatever you have to tell yourself to get through the gay, er, day. ~stef

sensualmagirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 12:46:00 PM)
It's been 6 pages since I last checked in... has anyone convinced dbg of anything at all? I tried to read, made my head and eyes hurt.... lol

defiantbadgirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 12:49:18 PM)
If these lesbians are seeking, they should specify in their profile that they have engaged in opposite sex acts. If male subs who are seeking identify as straight, they should specify in their profiles that they have engaged in same sex acts. If someone has undergone a sex change and is seeking, they should specify they were once another gender in their profile. Potential partners have a right to know these things before getting involved. Now if they are involved and/or not seeking, I would have to agree that it's nobody's business. The point I'm trying to make is that since there is more than one definition (yes, I realize that), a potential partner may not be familiar with both definitions, so people who are seeking need to be more specific if they have engaged in acts opposite of their stated sexual orientation.

FukinTroll -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 12:51:24 PM)
And if you have pissed longer than 2 minutes you should specify that in your profile.

LaTigresse -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 12:51:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll LaT I think your proclivity towards cocksucking may damage our lesbian~lesbian relationship. But I guess I can settle for bi. I wonder, has my lesbo reputation now been sullied beyond all recognition?? I may even have to retreat into the dark, shadowy safety of the creation of a straight submissive ogre profile?

FukinTroll -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 12:54:53 PM)
Well Lat, I think there may be salvation. All things considered I m sure if you masturbate at least once a day, that would be touching female genitalia, you could recover your lesbian(ism)(hood)(ishisness)

FukinTroll -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 12:56:44 PM)
Or.... you could just list your sexual orientation as "Besmirched". I am sure CM will add a Besmirched option, it would help explain a lot.

LaTigresse -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 12:59:43 PM)
Okay, I vote for the besmirched option. It sounds kinky in a veddy odd way.

FukinTroll -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 1:03:01 PM)
That would make an interesting introduction. Greetings I am LaT, a female Besmirched Domme... bend over. [sm=crop.gif]

susie -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 1:03:09 PM)
I woke up this morning and read the 8 pages that were originally on this thread. Tonight I come home from work and find 35! DBG I often wonder if you really believe what you are posting or if you are only here in a sad attempt to provoke others. If you are real and believe what you say then you need help and yes the suggestion of therapy is a good one. You obviously have serious unresolved issues which require professional help. You say that you often read the forums here but you fail to learn from them nor do you embrace the fact that others here live their lives differently to you. Your insistence to me that people who are not strictly monogamous spread disease was insulting to many. My Master is not monogamous but that is not an issue with me as I am fully aware that he practices safe sex with other people, something you insist is not possible. Again you make sweeping statements that you cannot justify. If you have a personal issue with someone that has passed on some disease take it up with them but do not come to a board such as this suggesting that your way is the only way. It is not. As for your opening statement. I am not bi-sexual. I never have been and never will be. I have no interest nor have I ever felt in anyway like having any sort of sexual interaction with another woman. However, the most important thing in my life is making my Master happy. My submission to him is important to me and so if he requested that I had sex with another woman to please him I would. Of course you will now say that if I can do this it makes me bi-sexual. It does not. It means I am submissive and obey and please my Master. If you cannot or will not understand that then you really should not be on this site. Rant over (yes it is that time of the month)

defiantbadgirl -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 1:03:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll And if you have pissed longer than 2 minutes you should specify that in your profile. Just out of curiosity, how would you feel if you became involved with a woman and had no idea until after you slept with her that she used to be a man? What if she used the excuse that you didn't specifically ask when you wondered why she never told you? Would you feel like you had been deceived?

gooddogbenji -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 1:04:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl The point I'm trying to make is that since there is more than one definition (yes, I realize that), a potential partner may not be familiar with both definitions, so people who are seeking need to be more specific if they have engaged in acts opposite of their stated sexual orientation. Actually, there are hundreds of definitions. I, for example, just decided that "bisexual" means "Having more than 3 opened boxes of cereal within 14 feet of each other." Please declare this in your profiles, people. I know, you can argue that mine has nothing to do with sex, but think about it - real men only eat one type of cereal. If you have 2, you can make the point that one is for the girl-on-the-side, but 3???? That's just faggoty. And the other idiocy is that you assume that anyone who reads your profile is a potential partner, or that people want to publish this openly. I can understand, on some level, to want to know this within a few e-mails, but on the profile? Get over yourself, you're not that good. Yours, benji

stef -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 1:05:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl Potential partners have a right to know these things before getting involved. So in order to practice what you preach; when are you planning to update your profile? Don't you think your prospective victims should know before becoming involved with you that you're a closed-minded, judgemental, rigid, bitter homophobe with trust issues the size of Asia? After all, honesty is honesty. Be sure and let us know when you get that taken care of. ~stef

cjenny -> RE: honesty about sexual orientation (2/20/2007 1:07:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll And if you have pissed longer than 2 minutes you should specify that in your profile. Just out of curiosity, how would you feel if you became involved with a woman and had no idea until after you slept with her that she used to be a man? What if she used the excuse that you didn't specifically ask when you wondered why she never told you? Would you feel like you had been deceived? dgb that has nothing to do with your insistence on the idea of a man being bisexual because he slept with another man. If you can't grasp that then this thread needs to end. It just feeds into whatever it is your gaining from this, because you certainly are not gaining insight. Please, read what people say. Don't twist it, just read it.

Page: << < prev 33 34 [35] 36 37 next > >>

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.046875