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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 4:25:40 AM   
KatyLied


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I have moved beyond hogties and dom struting. 


You obviously do not understand what dom strutting is.  You are the poster boy for dom (erm, Master) strutting.


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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 6:26:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: tricia

I think the competition begins when people like yourself -  jump in the ring and begin to make it one.  Only you're boxing your own shadow.  The people who consider themselves slaves, for the most part, don't give much credence to posts like these -as is obvious by the responses here.  I simply don't need my relationship or the way i view myself in my relationship validated, justified or measured in comparison to someone elses.  I'm curious as to why you do.


You're joking right?

I don't care what he thinks about my relationship. That's the whole point. However, if he's going to carry around this mind set that master/slave is the bestest of the best and all others are substandard he's going to run into a lot more trouble in the BDSM world then just me. Better to make him aware of that now.

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 6:51:14 AM   
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He's already been checking out Gor.  I've seen him in the threads there long before this.  (And he openly states he is in his journal).

Chalk it up to newness.  I think he's still finding his BDSM legs.  We were all there at one time.

< Message edited by valeca -- 2/24/2007 6:53:30 AM >

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 7:03:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Vendaval

I do not understand the point you are trying to make here.
Please clarify.

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ORIGINAL: fusion
As to sexual roles even the most gay or lesbian of relationships are shaped on the man/woman dynamic the the D/s power relationship.  



I was kinda wondering the same. I am wondering, am I supposed to be more manly? Should I give up wearing makeup, sell my jewelry, give all my dresses to Goodwill??


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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 7:34:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: azzmaster

i think what we do is really the natural order of things, just in the modern world it got lost


Which order? Male dom/fem sub or vice versa?


I don't think saying that Ds is "natural" is the same as picking a gendered, aged, or racial or any other combination.

I actually would agree that most people in the world tend to be followers, a few leaders, and some loners. That might be understood as some type of Ds on a daily basis.

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 7:39:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo
I actually would agree that most people in the world tend to be followers, a few leaders, and some loners. That might be understood as some type of Ds on a daily basis.

While I agree with you on that point, I think it leads too many people to start thinking that ALL relationships are "really Ds" at their core.  And that's no good either.

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 7:44:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo
I actually would agree that most people in the world tend to be followers, a few leaders, and some loners. That might be understood as some type of Ds on a daily basis.

While I agree with you on that point, I think it leads too many people to start thinking that ALL relationships are "really Ds" at their core. And that's no good either.


I think there is a big difference between doing Ds purposely and with a clear decision and just living life.

Life requires that you sometimes follow, sometimes lead, and sometimes go it alone. Some people have opportunities to do more of one role than others, some enjoy one role more than others.

I can follow but I tend to be very demanding when I follow, I ask a lot of questions, I want a plan in place, I do not allow myself to be pushed to the back. Following doesn't feel comfortable to me but it is necessary at times. For others following is very comfortable for them.



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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 8:07:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: azzmaster

i think what we do is really the natural order of things, just in the modern world it got lost


Which order? Male dom/fem sub or vice versa?


I don't think saying that Ds is "natural" is the same as picking a gendered, aged, or racial or any other combination.

I actually would agree that most people in the world tend to be followers, a few leaders, and some loners. That might be understood as some type of Ds on a daily basis.


Edited for a brain fart. I got someone confused with someone else. My bad!

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 2/24/2007 8:08:24 AM >

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 8:11:57 AM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: valeca

Fast reply.

He's already been checking out Gor.  I've seen him in the threads there long before this.  (And he openly states he is in his journal).

Chalk it up to newness.  I think he's still finding his BDSM legs.  We were all there at one time.


This is true. It's probably safe to say that we've all said or done something because of our newness. I think if this had been phrased differently (perhaps as a question asking if others agreed) the responses he would have gotten would have been entirely different.

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 8:14:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I was kinda wondering the same. I am wondering, am I supposed to be more manly? Should I give up wearing makeup, sell my jewelry, give all my dresses to Goodwill??



I will snag your tits if you are handing shit out, you won't be needing them then, will you?

Ron


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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 8:24:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I was kinda wondering the same. I am wondering, am I supposed to be more manly? Should I give up wearing makeup, sell my jewelry, give all my dresses to Goodwill??



I will snag your tits if you are handing shit out, you won't be needing them then, will you?

Ron



Why did I just think of Ed Gein?

They are kinda attached to my overall package here and balance out the ass. If you take the tits you are going to have to take some ass too. I do't wanna tip over or anything.


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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 8:29:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: azzmaster

i think what we do is really the natural order of things, just in the modern world it got lost


"Natural Order"   <twitch twich>   I already covered the sheer wrongness of that term in that Gender Bias thread. It's false! false false false!!!!
 
 
 
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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 9:45:06 AM   
mnottertail


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Do you take me for a dilettante, Madam?

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 10:27:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: fusion

I am not interested in presenting my thoughts run through grammar and spell check.



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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 10:29:48 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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If you take the tits you are going to have to take some ass too. I do't wanna tip over or anything.


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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 1:24:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		I never strove to attain the "Highest of Relationships".  A mediocre one that simply works for me (and my partner) would be just dandy.

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 1:27:35 PM   
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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 6:06:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		as I read this OP and following comments....

I am struck with the thought of some one got a new toy and it is the answer to all his boredom.  so play play play and life will be full again.

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 8:25:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Post his reply, Its odd how people are afraid of someone saying things, that need to be said, so you block it and hide, and pretend it didnt happen.

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 8:30:21 PM   
chainedfarida


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

I would have read this but I'm too busy enjoying my sub-standard "owner/kitten" relationship. Nice ego there buddy.


ok so now i am confused one minute you arent reading this the next you are? it looks like it indeed cuaght your attention afterall.

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