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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 8:40:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: chainedfarida

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I would have read this but I'm too busy enjoying my sub-standard "owner/kitten" relationship. Nice ego there buddy.

ok so now i am confused one minute you arent reading this the next you are? it looks like it indeed cuaght your attention afterall.

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umm... That was my first comment on this particular thread... so if I later stated that I wouldn't read this thread, I hadn't said it yet.

Edited to add: Looking back I didn't notice anytime I said I wouldn't read this thread. Have you gotten this thread mixed up with a different one? I mean, I might have missed where I said it in this thread.

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 8:41:02 PM

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i wish everyone could just get along *pout*

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 9:00:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: fusion

When I read a in a profile "I was born to be a slave " I know that is the best and only good reason to be a slave, from a very precious rare unbroken slave spirit..

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Greetings Fusion,

Have you found that the majority of slaves with whom you've had contact have had their spirit broken? If so, do you believe that broken spirits can ever be mended? It seems so sad to me to consider that a broken spirit, a soul in need, is not as valuable a commodity to you. It sounds like you're looking for an easy out and it's my experience that the best things in life are those for which one has worked the hardest and by extension, are appreciated the most for the difficulty in attaining them.

How, exactly, do you access the spirit of someone? Does it take face to face meetings or can you tell from reading a profile or having a few chats with them and then know they are not right for you?

Also, do you believe that slavery can be a process which one can obtain with determined effort and without external influence or must it always be found by assuming that one has been born to be a slave? (Something which may be true but unrecognized for several years if it is ever recognized at all.)

I admit to being a bit confused when you talk about shaping a slave when I would imagine it would behoove you to find someone who is already in sync with you then setting out to tweak their training as you desire. Not so much a matter of shaping, but enhancing what's already there. The reason for my confusion is because you have a journal entry in which you state.. "I go for what I want, not what I can get" which suggests that you actually do care more about tearing down and then making your ideal rather than work with what someone has already. If you go for what you want, then set about having to shape it into something different, it seems as though what you got wasn't really want you wanted in the first place?

Thanks in advance for any insights you would care to offer to clear up my confusion.

Celeste

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/24/2007 9:04:36 PM

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Nice post, BitaTruble.

I tend to suspect you will get no response.

When I was coaching my kids sports teams I would tell the players that it is impossible to build oneself up by tearing other people down.

Of course, just me, yadda yadda

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/25/2007 12:40:03 AM

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Thank you, Sinergy.

I think it's a shame, but after reading through a few more of his posts, I tend to agree with you.

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RE: Mater/slave The Highest of relationships! - 2/25/2007 12:52:12 AM

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I think the big problem here, is that you wander in... unknown and begin to spew forth your ideas as though we should all stop and say:
"Holy Crap, he's so right!!"

We all have our own beliefs and we have all had our own "A-ha!" moments. We just know better than to attempt to force them on others...

Good luck with your search

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