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RE: Lies, Distrust and Integrity - 3/27/2005 9:28:06 AM

Gemeni

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Why lie at all? I'd rather be judged as wanting for being who I am,than accepted for some fantasy construct that won't hold up in the long run.

As far as others lying? Not my concern,they just don't ever get close enough to me to do me damage-I'm not so stupid that I can't add things up and ferret out the truth.

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RE: Lies, Distrust and Integrity - 3/27/2005 9:58:45 AM

SirCache

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One of the most essential ingredients for me is that a slave absolutely believe without doubt that what I need is real and that she is able to fulfill that need. I respect the slaves I have had in the past, with good reason--they knew their place and they always tried to serve me well. Good work is always to be respected.

Why anyone would deliberately want to have a slave be unable to effectively serve them is beyond me. How can I enjoy myself and feel properly at peace when my slave is unable to give me what I really desire? It's certainly not her fault. As much as it disrespects the slave, it completely disrespects oneself--and no real master would debase himself by allowing a deliberate fault in the relationship.

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RE: Lies, Distrust and Integrity - 3/27/2005 12:59:23 PM

BlkTallFullfig

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CitizenCane
Well, as a matter of practical fact, if I use the 'post reply' button on the bottom of the page, it defaults to the most recent post. Which is exactly what I said, sweetie.

Someone lacks the humility to appologize when he is wrong... Oh well...
I replied to you because your 1st reply "to me" (not pointing out reply wasn't intended for me, but following practicality as you say) was a tad on the condescending edge and unnecessary... I simply wanted to point out to you that I noticed, and didn't like yah see... M

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RE: Lies, Distrust and Integrity - 3/27/2005 1:10:37 PM

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hello gloria:
i could say that i have so much to comment on everything you have said here! i wont' elaborate a whole lot, but can related to what you say!
i caught my Master in a lie to my face, but in the sense of a safety/condom issue with his other sub! he finally came out and admitted it. he had the look of a "lie" all over his face and he knew that i knew it!

now as far as it being so you say: about 10 on here, i would have to say, so many more and thats lightly said!
What about all the submissives that lie......or exagerate, or even trick and game other subs to get what they want? To be set up! What a horrible shame!
i have always considered myself an extremely honest and open person and that will never change, but as far as some people are, its a way of life for them, but eventually and sooner or later, it will come back to "haunt" them in one way or another, i believe in "karma".... !!
you ask why do we allow this to be in our lives, maybe its because as that individaul; we are not strong enough to leave or get up and walk away, we may feel that is all that we are capable of handling in our lives at the point in time. all that we "deserve"...
but we "deserve" so much better!!!
there is much better out there for all of us!
i can respect your frustrations and knowing that we can change and accept things, thats beautiful! Learning from all of it is a must!
i just got out of a 3 way poly thing, which was manifested by extreme jealousy!
it was a mess and a real heartbreaker........but the truth will come out as to what really happened......... people just can't hide it forever!

Have a blessed and Happy Easter

PS: you had responded to me previously back in December of 2004 about that issue.. same name i was under!
thank you for that piece of advice!

bunny......... "smiling"

"Be strong in all you do, because we are all we have" each of us!!

< Message edited by sexysubbunny -- 3/27/2005 1:14:26 PM >

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RE: Lies, Distrust and Integrity - 3/27/2005 1:30:33 PM

CitizenCane

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

quote:

ORIGINAL: CitizenCane
Well, as a matter of practical fact, if I use the 'post reply' button on the bottom of the page, it defaults to the most recent post. Which is exactly what I said, sweetie.

Someone lacks the humility to appologize when he is wrong... Oh well...
I replied to you because your 1st reply "to me" (not pointing out reply wasn't intended for me, but following practicality as you say) was a tad on the condescending edge and unnecessary... I simply wanted to point out to you that I noticed, and didn't like yah see... M

If you're suggesting that that 'someone' is me, please point out what I'm wrong about- The post of mine, as the earlier two, was posted using the 'post reply' button at the bottom of the page. All three indicated that they were replies to the immediately preceding post. What, exactly, is 'wrong'?
As to not liking me, feel free.

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RE: Lies, Distrust and Integrity - 3/28/2005 10:34:42 AM

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I have to agree... There is as much trust from the Dominant as there is from the submissive...

And I agree with Mod5, Amen up there. :) It IS the scariest and most dangerous things that anyone can do.

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RE: Lies, Distrust and Integrity - 3/28/2005 11:02:44 AM

sub4hire

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quote:

now as far as it being so you say: about 10 on here, i would have to say, so many more and thats lightly said!
What about all the submissives that lie......or exagerate, or even trick and game other subs to get what they want? To be set up! What a horrible shame!

I have to ask, what does the look of a lie look like?

I wasn't referring to only dominants. I was referring to people overall. Now, I don't notice a lot of people. If someone says something that interests me, then I notice what they write from that point on out. So, about ten in the people I was watching.
Since I've posted this a few days ago the count has dramatically increased. Not by people I have noticed but other's I had not. People wanting me to name names of those whom I was referring to.
However, I said I would'nt do that and I have not. Doesn't stop people from wanting to know.
Happy to be of help in December.

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