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RE: height differences - 3/3/2007 12:56:24 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		::rubs hands together::   We've found a new nickname for juliaoceania.....shallow whore




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RE: height differences - 3/3/2007 1:12:41 AM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		In my life I've fucked only one woman who was taller than me--and she didn't seem to have any problem submitting.

quote:

ORIGINAL: myobedience

My question is, do any of you women find it hard to consider a dominant who is way taller than you or the same height or shorter than you?

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RE: height differences - 3/3/2007 5:06:31 AM   
adaddysgirl


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ORIGINAL: myobedience

I NEED A TALLER CAUSE I AM SHALLOW  lololololol 


Well, let's see.  i want a partner who is tall and larger built.  i don't want a partner with a mouthful of rotten teeth, nor a big bushy beard     i've got lots more preferences too....if anyone's interested....lol. 
 
i don't see how having a preference in a partner is shallow...and i think calling a person a name because of such preference is judgmental. 
 
So if someone thinks i'm shallow, i would think they were judgmental....so i guess it all evens out....lol.
 
So throw me in that 'shallow pool' if you will.  i know how to swim 
 
Daddysgirl

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RE: height differences - 3/3/2007 5:09:46 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		I would actually be pleased to own an amazon.  very satisfying, and no harder to knock the pegs from underneath them than a short woman, easier in fact.


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RE: height differences - 3/3/2007 7:10:28 AM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied
Is this like blocking a person and announcing that you've blocked them?

Hey that's my line biatch!

And anyone who thinks Sinergy would settle for a shallow whore or that a shallow whore would find happiness with him is seriously delusional.

Although I could see times in their bedroom where "shallow whore" would be considered a lot of fun, but that's totally different.


quote:

KatyLied

::rubs hands together::   We've found a new nickname for juliaoceania.....shallow whore


I definitely have to showDaddy both of these posts... I kinda like it, shallow whore, it is almost as catchy as strumpet

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RE: height differences - 3/3/2007 7:22:18 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Finally the end! Since I am 5'6", rather middle of the road for height, it's a crap shoot wether a woman will be taller, shorter, or about the same as I. Since I have yet to meet anyone, taller or shorter, that intimidates me, I would not even consider someone's height as a deciding factor. I was told by one woman that is taller than me, "it only takes one look from you for me to feel very small and insignificant". I assume, perhaps wrongly, that anyone that wants to be with me, wether taller or shorter, will not consider my height anymore than I would theirs.


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RE: height differences - 3/3/2007 7:34:03 AM   
dawntreader


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Status: offline 		i have to admit that initially height does factor in for me - i do like Dominants that are taller, it seems to help with my feelings of submission initially...

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RE: height differences - 3/3/2007 10:40:57 AM   
petstorm


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lighthearted

I'm 5'5", and I find myself most attracted to the 6 ft and above type of guy.  (I like 'em tall, dark and...dorky )  I like being able to wear heels and still be shorter than him.  and I like 'em a little bit on the meaty side, the super-athletic or skinny types don't do it for me. 


i have the same problems. It seems that when they make clothes, they either consider height, OR weight, but rarely both when determining a size! But then again, isn't it more fun to go shopping with Master and model for him to see his eyes light up when you find the perfect one?

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RE: height differences - 3/3/2007 11:17:12 AM   
myobedience


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quote:

ORIGINAL: adaddysgirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: myobedience

I NEED A TALLER CAUSE I AM SHALLOW  lololololol 


Well, let's see.  i want a partner who is tall and larger built.  i don't want a partner with a mouthful of rotten teeth, nor a big bushy beard     i've got lots more preferences too....if anyone's interested....lol. 
 
i don't see how having a preference in a partner is shallow...and i think calling a person a name because of such preference is judgmental. 
 
So if someone thinks i'm shallow, i would think they were judgmental....so i guess it all evens out....lol.
 
So throw me in that 'shallow pool' if you will.  i know how to swim 
 
Daddysgirl


 I love it !!  So throw me in that 'shallow pool' if you will.  i know how to swim 
Gotta learn to swim in the shallow part before goiing in the deep part...
damn can you imagine drowning cause you did it on purpose? 
 
Very nice point Daddysgirl

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RE: height differences - 3/3/2007 12:11:13 PM   
swtrayn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kate

i am 5'5 and maybe it is shallow... but i like tall men...i like a guy so that when he holde me i am at chest level...always have....but that is just a peronal thing


Well, I am the same way.. so if you are shallow so am I, I am also 5'5 and just have always been attracted to taller men.

rayn


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RE: height differences - 3/3/2007 7:54:52 PM   
ShreveportMaster


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Status: offline 		 Although it does work against you sometimes. I'm 6'8" and a bit over 300, and I have quite un-intentionally scared a lot of girls...either the size, or the rumbling Bass voice. (or the traditional "villain" laugh ) I've never in My adult life seen a woman taller than Me, so I honestly can't comment on that one, but itty bitty and cuddly...or Amazonian and cuddly will both work just fine. The hard part is finding one who wants the same things.

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RE: height differences - 3/3/2007 9:29:46 PM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		wow  i guess im the tallest submissive so far at 6' 7 to 6' 8 tall  and male i have found in the past ive alwasy been talles and Dom or Dommes have ever had or dealt with

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RE: height differences - 3/3/2007 11:12:26 PM   
afeathr


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Status: offline 		Height means nothing to me... nor does weight... nor does any other physical characteristic, truthfully.  Sir and I are the same height -- 5'8" and when I wear heels I am taller (often times much taller) than he, but that doesn't change the dynamic of our relationship in the least.

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RE: height differences - 3/3/2007 11:17:19 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Ive had subs taller and shorter than I.  One of my boys was 6'11 and he was completely submissive all the time. The height difference doesnt hcange much aside from how we snuggle honestly.  I find it far more difficult to hold the taller ones in my lap than i do the shorter ones... little things like that.  And it complicates hand-holding.  But as far as the actual relationship dynamic, it has never interfered.

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RE: height differences - 3/4/2007 10:13:06 AM   
sassykat


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Status: offline 		I'm 5' or 5'1" on a good day so most men whether vanilla or kinky are taller than me, but I've found I'm only attracted to men taller than I am-the tallest man I've ever been with was 6'6". For me it's a matter of knowing I can't overpower them whether physically or any other way. Even before I knew I was submissive I always said I needed a man stronger than I am in their personality and physical & mental strength. For my size I'm extremely strong, I'm little but tough. So shallow it may be but I prefer the top of my head to be around chin level to them at the least. But most of all I hate when they lie & say they're 5'6" and are 5'2" when you meet them.

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RE: height differences - 3/4/2007 11:11:04 PM   
smilingjaguar


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Status: offline 		I have to second Julia.  I'm 6'1, and guys under 5'10 or 5'11 just aren't going to get a second look without a LOT of personality.  I like having a bigger, stronger man.  I spent so much time wrestling with my older brother that I know just how to flip the little guys, no matter how strong they think they are.  It's a turn off for me to know I "could" physically overpower them.  It's like having the trick handcuffs instead of the real thing.  My Master is 6'4.  When we met I was 17 and 5'10...I've grown obviously since then, and I miss the height difference.  If I were superficial, I'd dump him for someone in the 6'6 or 6'7 range...

To me, it's no different than any other deal breaker you set.  Being short would be a negative on the list of what I'm looking for similar to finding a Dom that didn't like inflicting pain...he might be wonderful, but it's just not going to work in the long run for me.

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RE: height differences - 3/5/2007 11:12:29 AM   
freyjasdottir


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Status: offline 		I'm almost 5"3" if I stand real tall and love much taller men the one I am involved with now is over 6' and I adore it.

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RE: height differences - 3/5/2007 11:46:19 AM   
slo18


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Status: offline 		sigh not gonna read though all of this lol made it though two pages.  I have to  admit to being a bit shallow on this I prefer taller men,  always have always will. I think its because  ( and please nice guys who are shorter dont take to much offence)    I have seen to many short men who had something to prove sorta like the chihuahua  who has to try and take down the doberman.

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RE: height differences - 3/5/2007 1:43:14 PM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		I'm only five feet tall so pretty much anyone I'd consider is taller than me. 
I prefer men who are about six feet or over, though.  Just a personal preference.
I like that feeling of being completely towered over.

edited for spelling and to add...that I've met men from here ranging from 5'8" to 6'3".  Ironically, the one who was 5'8" was the one that I had the most in common with and who has become a good friend.

< Message edited by Aileen68 -- 3/5/2007 1:45:22 PM >

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RE: height differences - 3/5/2007 6:38:25 PM   
tulinwl


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Status: offline 		I am 5'11, almost 6ft tall. On the thin side, so I don't feel as I am taking up the whole room, but tall enough to make me want someone larger to engulf me. However, I am engaged in play with a man shorter than me, but he is so physically strong that the height means nothing. He can pick me up, throw me up against a wall, pin me to the floor, and anything else he desires. His presence is what matters - and that power does not come from physical attributes.

In my everyday life I wear heels. All the time. Puts me at about 6'1 and allows my controlling nature to take over a room. Does this make me anything less of a submissive? I don't know, I am still learning.


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