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RE: sincere or not - 4/7/2007 7:37:51 AM

adanaydi

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celeste, you hit the nail on the head there with the one word emails...
this one has had quite a few like that, so many that she doesn't reply to any more one word wonders.

Dom: Hello
Sub: greetings
Dom: Kneel girl and send me a pic and what you are looking for.

Bah! First off, when this one kneels to any it is because she feels a strong need to, not because she has been commanded to do so, and if she feels that need, she will most likely crawl to you and beg to be permitted at a Master's feet.

Let's be real.

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RE: sincere or not - 4/7/2007 7:50:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: SleepyBeast

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ORIGINAL: innatedesire

No and here all this time i thought i was a "true submissive" i am devastated and will now have to go back and re-write my entire profile.

You could always say you are a "submissive 2.0 LE (Limited Edition)" and the new LE submissives do not come with an autoreply function.

LOL...love it!!!
(BTW....awesome head of hair you have there)

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RE: sincere or not - 4/7/2007 8:00:08 AM

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ORIGINAL: pissdoll

Internet guy: hi

me: hi

guy: address me as Sir

me: i don't call anyone sir i am not collared to

guy: very well, tell me about your bdsm experience, send me some nude photos, give me your yahoo, phone number, address, social security number, a pair of panties, and the key to the palace.

me: WTF?????

So that's where I went wrong! LOL

How've ya been Doll, LTNS

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Whiplash has some great pointers. also, i think it's more than okay to create a "form letter" about yourself, if you write a sentence or two FIRST that is personal to the person you are sending it to...to at least attempt to engage the reader.

Best advice I have about form letters is essentially what you just recommended. Write a form letter about yourself, nice introduction, bit about yourself, some points of interests, etc. Then before sending it, use the FIRST paragraph to write something personal to the individual you are sending it to, comment on things in their profile, etc. Works quite well I find.

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in times when i am available, i have always been more likely to answer mail from men who mention things going on in their lives BEYOND the bdsm. great, so you can torture me in the pit beneath your garage, but tell me you also like to swing dance and you collect Turkish postal stamps, and i am SOOOOOO there!

Tis true folks, she even talked to me and I don't even like water sports! Course I think it was the hunting trip that got her attention...

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RE: sincere or not - 4/7/2007 8:06:07 AM

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i'm going to take a different swing on this. i generally reply to most emails i get. 95% of them, i have replied to. And yes, i send rejection letters

i also send letters asking Dom's if they have learned to read yet as my profile says i'm collared. ::shrugs::

There are of course times when i am just not in the mood to insult or in the mood to spell things out.

P R O F I L E S A Y S O W N E D

i think i've asked a few if they got through kindergarden.... I even reply to penis photo emails and tell them that their penis is disgusting and they should stop traumatising the world by showing it to everyone.

Sometimes i'm nice = ) All depends on the mood they catch me in. BUT i must say, it gets overly redudant telling everyone to "please oh kind Sir, can you take a moment to read this wench's profile and catch a drift that i am not looking"

Emails that are complimentary or pleasant or whatever - i usually reply to in a friendly manner.

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RE: sincere or not - 4/7/2007 8:12:34 AM

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All this wonderful advice... but I wonder... do you suppose those who most need it are paying any attention?

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RE: sincere or not - 4/7/2007 8:36:56 AM

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It catches their attention. I do get back apologies at times. I of course, get back Doms that want to go tit for tat with me which i dont play in. Sometimes they dont respond.

But i figure that it gives them a clue, even if its a small clue. Imagine how many people they email with out reading their profiles? Eh, they might not catch a clue - but it never hurts to hand them out. (who said it was advice??) lol

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RE: sincere or not - 4/7/2007 10:40:52 AM

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Ah see... I usually charge $2 for clues and $5 for correct answers.

And never offer to go tit for tat with them... they'll give you tat expecting to get some tit.

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RE: sincere or not - 4/7/2007 3:10:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: TantricOne

Have been on this site for some few years, was wondering why so many subs that are supposedly seeking a dom can't even reply to something as simple as a "hello", yes I have had some reply, from those who are sincere, but in the bigger view, do a lot of the "subs seeking dominant males" even really belong here? I think not, because they are claiming to be something they're not, as are the so-called dominants that use the lifestyle as an excuse to be cruel or players.............

i have never experienced "lack of reply" if i initiated contact with a Dom. i think most Doms and Masters reply to all Their email, apart from ones that squork Them out.

Subbies and slaves who fail to reply are using bad manners because they think it's "just the 'net"; as if there were no real P/person who uttered the email.

Assuming good manners and respect are qualities You'd want in a subbie/slave, think positive; those who fail to reply have self-selected themselves for "no further consideration".

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