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RE: What gender sub do you prefer? - 4/19/2007 7:10:15 AM

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If it's going to be play--SM, bondage, etc.--I prefer female-bodied people. I think women are more appealing. I'm generally more attracted to femme-of-center women, but a few butches have turned my head.

According to the test TammyJo described, I prefer feminine people. This is because I prefer deferential people who seek to make me comfortable--a trait I usually describe as "submissive."

Of course, I like men too. If it's about service, sex and gender don't really matter to me. If it's about forming a d/s relationship, then gender and sex matter, but other qualities are generally more important.

Ah, bisexuality.

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RE: What gender sub do you prefer? - 4/19/2007 1:55:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: bacchas

I doesn't appear this forum has a poll option (or I'm just missing it), so I offer up this question in an informal manner.

If you're going to play with a submissive/slave, does the person's gender matter to you and if so what is your preference?

I tend lo prefer guys but I find some women attractive. I'm also fine with gender variant people. So though I have a preference it's kind of irrelevant if I meet the right person.

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RE: What gender sub do you prefer? - 4/19/2007 4:16:08 PM

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I prefer my sub to be a Dominant Female.

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benji

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RE: What gender sub do you prefer? - 4/20/2007 6:49:19 AM

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It warms my heart to see so many Dommes seek a Masculine strong male as a sub, maybe there is hope after all!

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RE: What gender sub do you prefer? - 4/20/2007 10:10:37 AM

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RE: What gender sub do you prefer? - 4/20/2007 10:26:52 AM

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Other than Holly, I'm not attracted to women ... and I won't have a relationship with anyone that I'm not attracted to, nor will I play with anyone that I'm not in a relationship with. Guess that means it's males only for me.

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RE: What gender sub do you prefer? - 4/20/2007 11:10:58 AM

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Dear bacchas, Ladies and Gentlemen;

In my mind's eyes, such question is really going to be a person's personal preferences and answered by those who wish to, when reading this particular thread.

That said, I identify as a Heterosexual and prefer men. However, I have had both men and women in my service. I really judge more on the 'spirit' of their submission. Slaves choose their Master, in my personal experiences. It was just the way it was done. Masters then accepted the slave's request to explore a M/s relationship.

For me and can only speak from my Master's heart -- I am not seeking a husband, boyfriend a sex slut in the bedroom and or a fetish fan. I seek a slave. A slave is gender neutral. I will not refuse consideration of a slave based on gender. I just hope the slave is healthy and has the capacity to love (in a general sense) and serve in 'love' (in a general sense --not defined by sex. But, if I have a male and female with equal traits--I would prefer men who prefer to keep masculine traits.

As for scenes, presentations, demonstrations and or mentoring--all genders are enjoyed for only the brief time.

Just some thoughts.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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