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Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 5:26:32 PM   
jedidiah


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Status: offline 		Lady'si was just wondering if there was much interest in this. i have always gone for girls younger then me, but lately iv been longing to dominate a woman older then me. I'm not sure what brought this on, maybe its that the younger ones dont truly know what thay want, and im tired of playing there games. but anyways im just seeing if there is any intrest out there.
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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 5:30:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I wouldnt go more than a couple of years younger than me. Personally i prefer my men older.

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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 5:33:12 PM   
GeekyGirl


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Status: offline 		Personally, I would not.  I do not trust someone with less experience than I have, and I've been doing this most of my adult life.

For the longest time, I have refused to get involved with dominant men under the age of 30 (and really I preferred 35+).

That said, my latest date was not quite 27 (3yrs older than I) and I was pleasantly suprised to find that he seemed much more talented and naturally dominant than many of the older men I have gone out with. He was able to push my buttons in little subtle  ways that most men have not achieved in the past. I was also impressed with his fresh outlook and the fact that he did not seem "jaded" as so many older men are.

I'm still not sure that I'd take a chance on one my age or younger though. Men in their early 20's usually lack confidence and I find that less than appealing in a dominant.


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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 5:54:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		In answer to your question: yes. I've bottomed to a man who is 8 years younger...and have plans to bottom to one 12 years younger. I've also Topped both of them.

But, I have a comment: you said want older women because they seem to know what they want. Well, you're the Dominant. You set what YOU want, then find people who agree with that. Then, age is immaterial.

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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 5:57:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		simply in one word, yes
with alot more practicalilities thrown in

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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 6:04:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		don't really and honestly know. my former Doms were at least 2 to 10yrs older. Daddy is 7yrs older than me. if the younger Dom and i shared the same interests both as vanillas and D/s, i might consider it.

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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 6:07:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think all of my Doms have been older than me, but I would never object to someone younger.  What I look for is a maturity, and that doesn't always come with age from what I have seen around here and other places.

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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 6:08:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		I look for women in my age range, but I have spanked older girls.

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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 6:08:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		When I was but a young Domiboy, sometimes when after a cocktail or twenty, I was known to frequent the less palatable older twat....So don't give up hope my brothah...Some of these old dried up thangs would be probably willing to let you have a turn.

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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 6:17:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have Topped and been Topped to both older and younger women. As it has already been said in this tread, maturity is more important, and does not always come with age

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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 6:21:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: jedidiah

Lady'si was just wondering if there was much interest in this. i have always gone for girls younger then me, but lately iv been longing to dominate a woman older then me. I'm not sure what brought this on, maybe its that the younger ones dont truly know what thay want, and im tired of playing there games. but anyways im just seeing if there is any intrest out there.


No I would not and that is 2 fold:
1: My oldest unmentionable is 24 so it would be very uncomfotable and  akward for me.
2: I have always been more comfortable and attracted to men older than myself.

I do know many women my age and older (I am 41) who prefer younger men, so I am sure that if you are patient enough you will find someone.


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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 6:22:14 PM   
hisannabelle


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Status: offline 		i don't really see age as an issue, so if i were comfortable with the person's experience, i could see myself submitting to someone younger. that said, i tend to be more attracted to older men and my dominant is much older than i am, so it's not likely - but i wouldn't discount someone just because they're younger (as long as it's legal, which means i probably won't even be facing this issue for a few years because i'm only 19 anyway :P).

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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 6:23:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		I personally would not. I always have preferred older men and women. Not to say age = experience. I just like older.

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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 6:26:17 PM   
rascallymisty


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Status: offline 		My ex Master was 8 years younger than I and He was one of the best thing that has happen in my life. If I was not owned by David now, yeah I would do so again. Good luck in what ever you decide to do.
 
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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 6:27:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sure. If he struck me as mature beyond his years and met all other qualifications. However if I thought he wanted to dom me just because I'm older then him, I wouldn't.

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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 6:55:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have never been much interested in younger men even when I was vanilla. The largest age differential for me with a man was 3 years younger, and it never went past casual dating, and I am not casual about my submission. At this point in my life I cannot see myself ever being with a younger dominant...even if I was ever in the market for a dom, which I am not. My Daddy is very close in age to me compared to most men I have dated, some of them old enough to be my father.

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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 7:04:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well being that Thorns is 13 years younger than i am, and probably one of the most intelligent Men i have ever met in my life.  I could not base my like for Him when we first met on His age.   When we met many years ago, i would never have thought this Man was younger than i was.  His vast knowledge, and eagerness to absorb everything He could get His hands on, then try it out was awesome.

I will say, i fell in love with The Man........not His age. 

There are always exceptions to what one is looking for.....sometimes it's staring you right in the face, you just have to look back.

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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 7:04:52 PM   
nissa


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Status: offline 		I would not. I perfer men who are older than myself.

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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 7:10:03 PM   
goodpet


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Status: offline 		i do every day and night.. but it is only 5 years difference.

i would have a problem with some in their 20's for the same reason as innatedesire, my oldest is 24 and it would just not work to be with someone so close to her age..  but someone in their 30's, i could submit for play or more but not really for a long term relationship. just too much difference. but someone 10 years or so younger.. say in their 40's, yes.
and 5 years younger is a wonderful difference..

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RE: Lady's would you submit to a younger dom? - 3/6/2007 7:13:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		If he was tall and very handsome, i would consider it...and of course knew what He was doing....

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