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myobedience -> Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/11/2007 1:08:27 PM)

OK the subject is brought up, who wants to watch their sub with another Dom?
 
But how many of you ladies, submissives and slaves, have gone from strict managomy and found watching your Dom with another sub/slave is intoxicatingly arousing??
 
Why is it so arousing?
Does it depend on who the other gal is?
Is there any jealousy?
Who brought the "scene" up, you or your Dom?
 
Just curious.........



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/11/2007 1:16:47 PM)

will never know because Daddy would never have sex with another submissive/slave.  when He says we're a monogamous Daddy-daughter relationship, He means exactly that.



daddysprop247 -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/11/2007 1:24:46 PM)

although it's something i've seen VERY rarely, and in a very limited capacity, i enjoy seeing my Master use another woman. it's not about arousal...it doesn't turn me on. it's more that i find it fascinating to see him from a new perspective. i have never felt any feelings of jealousy at the thought or reality of him using another woman sexually, we don't have those issues. He's the Master, he has full right to have sex or whatever else with whomever he pleases. and that is the way we both feel is natural and right.



bayboundse -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/11/2007 1:29:51 PM)

When Master is with another woman it turns me on and makes me feel like Im giving him something. It makes me feel extremely submissive. I love to see him Dom to another woman. It also makes me feel close to the other sub/slave.
The first time with any other sub/slave is a little tense for me. I do not know why. But after the ice breaker it is something I look forward to watching, joining, or just knowing it is going on.



softspokenslave -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/11/2007 4:30:35 PM)

I have often seen my Master with another slave/submissive.  It is very erotic to watch for me.  I love to see my Master being pleased and I get to join in as well.  There has not been jealousy on my part.  The reason for that is because my Master takes the time to make certain that I know that I am loved and cherished.  Being with another slave will not change that fact. I feel safe and secure.  I think that makes all the difference to me. 

jen



StellaByStarlite -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/11/2007 5:59:41 PM)

Hello. =)

Awww, man... that is absolutely one of my top hot fantasies.. my owner crudely using another woman. Specifically, a really fine woman, lol.

I don't know why! maybe a bit of emotional masochism? At any rate, he and I have discussed this and he's just not into it. Yet. Heh =)

Cheers,
Stella



ftmouse -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/11/2007 6:13:10 PM)

I have watched and also been given to other Doms.  None has been in the conventional sexual maner, its has been service, flogging and yes penetration of the other sub using various fun things lol.  Did i feel jealously, yes i have and we talk about it, alot,  we are committed to each other and neither of us is not going to loose the other over public play scene activites.  I also get very proud when she says, i can take more or that she enjoys my reactions much more.  The key is communication and trust and to know that both of you are commetted to each other well being.



mstrjx -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/11/2007 6:22:11 PM)

I've been the 'other Dom' numerous times, with the main Dom present and without.

I've been with two submissives on my own once, with my partner and the woman who originally introduced us.

I've been (as part of a couple) with another couple, swapping partners.

But it was always 'play' in an SM sense, and sex was never involved (at least not for the men involved).  There would have been touching with the hand and/or toys, manipulation to orgasm for the women, but I've always been fully clothed in those scenes.

When I'm with a partner, I'm sexually monogamous.  In the case of being the 'third', it was always with the understanding that intercourse would not be permitted.  Which was fine for me; I wouldn't want to mess up someone else's relationship.

Jeff



lighthearted -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/11/2007 7:32:29 PM)

me!  for pretty much the same reasons others have mentioned:  he wants it, I want it, neither of us are concerned our relationship would be affected, we both find the idea very arousing...

now finding that other woman, that is the real challenge...



michaels4evr -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/11/2007 7:37:18 PM)

me! Do you know anyone??



beltainefaerie -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/11/2007 7:42:58 PM)

I have related experience, but not exactly what the OP asked.  Hope that is okay.

My Master is always with another woman, his wife and my sisterslave, but I have never been permitted to watch them be sexually intimate.  My husband, who is not my master, I have watched with another and I adore it.  I love them both and there is nothing more beautiful than watching them together.  It is arousing, somewhat in the same sense that porn is, only more intense, as it is real and even more intense, because I love them.  It is especially fun, because I know what it is like to be with him and I know what pleasure she is experiencing.  It was a sexual fantasy for me and I brought it up originally, but now that it has become a reality, my husband adores watching me with her as well.



Wildfleurs -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/11/2007 7:51:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: myobedience

OK the subject is brought up, who wants to watch their sub with another Dom?
 
But how many of you ladies, submissives and slaves, have gone from strict managomy and found watching your Dom with another sub/slave is intoxicatingly arousing??



I have.

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Why is it so arousing?


I dunno, it was this very strong viceral, "fuck the bitch" almost sadistic (towards her) urge I got.  It was strange but hot.

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Does it depend on who the other gal is?


Yes.  It was a very close friend of mine who I was with a long time ago in the past who is in a relationship of her own so I trusted her completely and had a bond with her.  With someone I didn't trust it would have been much harder.

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Is there any jealousy?


There has been in the past, but not with her.

In terms of who brought it up I think probably over time my owner, but I was the one that specifically arranged this for him.

C~



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/11/2007 8:01:34 PM)

I do not find this appealing.I would find it abhorrent..Some may say that jealousy has to do with low self esteem...if some feel the need to state that  then so be it..Personally I just consider it my nature...I do not share...Tempting



toservez -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/12/2007 9:21:23 AM)

I have no problem with it. I actually enjoy it very much on several levels. Just seeing my Master happy is a turn on but there is also a thrill of letting another get a sample of what I get to have every day. I have other reasons that go into philosophical debate that I will not stroke a fire by mentioning them here.

I am one that can share sexually easily but have no ability to share a heart so anything poly or some activity that involves getting to know someone else deeply is out of the question.



sleazybutterfly -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/12/2007 9:29:52 AM)

That is one thing I will never find out, nor do I want to.  Master and I have a mongamous relationship, no sharing.



mixielicous -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/12/2007 9:50:41 AM)

i can admit to not being emotionally strong enough for this, but Mine knows this and respects my pure devotion for Him by giving the same in return.



daddysprop247 -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/12/2007 9:58:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: toservez

I am one that can share sexually easily but have no ability to share a heart so anything poly or some activity that involves getting to know someone else deeply is out of the question.




i am the same way...sex and the satiation of physical needs and desires is one thing, but if he were to ever express a desire for another slave, or even want to play with/use a friend, someone i knew he cared for on some level...that would devastate me.



MissyRane -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/12/2007 10:02:39 AM)

If he needs to have another woman or if I aint enough for him he can fuck off already![;)]



Caitriona -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/12/2007 10:30:32 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: myobedience
But how many of you ladies, submissives and slaves, have gone from strict managomy and found watching your Dom with another sub/slave is intoxicatingly arousing??


I am in a triad relationship consisting of My Lord, myself and another female slave named cari.
 
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ORIGINAL: myobedienceWhy is it so arousing?


I'm bisexual, so I'm attracted to her.  My attraction to My Lord should be obvious.  So seeing two people that I care for and find attractive is bound to appeal.  I suppose that is only helped by the fact that I am allowed to join in!

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ORIGINAL: myobedienceDoes it depend on who the other gal is?


Yes.  My Lord "plays" with others at the dungeon and it does not arouse me the same way to see him with any other as it does when He is with cari.

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ORIGINAL: myobedienceIs there any jealousy?


Not really.  We're all involved. 

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ORIGINAL: myobedienceWho brought the "scene" up, you or your Dom?


I have been maintained dual relationships (one male, one female) since I was 16.  This is the first time they have ever "mingled" so to speak.  It was something My Lord knew about when we met, and eventually he suggested bringing in another slave.




Elorin -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/12/2007 8:03:36 PM)

But how many of you ladies, submissives and slaves, have gone from strict managomy and found watching your Dom with another sub/slave is intoxicatingly arousing??
I haven't come from strict monogamy, but I have found watching Sir with others is infinitely enjoyable.

Why is it so arousing?
There's this...thing, see? When Sir is playing with me, I believe he is having a good time. I really do. But I can't focus on his good time so much because what he is doing to me is so...fucking...DISTRACTING! These canes, clips, dildos, electricity, rope, living fire on my flesh...I tend to get stuck on what I'm feeling and not how he is enjoying it. When Sir plays with someone else, I get to watch his face, hear everything he says, listen to him laugh. I get to experience his joy in a way that I can't experience when he is doing things to me. And I love it. Although, I must admit...I'm often very tempted to join him and cause havoc. We love co-topping so when he plays with others I often end up partnering him in torturing the person who chose to play with us.

Does it depend on who the other gal is?
I enjoy watching Sir play with people I like much more than with people I don't know or people I dislike. But I like it either way.

Is there any jealousy?
Yep. Especially when it comes to fire, this little baby voice in my head cries out "but ~I~ wanna get lit on fire...." Thankfully, it normally sticks inside my head. Sometimes, it erupts with a "Daddy, do me next!" But when Sir has just finished with me, there's no jealousy at all. Just smug happiness that Sir is playing with someone else and still gets to be evil and sadistic even though I can't take anymore.

Who brought the "scene" up, you or your Dom?
Um...Sir has met people and wanted to play with them, others have come to talk to us and asked if he would do X to them, I've suggested to subs that they let Sir do Y because he's really good at it, or because I'm too tired but if they want to play with Sir, he'd be willing. So a wide variety.

Just curious.........



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