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juliaoceania -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/12/2007 9:41:19 PM)
I do not want to watch my Daddy with another woman at this point. It could one day happen that I would want to, but at this point I do not want to. I leave these decisions in his hands, but that does not mean it would be something I wanted to see, and I would probably want to claw her eyes out[:D]

Darkhaven80 -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/12/2007 9:58:12 PM)
Here, here! :) I'm a voyeur at heart but never have been able to experience it. Since I was a teenage, whether vanilla or in the attempted D/s relationships, with every person I have a fantasy of seeing them with another women. What a hot thought! Sadly (and surprisingly) no one's taken me up on it...[:'(]

MasterNdorei -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/13/2007 1:48:37 AM)
i do! i do! i was always in monogamous relationships before the one i have with Master. i have played as the visiting third partner for friends when i was single, but never had another enter the relationship i was in. To answer the OP, it was definately Master who brought up the poly household idea, and hence the visitors... This definately qualifies as intoxicating, but i can't say it was arousing... i did had an experience i never expected, the first time Master brought in another woman. At one point Master had me laying, facing Him, draped over His chest (probably trying to gadge how i was doing) while the other girl served Him orally. To watch His face melt completly into bliss as she settled into Him, watching Him try to maintain His composure, but melt anyway, was one of the hottest, most intoxicating moments i have ever witnessed. Without this moment, i would never know the expressions that appear on Master's face, and just how pleased He is. i often think about that when i am pleasing Him with my mouth and throat. i can not say that it aroused me, but that moment, that picture in my mind, inspires me to always want to do my best even today. My best friend joins me in serving Master over weekends sometimes (Her top husband spends that same weekend with his toy, so it works out great). i absolutley love when she joins us. It feels good seeing how pleased Master is (He really does "wear" 2 women very well), and to see my best friend g-l-o-w afterwards. But what i love best is that she and i share an intimate bond, as she is the only person in my world who knows first hand how hot Master is, the level of service i provide Him daily, and what my life is really like. it makes my relationship with her ever closer. i am never jealous of the sexual interactions with any of the women who hae joined us, because i so love seeing Master that happy. i never feel inept because i know there are some things one girl simply can not do... i could never provide Master with a set of boobs and a set of buttcheeks on both sides of Him while He sleeps. i like being the girl who helps make all His dreams come true. For me, it definately depends on the girl. If she and i have no connection, or worse yet a bad connection, the whole thing feels "un authentic" to me, and is a challenge. The same can be said if Master and i are not in perfect harmony when He wants me to serve Him sexually. These are the times that can make me strong, when i am able to focus on His happiness, and behave as if i were happy too. We always talk afterwards, so there is no reason to make anyone feel uncomfortable in the heat of the moment. Sorry for such a long post! Master's dorei

littleone35 -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/13/2007 1:43:48 PM)
Nope, no way not ever Not that it waould happen Master and i are in a committed monogamous relationship. Seeing him with anoither would not br arousing to me as a matter of fact it would break my heart. I love him so much and am glad i am his only one.( i am not saying that the others do not love their Masters). Matt's littleone

prettyslavtiedup -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/13/2007 6:44:25 PM)
i am currently faced with this- my Master wishes to find a beta for us to enjoy. i want to please Him but i find myself feeling inadequate and jealous. i have never been with another woman but have had a threesome. He wishes for He and i to both enjoy this beta. He requires me to find this beta and arrange our scene.i have been with this Master for 6 months and this is our first BDSM relationship.i love this man and would like to be his life partner. i am happily collared. i liked your response to the question - what do you think of my situation?

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/13/2007 6:54:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: prettyslavtiedup i am currently faced with this- my Master wishes to find a beta for us to enjoy. i want to please Him but i find myself feeling inadequate and jealous. i have never been with another woman but have had a threesome. He wishes for He and i to both enjoy this beta. He requires me to find this beta and arrange our scene.i have been with this Master for 6 months and this is our first BDSM relationship.i love this man and would like to be his life partner. i am happily collared. i liked your response to the question - what do you think of my situation? Was this something to two of you discussed as a possibility before you decided to submit to him? Edited to add...... are you talking about another slave in the household or someone who will just join the two of you for casual play?

blackwinterbyrd -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/13/2007 6:56:49 PM)
I had one threesome where I burst into tears. and a couple more that were amazingly hot. Mostly I think the diff is, when we co-top someone, I love it. when I'm tied up, I can't deal with my lover and another interacting that way. subspace=vulnerable. haven't found anybody else I trust enough to bottom to.

prettyslavtiedup -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/13/2007 7:08:50 PM)
Thank you for the reply.We talked of this before i submitted- He seems urgent about it right now - it would be for casual play. Our contract states that we would not have sex outside our relationship but with both of us present. i assume after the first time it would be easier. i feel myself slipping away from Him. Master is everything to me and i have given Him all but this. i am confused.

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/13/2007 7:18:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: prettyslavtiedup Thank you for the reply.We talked of this before i submitted- He seems urgent about it right now - it would be for casual play. Our contract states that we would not have sex outside our relationship but with both of us present. i assume after the first time it would be easier. i feel myself slipping away from Him. Master is everything to me and i have given Him all but this. i am confused. You definitely need to talk to him and tell him how you are feeling. Each of us is different in how we view this sort of thing and how it affects us. We may even find ourselves having a totally unexpected reaction to something we agreed to in the beginning. I understand about the jealousy and feelings of inadequacy because I would feel the exact same way. And I'm sure others can offer more info, but I think finding a third, even if only for casual play, is rather difficult. There's a lot to consider.

MasterNdorei -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/13/2007 8:17:09 PM)
BRNaughtyAngel wrote: We may even find ourselves having a totally unexpected reaction to something we agreed to in the beginning. This is sooooooooooo true!

Kana -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/13/2007 8:34:03 PM)
Can we say communication, like lots and lots of it, before and afterwards. Before any new dynamics get added to a mix, make sure that the foundations that have been built are solid and secure. If there is fear, and there should be a bit the first time out, talk it through. If there is eroticism, enjoy it, but be wary of the emotions that can unexpectedly arise. I have done this before when in relations that we would have labled open-by which it was meant that it was understood that another women could and would be involved at some point. This was all arranged in contract in advance. That certainly did not preclude me from checking her emotional pulse before trying anything new. The reality is that while she was under a contract, she is my alpha, I am going to be cognizant of her feelings. To do less, would be to do her wrong. The rule we tended to follow was to find a slave attractive to both of us, one time only per slave,so as to not arouse jealousy or power struggles within what was a happy home. It worked well.I would do it again, but the key element is to know the players in the partry

MasterNdorei -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/14/2007 12:27:50 AM)
prettislavtiedup, You wrote that after the first time, you think it will get easier, and there may be some truth to that... but there may not be. It will depend on who your first and remaining girls are, and how you relate to them. i admire you for following through, even if it is no the easiest thing for you to do. i suggest holding out until you do find a girl you feel good about but be sincere in your search. Best of luck to you~* Master's dorei

lighthearted -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/14/2007 5:45:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: prettyslavtiedup Thank you for the reply.We talked of this before i submitted- He seems urgent about it right now - it would be for casual play. Our contract states that we would not have sex outside our relationship but with both of us present. i assume after the first time it would be easier. i feel myself slipping away from Him. Master is everything to me and i have given Him all but this. i am confused. even tho Master and I have both expressed to each other that this is something we both desire, the first time we seriously considered it we both realized that I wasn't really ready for it, meaning as secure as I thought I was in our relationship, there were some underlying issues there which proved otherwise. to me, the most important thing is the foundation of your relationship. your confusion is a big flag that there's an issue there. I'm not saying this in the sense that I'm trying to put you down, only to say, if at this point a 3some is going to cause you this much doubt, confusion and pain when you are even thinking about it, then perhaps you need more time. I wouldn't go any further without discussing what you are feeling with him, and in detail. at that point you can decide for yourself what's going on in your relationship and where or not bringing another person in, even just for play, is going to strengthen or diminish your bond with your master.

prettyslavtiedup -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/14/2007 7:02:22 AM)
Thanks to all who replied - Master and i have talked things through and He has graciously given me the option of letting Him know when i am ready for this next step.

fiestyredhead -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/29/2007 6:17:46 AM)
I love to watch my other half use another female submissive, however I would rather be involved if just watching... Instead my Husband likes going over to other female's home leaving me to watch our teenage kids... .:(

sweetstorm -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/29/2007 6:36:58 AM)
While I am monogamous, it's understood to me that my Dom has options. I've been in poly relationships before and it didn't bother me, but this Dom is much more special to me. I would LOVE to watch Him with another woman and I've told Him this! The reason - I think - is probably because of a little jealousy on my part. I guess if He's going to be with other women, I want to be a part of it and that's my motivation behind it. Kind of a face-your-fears thing. Plus there is the masochistic/humiliation part of me that wants to see Him satisfied by someone else. I've told Him that I want to watch Him have sex with another woman while I watch and masturbate, then have Him cum on her face and I will lick it off and kiss Him with it still in my mouth.

OsideGirl -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (3/29/2007 7:09:35 AM)
What was negotiated was that we would start as a monogamous relationship. Because adding people only works if everyone in the current relationship feel secure, it was decided that if and when I felt comfortable enough the subject would be broached by me. I love watching Master with someone else. He and I have such a dynamic energy (we're connected somewhere in outer space), but I rarely get to "see" his, just feel it. It allows me to see and feel that energy coming from him. Anyone he plays with gets vetted by me for simple reason that men tend to be not good as spotting female bonk jobs. The last thing we want is someone that ends up being a psycho Betty in our house.

SlaveBlutarsky -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (4/1/2007 7:34:05 PM)
I'm pretty sure if my Domme wanted to be with another woman I'd have no problems with it :)

completenz -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (4/1/2007 10:00:36 PM)
hi We are strictly monogamous. That was a hard limit for both of us before we began. If sharing works for others then go for it!!! It is just not for us, ever. hugs c

Mustardseed -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (4/1/2007 10:32:43 PM)
Want is a strong term. I've been in a couple of poorly handled -- by all parties -- poly relationships and have been treated like crap during them, especially during FMF threesomes. Daddy, who'd only beenin MFM threesomes, really wanted to be in one with two women and made it very clear during a couple of public events that having this Right Now would be a good thing. This didn't go well. Last year, we ended up with a third for a few months and Daddy got his threesomes out of it. It was nice, and I found that I wasn't jealous while watching ... it was more the stuff that happened when I wasn't around that got to me when it was later reported back. Even that wasn't hideous as much as it gave me the odd small twinge. So, no -- I don't want to see him with another woman. But depending on the woman and how important it ended up feeling, I could do it again without it being the end of the world.

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