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Lordandmaster -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (4/1/2007 10:46:40 PM)

Peach never seems to mind.

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ORIGINAL: myobedience

OK the subject is brought up, who wants to watch their sub with another Dom?



OsideGirl -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (4/2/2007 7:39:56 AM)

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ORIGINAL: prettyslavtiedup

i  am currently faced with this- my Master wishes to find a beta for us to enjoy. i want to please Him but i find myself feeling inadequate and jealous.
If this is the way you feel, then now is not the time to be adding a third. It won't magically go away when a third gets added. For this kind of thing to work everyone has to feel secure.



Lordandmaster -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (4/2/2007 7:42:41 AM)

Oops, I misread that.

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Peach never seems to mind.

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ORIGINAL: myobedience

OK the subject is brought up, who wants to watch their sub with another Dom?



mixielicous -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (4/2/2007 8:02:34 AM)

fast reply, ugh i tried to read this thread but it just makes my stomach churn with misery, lol.



arayofsunshine55 -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (4/4/2007 7:55:16 PM)

Well Daddy is married so strict monogamy has never been on the plate.  And there was also a second woman in the picture when I arrived.   But he and I do not spend time with those two women.  but I have shared him with other women.  And it does continue to take some mental machinations on my part.  But I have very very intesensly exciting memories of watching him fuck another woman with a hand around each of our throats.  And an amazing reaction to watching his Cock work in and out of another.  So much so that I have a habit of masturbating and cumming to the videos.  And in it all what I am focussed on is his physical pleasure.  Watchng him rut and enjoy himself brings me pleasure which causes my cunt to gush.  It's all about his pleasure and my ability to find my own pleasure through his pleasure.  Is it easy?  Not necessarily.  Is it rewarding?  Yes.  It is satisfying?  Hell yes.



secondself -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (4/4/2007 8:18:20 PM)

It has always been a fabulous fantasy of mine to watch my Master with another woman and have one or both verbally degrade me while they're at it.  Kind of like the reverse of a cuckold (I've heard the term cuckquean used a few times).  I'm huge into verbal humiliation and degredation anyway, so the idea of my Master fucking another woman, commenting about how I could never be as good a fuck as she is, or her telling me that I'm so worthless I'm driving him into her arms, just sends me into puddles of orgasms.



martyrized -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (4/4/2007 8:34:27 PM)

I agree completely with you there, Tempting. I am territorial to a fault, and though I am working on it for the sake of my Templar's sanity, I don't like the idea of Him being with another woman.

On the other hand, though, He has mentioned bringing home another man for playtime... hm. [sm=idea.gif]



grlneedstolearn -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (4/4/2007 9:44:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: myobedience

OK the subject is brought up, who wants to watch their sub with another Dom?
 
But how many of you ladies, submissives and slaves, have gone from strict managomy and found watching your Dom with another sub/slave is intoxicatingly arousing??
 
Why is it so arousing?
Does it depend on who the other gal is?
Is there any jealousy?
Who brought the "scene" up, you or your Dom?
 
Just curious.........


Actually that happened with my Dom, myself, and one of my friends who was curious about it. i initially brought it up with my Dom and he agreed. Was it arousing?? Oh definitly, for me anyways. No jealousy, we both got our fair share [:D]



SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (4/4/2007 9:57:57 PM)

Not many wish to see thier Dom impale another subbie as they fear of losing him to another.

Ross
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CuriousLord -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (4/5/2007 3:51:17 AM)

Not a sub, though, on the subject..

Slave girls who enjoy watching me with another girl now rather scare me.  I am, by no means, implying this is a universal pattern, but, for my relationships, slaves who were eager to see me with others were also cheaters.  Very.. very.. good.. at covering it up for the better part of a year, normally.  The sort rather scare me now.. it's a red flag.



twistedkytten -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (4/5/2007 3:52:36 AM)

I have to say, that I do! I have in past relationships.. and watching Him use another, is so incredibly intoxicating.. it is maddening!



collaredlilone -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (4/5/2007 9:25:08 AM)

in girl's poly home there is only girl as far as a slave. there is as well girl's Mistress and a good friend who stays here within O/our group. girl cannot say anything when it comes to watching a slave/sub with her Domanant/s. although yes girl will admit...(blushes)
she gets turned on quite a bit by watching her Master and Mistress together. this does not happen much but it does turn girl on. maybe this is not uncommon...lol
girl



brattybabe4u -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/19/2007 8:41:02 PM)

Littleone35.....are there Dominants out there looking for a D/s monogamous relationship? I feel as you do...I tried to be open with poly/non monogamous escapades and it tore out my heart.



trustingsubHF -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/20/2007 7:16:04 AM)

i would not understand the reason behind a Master wanting another sex partner. if He were not dedicated to me and me only then things would not go well. i was not looking for casual sex when i was seeking an Owner, i was seeking One and that was it. sex between two people that care for one another, and that share a bond that is only between the two is way more important to me than meaningless sex.
 



feastie -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/20/2007 8:42:54 AM)

No, I wouldn't want to see my dominant with another woman.  It has no place in my personal relationships.  Jealousy?  Perhaps.  Just the way I'm wired?  Definitely.  Gonna get over it?  Nope.



CrazyC -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/20/2007 9:21:51 AM)

I am not saying i would want a poly life, but like kytten...it is a complete turn on to seeing the person i love being turned on by another. I am more that I want the third to be a toy.

PS feastie....some people just don't find enjoyment in it, and it has nothing to do with jealousy. :)



breatheasone -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/20/2007 10:31:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: myobedience

OK the subject is brought up, who wants to watch their sub with another Dom?
 
But how many of you ladies, submissives and slaves, have gone from strict managomy and found watching your Dom with another sub/slave is intoxicatingly arousing??
 
Why is it so arousing?
Does it depend on who the other gal is?
Is there any jealousy?
Who brought the "scene" up, you or your Dom?
 
Just curious.........

NO!!...no way, not now, not ever. NEVER




feastie -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/20/2007 10:37:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CrazyC

I am not saying i would want a poly life, but like kytten...it is a complete turn on to seeing the person i love being turned on by another. I am more that I want the third to be a toy.

PS feastie....some people just don't find enjoyment in it, and it has nothing to do with jealousy. :)


CrazyC, I'm perfectly aware that it's not about jealousy.  But there are many who don't understand that.



GhitaAmati -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/20/2007 11:05:20 AM)

Ive never watched my Sir with another sub....but I have watched him fuck plenty of other women.....and yes its very arousing...course, I kinda enjoy watching anyone have sex.....not jealous in the least bit.....I also know I have never been in another relationship where I have ever or could ever have felt as comfortable as I am able to with Sir. So it has something to do with the strength of my relationship......I know its not the same for everyone, but thats how it is for me. I also know it turns him on quite a bit to see me getting fucked by another guy.....or another girl, but then what guy doesnt enjoy that...I hate that double standard, but thats for another thread I guess.....



CrazyC -> RE: Who wants to watch their Dom with another woman?? (8/20/2007 11:35:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: feastie

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ORIGINAL: CrazyC

I am not saying i would want a poly life, but like kytten...it is a complete turn on to seeing the person i love being turned on by another. I am more that I want the third to be a toy.

PS feastie....some people just don't find enjoyment in it, and it has nothing to do with jealousy. :)


CrazyC, I'm perfectly aware that it's not about jealousy.  But there are many who don't understand that.



I'm glad to know that. I wouldn't ever want you to think that others were judging you because of it.



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