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ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

It sounds like a rather yummy mind game to me....but just a game.  A lovely fantasy all the same.  Lots of doctors and lawyers and years to come true??  Play along and enjoy. 

Do not sign over any cash or property (if you have any) accumulated prior to your marriage to your new Master.  Ask for them to be held on trust for you (by a lawyer acting for you) until such time as you are released from your "slavery" or you or your master die.

Canadian law will govern your entitlement to the assets accumulated by you and your master as a couple after the marriage.  You should be entitled to about half and more if master blesses you with children

Disclaimer: I am not a lawyer in Canada and you should seek independent legal advice

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ORIGINAL: slavequery

yes, He did say there will be a couple doctors and a couple lawyers involved in the process. That the process will take months if not years to complete.


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In essence, should i ever "run" from Him for any reason, He simply has to pick up the phone and have me returned to Him.

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ORIGINAL: sleazybutterfly

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ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

Don't get too starstruck because there is a lot of red flags in this post which I am sure the more experienced then me will point out in the near future.

I would have to agree here.  So many that are new and haven't been involved in real life, or haven't had much experience will see this post and think this is the way it has to be, or that she is much more of a devoted slave than them because of her doing this.  That is a concern of mine.

What she is doing, is fine, there isn't anything wrong with it, if you are totally informed and have thought things out with the one you are with.  If you haven't (and sometimes if you have) it can be a very dangerous thing and you could be playing with fire. 

If this is what you want, that is great, I am happy for you.  I just don't want someone new to this to get this fairytale thing in their head about it and go and do something they will regret.  Real life slavery is not like a book, and should (more-so doing what she is) never be done until one is fully ready and prepared.

There are a lot of slaves (and subs before someone comes along and smacks me) that are every bit as devoted to their Master, yet haven't done anything of this magnitude.

All I am saying is, don't put rose colored glasses on and allow your romantic feelings of being totally owned by someone (legally as much as possible) to cloud your judgement as someone who has their whole life ahead of them and may someday not want that person to have all of that life in their hands.

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i wonder where the kindness of the lifestyle went to. We are always so fast to flame and burn others who  do not fit into our lifestyle mold. tisk tisk

shame shame

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ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

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ORIGINAL: slavequery

yes, He did say there will be a couple doctors and a couple lawyers involved in the process. That the process will take months if not years to complete.


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In essence, should i ever "run" from Him for any reason, He simply has to pick up the phone and have me returned to Him.

Come on, its  a great mind f*ck!.  Your master clearly has you completely conviced he can have you certified.  This isn't flaming; its admiration for a very cute and complicated idea.

Glad to hear the assets are socked away all the same. 

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ORIGINAL: Driver1961

He dips His lid to Slavequery.

I realize this subject is very emotional but I don't see how anyone has been unkind to you.   They are putting forward their views constructively and in a 'discussion' manner which is completely different to the way some see the forums as Debates.

Regards Driver

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ORIGINAL: Driver1961

Wow OK....... this is all surprising to me that it could be legal.   I question how this could be allowed in so called 'Western Society' unless Canada has some type of 'Home Guardian type Health provisions' (which would be against W.H.O. Human Rights standards I think)  My belief is that in Australia a person would have to be certified legally insane for any possibility of this being able to occur however I still believe it would still be deemed 'unlawful imprisonment' and the imprisoner/perpertator being held liable still for negating the W.H.O. rights of the individual.   (Our current predicament with the U.S. Govt concerning an Australian Michael Hicks held for Terrorist activity comes to mind here too)

My best advice is to get off your bum/fanny pronto and get to a lawyer conversant in Human Rights to satisfy your concerns.

Warm regards (I do understand your submission aspects here)   Driver.

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In essence, should i ever "run" from Him for any reason, He simply has to pick up the phone and have me returned to Him.

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ORIGINAL: valeca

Power of Attorney

Adult Guardianship (in BC, but you can google for whatever Province/Territory you're in)

I'm not so much against this if it's what you want, but I'm a little surprised that you couldn't find any information.  It took only seconds to find pages and pages worth of information on Power of Attorney and Guardianship.  Because you aren't (as far as we know) mentally incapacitated, you would be involved in the meetings with the lawyer and s/he would be fully explaining what is involved, your legal rights, how to terminate, etc., as well as with various doctors.

Oh, and this:

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In essence, should i ever "run" from Him for any reason, He simply has to pick up the phone and have me returned to Him.

...isn't the way it works.

As I said, if it's what you want, s'all good, but having dealt with a number of people with the control of Power of Attorney or Guardianship, I've never come across any that have wanted to cut their ward off from outside communication.  It raises flags for me, simply because it isn't healthy emotionally.

Good luck.

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ORIGINAL: slavequery

i am well known on these boards. So as to maintain my anonymity, i chose to open this account.
this is a very serious topic, and the query is very real for me.

As background info to help with any future comments, i offer the following: Master and i met here on the CM forum. He and i struck up a conversation that lasted almost that first entire day. We both got a few ZZZs and came back on line and talked with each other again for hours. After a week of conversing like this, we moved to the phone system as a way of communicating. After a couple months of both online and phone discussions, we met face to face. That was well over a year ago. He moved me to Him. He officially collared me. i could not be any happier. He has now chosen to take wedding vows. ok, im cool with that. He put a tattoo and a brand on me. They are beautiful.

Here comes the query. He wants to move into total control over me. i have no problem with this as it was something i have always wanted. He and i discussed long long ago His desires to do this and i consented willingly to this.

.......to give him control over my mind soul body spirit. i have always longed for this, so i have no trouble with this.

He has always been very open with me prior to embarking on any change He makes with me. i love this about Him.

Last night, He informed me He will be starting a form of brainwashing where any contact i will have with the outside world will be solely at His discretion. ok. That He is having papers drawn up with a lawyer that gives Him power of attorney over me. ok, still no problem here. He is also having papers drawn up giving all control over my physical being for the length of my natural life. ok, still no problem here. He explained to me, that in Canada, under the mental health laws, once these papers have been entered into court of law, they are final.

In essence, should i ever "run" from Him for any reason, He simply has to pick up the phone and have me returned to Him.

Believe it or not, i still have no problem with this. But my query is; it there any of you out in CM land who is aware of just what Master is planning on doing? i have tried googling and can not seem to find much info. i just want to be well informed about what is about to happen to me.

my time on the computer will be cut off in a few days....remember, Master will gain control over every aspect of outside contact i will have. So please hurry with your responses and info.

For those of you who wish to flame me or my Master, remember please that this is something i want, and am walking into willingly. Soon very soon over the next few months i will enter into complete servitude.

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ORIGINAL: BeingChewsie

Hi,

I don't have any issue with this but I do wonder what type of info you are looking for? It seems this is more of a shock the natives thread than anything else.

It sounds like he is going to have you found incompetent and become your guardian with your help and approval. You are not the first person to have done this. I have heard of a few Owner/property dynamics where these types of guardianships are in place.

I don't have any issue with the isolation, it raises no red flags for me, as isolation can play an important part in tearing down a current belief systems and rebuilding new ones..it is what cults do...nothing nefarious..simple psychology.

I just don't know what kind of facts you hope to find on CM, it would seem a law library would be your best bet.

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ORIGINAL: slavequery

Last night, He informed me He will be starting a form of brainwashing where any contact i will have with the outside world will be solely at His discretion. ok. That He is having papers drawn up with a lawyer that gives Him power of attorney over me. ok, still no problem here. He is also having papers drawn up giving all control over my physical being for the length of my natural life. ok, still no problem here. He explained to me, that in Canada, under the mental health laws, once these papers have been entered into court of law, they are final.

Believe it or not, i still have no problem with this. But my query is; it there any of you out in CM land who is aware of just what Master is planning on doing? i have tried googling and can not seem to find much info. i just want to be well informed about what is about to happen to me.

For those of you who wish to flame me or my Master, remember please that this is something i want, and am walking into willingly. Soon very soon over the next few months i will enter into complete servitude.

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I agree with Valeca and will say if your master wants to inform you of what he's doing and why he's doing it- why wouldn't he have you there at each step of the way and let you read over the paperwork?  If anything, it would make it more real and intense that this is "really what's happening to me" to see the paperwork tangibly from your own eyes.

I also am fine with everything he proposes, though I'm really not sure how valid he would be able to attain total guardianship over a competent adult.  But if it can be done without wasting too many other people's time and energy, then enjoy.

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ORIGINAL: slavequery

thank you

It is just this type of info i desire. That it has been done before. Do you know if the slaves were kept safe? How did they fare?

As for other info, i guess what i seek is for what i currently am having a difficult time understanding. i do have an appointment with a lawyer, so i will have a lot of my questions answered then. i am hungry for knowledge from ANYWHERE at this point.

Could you kindly go into depth, if you have such info, on the few M/s relationships you are aware of?

thank you

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ORIGINAL: BeingChewsie

Hi,

I don't have any issue with this but I do wonder what type of info you are looking for? It seems this is more of a shock the natives thread than anything else.

It sounds like he is going to have you found incompetent and become your guardian with your help and approval. You are not the first person to have done this. I have heard of a few Owner/property dynamics where these types of guardianships are in place.

I don't have any issue with the isolation, it raises no red flags for me, as isolation can play an important part in tearing down a current belief systems and rebuilding new ones..it is what cults do...nothing nefarious..simple psychology.

I just don't know what kind of facts you hope to find on CM, it would seem a law library would be your best bet.

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ORIGINAL: daddysprop247

BeingChewsie is correct....this sort of situation is not exactly unheard of in M/s unions. my Master is also my legal guardian, and he has full legal and medical control over my affairs. there are a couple of ways to do this, at least here in the US, one of which is being declared mentally unstable and incompetent. this was the route he took, which was quite easy given my history of major depression/in-patient psych care. i am not familiar with Canadian laws nor your medical history, so i cannot say how it will be in your particular case.

more pressing to me would be why do you feel the need to know these things in the first place? it seems to me that any information your Master found appropriate for you to know, he would have shared with you, or will share with you at the proper time. this is not a flame, but a bunch of strangers on CM is the last place to turn with the sort of questions you have.