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Mastaziel -> RE: Long distance punishment ideas. (12/4/2007 3:57:58 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Mavis
i know how these old posts get ressurected!
Today is Dec 3rd, 2007. i just received this mail from collarbot:
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DMFParadox at 10/7/2007 1:15:23 PM
Hello
DMFParadox has just posted to a thread or forum you have subscribed to entitled - RE: Long distance punishment ideas. - in the General BDSM Discussion section of the Collarchat.com forums.
This thread is located at: http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=1331261
Hmm... ok. His post is dated Nov 12 of this year, is true, but why sending the notice now? And why no notices on the subsequent additions after that post? Collarbot is stoned, or is a very slow acting submissive.. and to think i came racing over to see what's new. [:D]
Maybe collarbot should have kept a journal so it would have remembered. sigh.
Is a funny thread for Me, I have different ideas about what punishment is. (YAY) And what correction is. ([image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m18.gif[/image]) But then I'm new and only just learning, I'll get there I guess. And I love this site because I can learn, I can look at an idea or discussion and take what I want from it and hopefully learn something from it. Is cool.
For Me punishment is for minor little things, some imagined or feeble excuse...like not being naked and covered in purple body paint at the time perhaps. PLAY!
Correction is just that, correction of the slight and not so slight flaws that might crop up in training.
Love the ideas for correction that have been posted here though, and definitely the best way for it to work is some thing fitting. Like the thought of an essay for missing journal posts.
It would depend on the relationship, but it really shouldn't take a long time to correct your slave, depending on your consistency and her responsiveness. Short, to the point, understandable, but usually not sweet. It's alot of work, hard for both, but if the relationship is worth while, the it's worth the effort. Other wise punishment is the way to go, as it's alot more fun.
50 days, a bit long for Me. I mean telling her she must masturbate everyday to My picture once upon waking, and again before falling asleep for 40 days, and then celibacy and not looking at your picture for the last ten. That should produce an interesting expression on her face when she sees you again after so long. FUN! Mmmm, especially if she's picking you up at the bus stop or airport. But that's not punishment or correction....it's just damn nasty. [sm=banana.gif]
With two identical copies of the same erotic (um, like REALLY nasty) book you can have alot of fun, send messages, or little love notes by giving the exact page and word count reference. (just because you can, because it is easy to text/email/write, and because even when you're tired and don't have the words to describe how you feel you can still let her know by using someone else's. ;D)
For correction though, it can be used constructively by getting her to list her favorite and least favorite parts in the book, then pick one and have her detail why she liked or didn't like it. What could have made it better, what particular thoughts did it invoke, how did it make her feel. It's a good way to learn more about her, how she thinks, how she reacts, and what gets her panting. And in the OP's case it'd get his little girl writing and hopefully enjoy it.
(note: I don't see correction as always having to be negative, it shouldn't be mistaken for a reward, but positive reinforcement of desired responses can sometimes be as effective as negative.)
Been missing out on all the fun punishment ideas, though the rice one does sound interesting.
And the ginger. [sm=evil.gif] nice.
A couple of general idea's for punishments or fun over long distance off the top of My head are...
chopsticks either side of the nipples bound together with rubber bands can be a fun and easy way for nipple torture, or stronger material and heavy sprung clamps.
she's to buy a toddlers spoon, one with the BIG rounded handle that she must abuse herself with daily, and use as the ONLY implement for eating. (sterilized or not depending on your particular bent.)
If they still sell them, those silly putty eggs are GREAT! Chuck the silly putty, get a steal ball bearing and a picture of Yourself and place them inside. She's to "carry" you around all day every day until you're together. (probably hygienic to use a condom and change it often)
Mmm, sounds like fun....and definitely give her something to write about in her journal.
Well hell, it's late again. Time to go have sweet dreams of nasty little girls bound and whimpering for My attention and amusement.
Night all
Hugs and bites
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