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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/22/2007 2:46:52 AM

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so lets pull away form forecd then and ask ???/ MIstress es if you wanted or made your submissive dress in fmelaes things whay type of panties would you require if any ??/ also have any Mistresses made a females sub dress as males just wondering

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/22/2007 6:10:51 AM

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Yeah, I'm with you on this one, "forced" has it's own meaning in it's own context.

agreed. forced is typically not the proper term. but what to use then? strongly encouraged, requested to in order to please and excite One? i do really struggle with the correct way to put it per my posts under a couple of other topics.

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/22/2007 6:49:29 AM

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A confession on my part. The idea of alot of REAL FORCED activities turn me on and i would fight tooth and nail to keep thme from happening. However also, the entire idea turns me on way too much. So where exactly do the boundaries lie?

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/22/2007 7:25:36 AM

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I normally read posts and rarely respond to them, but i was digging under the sofa cushions and came up with 2 cents, so......

In my own experience there are things i might have fantasies about, but would never even consider doing in every-day life, often because there is some kind of stigma attached to it. So when/if a Mistress wants me to participate in one of those situations there is usually reluctance, but also a definite curiosity. So if the Mistress some way "forces" me to participate i am satisfying my curiosity and doing something i normally would not do, and the act of being "forced" psycologically helps to remove the guilt of doing the "forbidden" activity.

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/22/2007 7:42:14 AM

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I am starting to think that the word "forced" is more of a word used in a fantasy story telling or maybe what a sub might say when trying to explain his actions and still not take responsiablity for. Forced ,to me, means two people stripped you and forced you to dress fem. In fact it should be more like enticed or required expression by the dom. She/he expects it or else ( and this could be considered force) leave and never come back.
The most powerful way to control someone is letting them think its natural and sade to explore this interest. Comfort and acceptance, will encourage others to explore this interest. Once they take one step into feminzation, there should be another hurdle to explore and another. In fact the joy may come from the Mistress you can see her work over time and see her creation develop

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/22/2007 10:20:30 AM

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Seems to be a matter of "forced" or FORCED... I wonder if push come to shove,, would someone who fantasizes of forced "anything" actually panic if their fantasy started to become a reality. Alyways thought the magazine "Forced Womanhood" was pretty damn sexy myself.. Interesting concept,, kidnapped, forced onto hormones, forced into servicing a Mistresses men visitors, changed into a complete TS while held captive in some way by a Domme. Curious, does that practice really exist or are 100% of the stories in the popular magazine "fake" ?????????

Mostly likely 99.9% fantasy (ie fake).

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/22/2007 10:32:13 AM

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I think "forced" is used often for any activity you do not normally do, but are required to do for your Dom/Domme. He/She decides the extent, time, place....details and you do it whether you want to or not. A sub who wear no underwear on a regular basis but isrequired to wear ladies underwear everyday to please his Mistress is forced IMO, but that's just me. Another way of controlling.

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/22/2007 10:54:04 AM

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I think "forced" is used often for any activity you do not normally do, but are required to do for your Dom/Domme. He/She decides the extent, time, place....details and you do it whether you want to or not. A sub who wear no underwear on a regular basis but isrequired to wear ladies underwear everyday to please his Mistress is forced IMO, but that's just me. Another way of controlling.

agreed. that would fit into forced, as the litteral translation of the term seems to be a bit bothersome to S/some. but i just can't think of a better term that is not more of a description, then a single work. like being made to wear a butt plug for a period of time/while at work, etc. because She wishes it as well.

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/22/2007 3:33:46 PM

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Maybe the sexy real term should be "controling " and not "forced". I mean I can see a Mistress using her control to make a sub more to her liking if he is able to be controlled...which is an entirely differnt question to explore lol

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/22/2007 9:03:34 PM

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yes i to have to say i agreee controling is a great new term .. so we all agree we love too have a Mistress or a Female place and make use wear panties or other things even if we love want and crave it already ???//

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/22/2007 10:53:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: Cuckme4Life

Seems to be a matter of "forced" or FORCED... I wonder if push come to shove,, would someone who fantasizes of forced "anything" actually panic if their fantasy started to become a reality. Alyways thought the magazine "Forced Womanhood" was pretty damn sexy myself.. Interesting concept,, kidnapped, forced onto hormones, forced into servicing a Mistresses men visitors, changed into a complete TS while held captive in some way by a Domme. Curious, does that practice really exist or are 100% of the stories in the popular magazine "fake" ?????????

Mostly likely 99.9% fantasy (ie fake).

i have to agree with you on this Miss Aliya, because if this was actually a reality there would be quite a few more Dommes and subs around speaking of or advertising for such activity. Undergroundish activity more than likely, but still, word would get out to those who wish to "transexualize" their husbands or boyfriends in reality. There would be enough in the "know" as to where and who to to contact for such a reality.

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/23/2007 8:22:07 AM

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Maybe we should switch out and see how it feels and what they are thinking. I don't think it can be forced if it is consensual.
I may not understand their need for this, but that is the way the Mistress/slave relationship works.

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/23/2007 8:47:08 AM

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They want "it" and they want it bad,just a little part in their brain that says if i am "force" not because i want to...then its ok..bounty

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I agree with you BOUNTYHUNTER. I think many males want to do it but need soemthing to "justify" it and saying it is "forced" helps them not take responsibility for their own actions much less desires. Personally, I would make them own their desires and learn to be comfortable in their own skin instead of hiding behind this "Forced" nonsense.

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/24/2007 3:12:47 AM

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may i psoe anther twist here too the contorling of a feminized male or justa crossdressed one if you had or do have one have you ever made them serve a anther Domme or Dom ?????? i know some of the subs whos seek this switching of roles too be crossdressed im sure had secretly wanted too a submitt to a male ?

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/24/2007 3:37:47 AM

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Speaking of the forced or controlled issue from the subs part is fine, but lets not forget it can be a very exciting eperience for the Mistress.Specially one that seeks mentally to control the actions and thoughts of a slave even when their not together. The idea that once they leave your vciew and go back to their vanilla lives , they are taking apart of your direction back with them. Whether it be something simple like wearing something naughty under their suit and tie..to keeping a diary about seeing the world through a sissys eyes to going as far as chasity or being sent to others Mistresses to show off their talents. In general, there are a number of Mistresses who encourage this type of training or else the slave/sub is not real to them and has no future with them..

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/24/2007 9:05:51 AM

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good point but have you noticed not many Mistresses like this

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/24/2007 6:12:31 PM

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Very good answer

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/24/2007 6:35:41 PM

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Dear veronicaboundcd, Ladies and Gentlemen;

In my mind's eyes I see, 'forced' is non-consensual and the action/behavior is impose upon another.

That said, I really do not 'force' anybody. I'm a lady and ladies do not brawl on the mat, exposing their under garments to the public per se.
Perhaps, only when my life is threatened or that of my slaves will I "force" myself on another. Besides, it might break a nail (chuckles)

It really is 'fantasy' talk by those who want to have no connection or responsibility and or own their desires fully, to dress 'femme.' Most I've met who like cross-dressing and or sissy servants/maids are into the appearance and their fetish wear--not being a servant and focus on needs of others. Those who I have met, have been so wrapped up with themselves they rather stay before a mirror than to fetch a glass of water for me. There are exceptions however, most are into the fantasy, the kinky sex and I just politely direct them elsewhere.

Respectfully submitted with a wee bit of wit,
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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/24/2007 8:21:15 PM

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I think there is a failure to communicate here. I don't see how anyone can say there is no "forced" things in BDSM. It is indeed consensual, but can be forced none the less.

Just around 10 days ago I was finally collared by the woman I love, adore, and worship. I am forced right now into denial. Trust me, I don't like it. But I agreed to this collar and will obey. Um except then there was an Ooops, I was bad. Then I was "forced" to let her put capsason (red pepper) all over my cock and balls, I can assure I really really really didn't like that. Could I have physically stopped her from doing this? Of course. But I agreed to this collar thus if she wants to force me into something I must comply. Yes that's being forced by my definition. But I am agreeing to go through with it thus it’s consensual.

I am straight and have no desire to even experiment with bi. Nor does the idea of feminization have any appeal to me. However if she decided she wanted to "force" me into these. I must either allow it, or I would have to remove my collar. I hope, and seriously don't think, that will ever happen. Maybe at that point I would prove to be a phony and run away. I honestly can’t say for sure, but I like to think I would obey. But I do know if she forced me and I did it, it would have been forced and not something I wanted any part of on my own.

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RE: Forced Feminization - 3/24/2007 8:41:18 PM

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