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myobedience -> length of spanking... (3/18/2007 3:33:12 PM)
Spanking...sort of an unkown subject to me... I have read some doms say in profiles they love to give long spanking scenes ...... I know there are specific spanking groups through out the US, one being in Chicago as well.... I am just curious as to what a long spanking is? What does it consist of? How long does it usually last? I also know some subs are sexually aroused by spankings... as well as doms I suppose.... Is the desired result of long spankings to have the dom pleasured with the arousal it gives the sub? Sorry if this sounds like Spanking 101. Just interested.

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: length of spanking... (3/18/2007 5:01:50 PM)
A long spanking scene can last for hours. It depends on all the parties involved. Spankings in general are arousing to me, whether long or short. Some doms get aroused from giving a spanking and it is excitable to them. Some just love to spank.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: length of spanking... (3/18/2007 5:03:02 PM)
Length of a scene, any scene, is usually determined by a combination of several things: severity of the instrument, severity of the stroke, the endurance of the sadist and endurance of the masochist. So, this will be highly individualized. The tools used vary as well ranging from bare hand to paddles. The desired result is also highly individualized. Some want sex and some don't. If you're surious, simply ask the person you're going to play with. If you want a particular outcome, find someone who wants the same. Master Fire

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: length of spanking... (3/18/2007 5:09:10 PM)
There's a large separate section of "spankophiles" which is a specific kink on its own. Spankophiles and bdsmers rarely overlap (for much of the same reasons as swingers) even though we're both considered "off the wall" and we both engage in the same sorts of activities. For me, generally, a long scene that was solely OTK bare handed spanking would probably be over the half hour mark. But I've been in scenes that involved impact play and spanking type activities for hours. The pleasure is the same as it is for any scene- sometimes it's direct physical pleasure, sometimes it's endurance, sometimes it's pushing tolerances, sometimes it's trying something new, sometimes it's a deep connection...really whatever you can think of wanting to do something with another for.

mstrjx -> RE: length of spanking... (3/18/2007 5:23:07 PM)
I recall one that I administered with just my hands (I spank ambidextrously), was 200 times. The only reason why I recall is that I remembered setting that number ahead of time. I set the number because it 'sounded' high, but once it was all said and done, it didn't go on for a very long time, and it really wasn't all that severe. It took probably a half-hour, give or take a smidge. Jeff

lust4spanking -> RE: length of spanking... (3/18/2007 7:02:28 PM)
Depends on so many things. Some get spanked for hurt. Some get spanked for arousal. I've been doing it since 1984 (have spanked quite a few). My longest spanking - Friday, night, most of Saturday and Sunday morning. I only ever use my hand. I've spanked girls until the juices are running down their thighs. I've spanked girls 'to a froth'. I've spanked girls to orgasm.

blushingflower -> RE: length of spanking... (3/18/2007 7:10:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mstrjx I recall one that I administered with just my hands (I spank ambidextrously), was 200 times. The only reason why I recall is that I remembered setting that number ahead of time. I set the number because it 'sounded' high, but once it was all said and done, it didn't go on for a very long time, and it really wasn't all that severe. It took probably a half-hour, give or take a smidge. Jeff Don't your hands get sore? I'm not a huge fan of hand-spankings, though I don't consider them any kind of limit. But I always think "if it hurts me that much, it must sting His hand equally." And I'm supposed to be the one in pain!

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: length of spanking... (3/18/2007 7:11:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blushingflower quote: ORIGINAL: mstrjx I recall one that I administered with just my hands (I spank ambidextrously), was 200 times. The only reason why I recall is that I remembered setting that number ahead of time. I set the number because it 'sounded' high, but once it was all said and done, it didn't go on for a very long time, and it really wasn't all that severe. It took probably a half-hour, give or take a smidge. Jeff Don't your hands get sore? I'm not a huge fan of hand-spankings, though I don't consider them any kind of limit. But I always think "if it hurts me that much, it must sting His hand equally." And I'm supposed to be the one in pain! Nah! they get calluses on their hands from it. [;)]

onestandingstill -> RE: length of spanking... (3/19/2007 7:01:53 AM)
I'm not one who's hit sub space yet, but in long scenes I get much more centered and focused on the psycological journey & energy exchange. I haven't had a good 3-4 hour spanking in so long it's sad. For me those are the very best spankings ever. It gives me time to really get to feel and process the extreme senations and feel the energy ebb and flow between me and the person I'm sharing that with. suzanne

SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: length of spanking... (3/19/2007 7:08:08 AM)
Spankings have durations depending on the means done. Percussive play can last for 8 hours or it can be ten minutes Depends on the intensity Key factor to reach subspace is rhythm Following a good scene music can bring out the best in a bad percussionist Slow buildup is essential I have used can or belt EXTREMELY intense immediately and then focuseed on aftercare for a few hours My Hand is My most expressive implement but I do enjoy My Belt and an array of others I am sure We might come to a mutrual agreement for those in need of really finding out what good percussive buildup is all about by someone who really enjoys what He does and focuses on it. Ross ©º°¨¨°º© Bon D' Age'

lonlyrossInNeed -> RE: length of spanking... (3/19/2007 8:21:32 AM)
Spankings and scening can last for anyamount of time if i understnad this ? right i know i love long scenes and love getting spanked ross.g

desertdancer -> RE: length of spanking... (3/19/2007 10:08:42 AM)
Seems like no matter how long thay last, they never last long enough.... * Sigh*

lonlyrossInNeed -> RE: length of spanking... (3/19/2007 10:23:54 AM)
i feel the same way at times. ross.g quote: ORIGINAL: desertdancer Seems like no matter how long thay last, they never last long enough.... * Sigh*

SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: length of spanking... (3/19/2007 10:32:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: desertdancer Seems like no matter how long thay last, they never last long enough.... * Sigh* Sure they do...you just need to find someone that does them right. [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m10.gif[/image] That is a spankable offense. Ross ©º°¨¨°º©

Celeste43 -> RE: length of spanking... (3/19/2007 10:50:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: desertdancer Seems like no matter how long thay last, they never last long enough.... * Sigh* What she said.

shadevarr -> RE: length of spanking... (3/19/2007 11:51:34 AM)
Longest spanking I've done was about 700. My hands were nice and tingly afterwards [:D]

myobedience -> RE: length of spanking... (3/19/2007 3:38:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onestandingstill I'm not one who's hit sub space yet, but in long scenes I get much more centered and focused on the psycological journey & energy exchange. I haven't had a good 3-4 hour spanking in so long it's sad. For me those are the very best spankings ever. It gives me time to really get to feel and process the extreme senations and feel the energy ebb and flow between me and the person I'm sharing that with. suzanne Thanks suzanne...might I ask, in a long session over an hour or 2, what are you being spanked with? Does the intensity start slow? and increase? Explain how the energy ebbs and flows...I am not understanding this ~~ basicly cause it's never happened to me. Please tell me what you are thinking and feeling during these spankings? Thanks

myobedience -> RE: length of spanking... (3/19/2007 3:42:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69 Spankings have durations depending on the means done. Percussive play can last for 8 hours or it can be ten minutes Depends on the intensity Key factor to reach subspace is rhythm Following a good scene music can bring out the best in a bad percussionist Slow buildup is essential I have used can or belt EXTREMELY intense immediately and then focuseed on aftercare for a few hours My Hand is My most expressive implement but I do enjoy My Belt and an array of others I am sure We might come to a mutrual agreement for those in need of really finding out what good percussive buildup is all about by someone who really enjoys what He does and focuses on it. Ross ©º°¨¨°º© Bon D' Age' Thank you Ross, this was very descriptive... might you explain percussive?

myobedience -> RE: length of spanking... (3/19/2007 3:45:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: desertdancer Seems like no matter how long thay last, they never last long enough.... * Sigh* Care to share why you feel this way, what happens to you mentally and physiclly?

desertdancer -> RE: length of spanking... (3/20/2007 12:09:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: myobedience quote: ORIGINAL: desertdancer Seems like no matter how long thay last, they never last long enough.... * Sigh* Care to share why you feel this way, what happens to you mentally and physiclly? Oh sure, why do I feel this way..... Mentally I go through stages of spanking feelings. The first is normally "how dare he?" this is when I feel like hitting back, where I'm not still and quiet yet in my head and my mind says, how embarrassing it is to be spanked. Next is an "oh shit that hurts" where I regester what is happening more physically, and where I realize that it's gonna hurt more if I continue to struggle, so then I have to fight my own will to make myself settle down, take it and be calm. This normally brings tears and whimpers with a few wiggles. Untill I can get myself under controll. Then I settle into the spanking, where my mind is quiet for a bit and I relax into the rythem and sensations, the sound of his hand smacking on my rump or thighs.This can make me giggle, like the more he spanks the higher I'm lifted untill I'm floating. If he continues to spank at this point, I'm in sub space heaven, but if he's tired and stops then I come crashing down before I've reached whatever high I was trying to reach, this can cause an angry reaction in me. I can reason that I shouldn't be angry, but for some reason, it's a true anger that can take a couple of moments to get ahold of. It's like I wanna strike out, just so he'll spank again so my body can acheive it's goal. I fight myself to not do that though... So you see, no matter how long he spanks it's never long enough.... if he spanks a long time, I get higher and higher and more floaty, if he stops, then I'm not floaty enough, and let's face it, spanking is just yummy.

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