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RE: The young sub and why they suck. - 3/24/2007 12:55:10 PM

MsRose

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ORIGINAL: xLadyScarlettx

3. I remember a time when people brought gifts to their Domme the first time. Nothin big, flowers, a card, something to show respect. What happened to that?

I think this is all I have right now. If anyone else has anything, please free feel to post.

I never expected gifts of flowers and cards when I was just a simple vanilla girl going out on dates with boys. As I grew older (still vanilla) I never expected gifts on a first date, simple things like flowers. But when they were given, I was that much more appreciative of the gesture, and the man who extended such gestures. Such a gesture separated him from the rest in my mind's eye. Hell, I might even have gone to second base with him because I thought he was 'safe'.

Now, fast forward a few years. Stumbling through the non-pro D/s world, I find myself applying all of the rules of enagement from my vanilla relationships and dating rituals to the first meetings I have with submissive men. I'm not expecting gifts, but they're nice to have when surprised with them. I didn't notice that there was a difference in the ages of the men who gave gifts, and the men who didn't. So from my own perspective and what I've deduced from my engagement with men (vanilla and otherwise), the character of the man is rarely dependent upon his age, but perhaps dependent upon his understanding of women and a woman's expectations.

Just my 1.8 pence (allow for fluctuation in exchange rates and inflation).

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RE: The young sub and why they suck. - 4/17/2007 10:28:32 AM

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I like my 23y/o sub- Chaos

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RE: The young sub and why they suck. - 4/17/2007 10:30:41 AM

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i might not understand this fully
but we all know that we where young at ones
and i know that i cant stand it when i hear someone say somthing about just becouse you are young
or justbecouse you are souch and souch
you know there are old ppl out there also that are so imachure
just speaking from my exsperienc

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RE: The young sub and why they suck. - 5/5/2007 9:04:36 AM

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Wow, a comment generalizing a group of people within a subgroup. :P

That took an amazing ammount of thought and effort really. I mean, who could have come up with that same concept? No one, surely!

Why not make the same comment about the young dom/domme? How exactly is their resume of TWO YEARS supposed to be impressive to anyone other then other young ones? Well, how about considering that young subs/doms might actually be quite experienced, for their age bracket at least.

People have to start somewhere, and being 25 or under doesn't make someone any less worthy of inclusion within a lifestyle then someone in their 40's.

Also, tulipgoose, totally agree on ProDommes. Im actually quite against them, but thats me.

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RE: The young sub and why they suck. - 5/5/2007 7:35:01 PM

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Edited and deleted because of my opinion on Professionals in the lifestyle....

< Message edited by RobertCloud -- 5/5/2007 7:38:03 PM >

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