Mercnbeth
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I've only read a few of the posts on this page. I'd like to comment on the issue of knots and intricate bondage. I LOVE the aesthetics of it. It is beautiful. I've had beth model some basic Shibari rope work. In fact I think our profile has a picture or two. Last weekend we were invited to participate in a 4 hour seminar from a expert that we missed only because of a schedule conflict. It's not that I don't appreciate or want to do it, but WOW - it takes a LOT of time. As an example, when we go to the Folsom Fringe, we usually get to the play area early. When we walk in there are already a few setting up their bondage scene. We'll walk past, and go to a different section of the room. Two or three hours later, we're near exhausted, having enjoyed a session or two, broken for refreshments, chatted with friends, watched some other's play, had another session or two; finally we walk by the Shibari area and the people we watched set up are "almost done". I appreciate the dedication and the end result is amazing; but bondage to me is a means to the ends. beth sleeps and wears cuffs on wrists/ankles because I always have a clip or two nearby or in my pocket and should the spirit move me - it's on! What's on depends on my mood. The restricted movement, which is my reason for bondage, is facilitated easier with cuffs and clips. Same holds for bondage on furniture, a spanking bench, cross, or whatever. Leather harnesses, straps, belts, and cuffs, attached with clips allow for flexibility within the scene to change positions and access. Intricate knots and bondage is beautiful. I see the foreplay aspect of wrapping and tying the knots. The end result is visually stimulating. I would have loved to have gone to the demonstration and would have enjoyed wrapping beth, if for no other reason other than the presenter was going to allow pictures. I think the end result pictures are great. I wish there was something along the lines of "Instant Shibari". Until then, I'll keep my bag of clips handy.
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