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kept in a box - 3/24/2007 10:36:55 AM

subtexxxt

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Hello,

i'm not sure if this post belongs here, i found posts that kind of touched the subject but not enough so i'm placing it here so at least it could be directed to the correct place if not.

i've been discussing with my Mistress the real - not fantasy -- idea of being kept in a fiberglass box for days and weeks with NLP training only to be bought out to be used and to void waste. Most feeding would be from a dildoe "tube" that i would get liquid and some semi solid nurishment. This would be ongoing until it became a 24/7 life of slavery not leaving the home and leaving the box for brief periods [stretching ect.] unless Mistress so desires it.

Let me assure everyone i consider myslef sane, level headed and a decent, caring human being, it's just that my life as a submissive and now slave has led me to this place -- being grounded in reality i would like to see this done safely but with with the level of daily torment that my Mistress and i both desire.

i would like to know everyone's thoughts on the subject, if anyone has undergone something like this? -- does anyone know of someone that could build such a box?

Thank Y/you A/all for Y/your time.

Humbly,

subtexxxt

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 10:51:58 AM

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There are safety concerns....such as how to get you out of that box in a hurry if there's an emgergency and practing that. And NEVER EVER being left alone in the house while in the box.

Beyond that...there are several health and mental health issues to be concerned about.

I think it's a nice fantasy that can be acted out, but not for a lifetime.

edited to add: I'm not quite sure how I feel about the NLP part. I've always felt that NLP is like dirty pool. It accomplishes the goal, but how you got there isn't exactly kosher. If your only daily interaction involves NLP this will effect how you interact with society for the rest of your life. While right now, you're saying that's fine, what happens if you're no longer with her? What happens if you have to go out into the world?

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 10:54:45 AM

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i think it would get old after a few weeks. not much fun being in a box all the time.
And hard work for the Domme too.

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 10:56:11 AM

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Sounds like a really good fantasy, but i have a few questions....

Who is going to support you? Obviously you can't work if your in a box.
Should your Mistress have to go out and support you and if she is willing, who will she get to watch you? Who gets to clean the house and cook? i notice you never mentioned working while you were out of the box, unless you count "being used" as a contribution and i doubt anyone else would look at it that way.

All and all, it sounds like too much time, energy and money to keep your dick hard, no thanks.

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 11:03:40 AM

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Erm.....I can understand a sub wanting and/or needing some level of torture from their Master/Mistress but my personal opinion is this should be a case of fantasy staying a fantasy.

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 11:05:29 AM

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I think it would be fine for a particular arena of play for a set amount of time. But not for an extended period. What use would you be to me if all you did was sit in a box all day?

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 11:11:26 AM

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A person needs sunshine and exercise. Without it they whither. I do not believe that simple stretching would prevent atrophy. Is the plan to weaken you to the point of extreme unhealthiness?

Will the box be locked or will you simply be trusted to remain in it while she is gone. If locked, is she willing to accept the risk of your demise in an emergency? I know this is the case for some dominants, so it's not entirely out of the question.

I believe there is much to consider which either you have not considered or you have not written about in your post.

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 11:17:14 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subtexxxt

Hello,

i'm not sure if this post belongs here, i found posts that kind of touched the subject but not enough so i'm placing it here so at least it could be directed to the correct place if not.

i've been discussing with my Mistress the real - not fantasy -- idea of being kept in a fiberglass box for days and weeks with NLP training only to be bought out to be used and to void waste. Most feeding would be from a dildoe "tube" that i would get liquid and some semi solid nurishment. This would be ongoing until it became a 24/7 life of slavery not leaving the home and leaving the box for brief periods [stretching ect.] unless Mistress so desires it.

Let me assure everyone i consider myslef sane, level headed and a decent, caring human being, it's just that my life as a submissive and now slave has led me to this place -- being grounded in reality i would like to see this done safely but with with the level of daily torment that my Mistress and i both desire.

i would like to know everyone's thoughts on the subject, if anyone has undergone something like this? -- does anyone know of someone that could build such a box?

Thank Y/you A/all for Y/your time.

Humbly,

subtexxxt

I would consider your family and friends and decide if you really wish to sever ties with them. Life in a box doesn't lend itself to visiting or phone calls.

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 11:18:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

A person needs sunshine and exercise. Without it they whither. I do not believe that simple stretching would prevent atrophy. Is the plan to weaken you to the point of extreme unhealthiness?

Will the box be locked or will you simply be trusted to remain in it while she is gone. If locked, is she willing to accept the risk of your demise in an emergency? I know this is the case for some dominants, so it's not entirely out of the question.

I believe there is much to consider which either you have not considered or you have not written about in your post.

This is true. You need to be exposed to the sun or take vitamin D pills. Does your Mistress really want to have to be bothered with figuring out the complex diet needed to keep you alive in a box? If you die, your consent won't matter. Your family or friends could still send her to jail.

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 11:23:18 AM

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Alright...color me ignorant. What is NLP training?

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 11:26:46 AM

ownedgirlie

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http://www.nlp.com/

http://www.nlpinfo.com/

http://www.nlpu.com/whatnlp.htm

http://www.rain.org/~da5e/nlpfaq.html

http://www.nlpschedule.com/

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 11:28:58 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DominaRava

Alright...color me ignorant. What is NLP training?

Neuro-Linguistic Programming, I believe. There is a good introduction to it here...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-linguistic_programming

If it refers to something else, then I am wrong....Oh God, how could that possibly be????

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 11:33:13 AM

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To answer some of the qustions posted:

The box will be so designed that even though locked an immediate exit will be possible [from inside or outside - which i am to only use from the inside in an extreme emergency] if needed and also understand that being fiberglass it will be transparent.

a routine would be created outside the box for strectching, exercise, outside activity [taken out and walked on the grounds] and etc for the body.

i am the owned property of Mistress and would not be working, thus the explanation of 24/7 and not leaving home and the box unless Mistress so desired it.

Suffice it to say that i will be "watched" while in the box.

The point of family and friends is totally understood but to begin with this type of slavery is extreme and not for the timid and has already been taken under consideration.

Cooking and cleaning isn't my role, my role is to be used and stay in the box for my Mistress until She so desires my role to be otherwise. Of course if She desired there's no reeason i couldn't be let out of the box for just those reasons and then put back in.

To those that think it sounds boring or like too much effort i submit that it doesn't for Mistress and i and i ask Y/you to remember one of the beautiful things about the lifestyle is acceptance and tolerance whether Y/you understand or can relate to something or not.

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subtexxxt

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 11:35:28 AM

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I don't think anyone is intolerent of the idea. Hey, if you and she like it go for it. But you did ask for opinions. You got them.

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 11:35:57 AM

DominaRava

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Thank you both.

*studying up on a 'new' word/technique*

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 11:39:46 AM

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Dam who's the sub here? ITS sure sounds like a whole lot of work on the dominants part.Subs are here to serve us but not the other way around.I suppose there are some here that likes this kink..Seems kinda of silly to me...AS always just the views of this ol" MASTER..bounty

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 11:41:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston

I don't think anyone is intolerent of the idea. Hey, if you and she like it go for it. But you did ask for opinions. You got them.

Very true -- i hope i did not offend anyone -- thank You and please keep them coming -- at this stage in planning -- objectivity from E/everyone in the community is what i'm seeking.

humbly,

subtexxxt

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 11:44:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subtexxxt

Hello,

i'm not sure if this post belongs here, i found posts that kind of touched the subject but not enough so i'm placing it here so at least it could be directed to the correct place if not.

i've been discussing with my Mistress the real - not fantasy -- idea of being kept in a fiberglass box for days and weeks with NLP training only to be bought out to be used and to void waste. Most feeding would be from a dildoe "tube" that i would get liquid and some semi solid nurishment. This would be ongoing until it became a 24/7 life of slavery not leaving the home and leaving the box for brief periods [stretching ect.] unless Mistress so desires it.

Let me assure everyone i consider myslef sane, level headed and a decent, caring human being, it's just that my life as a submissive and now slave has led me to this place -- being grounded in reality i would like to see this done safely but with with the level of daily torment that my Mistress and i both desire.

i would like to know everyone's thoughts on the subject, if anyone has undergone something like this? -- does anyone know of someone that could build such a box?

Thank Y/you A/all for Y/your time.

Humbly,

subtexxxt

I have to be honest...personally I DO wonder about your level of sanity or at the very least, just what you consider to be level-headed.

I am going to assume that you want to be a pleasure slave...and not just a pleasure slave but a kept pleasure slave. If your mistress has a fantasy of someone being kept locked away that she never has to deal with except to feed and toilet and that she can use whenever she wants for pain and pleasure, then it sounds perfect...except:
What happens to your mental health with no interaction with anyone besides your mistress and then, only for pleasure and for toilet breaks?
What happens to your physical stamina and overall physical health with no use of the muscles and ligaments and joints except for occasional pleasure? Do you honestly think that your body will remain in the state it is in now with no use?
While at first glance, this seems like a sacrifice on your part and you make it sound as if you have reached some deep level of slavery, let's look a little closer...as others have done more nicely than I will

You will not have to do a thing except act as a sextoy or a paintoy. If you are in a box all day...at your request and in fulfillment of your fantasy...how is that slavery? Unless, as noted earlier, there is some mistress out there who has the fantasy of wanting to go out and work to not only support herself but a human toy. This sounds to me...more than anything...like some self-indulgent, moronic-in-that-it-has-not-been-thought-out scheme to fulfill your fantasy only. Maybe you are thinking that those female supremacists who have little use for males most of the time anyway would jump at this chance...I don't pretend to understand female supremacy and the entire thought process that goes into it but from what I have read, I just don't see any of them hopping on your little bandwagon soon. Finally...where is your drive, man? Where is your motivation to do something in life besides indulge yourself? You say you are caring...what level of care for anyone but yourself does this kind of life that you propose show for anyone but yourself? Now...you might think I have something against male submissives or male slaves because I am a male dominant but you'd be wrong. I would have the same thought process regarding a female submissive or slave who desired this.

But then...I have a hard time admiring people whose brains and character seem to have got stuck in a fantasy novel. A few days...a week...maybe. A lifetime? Horse.......................................feathers.

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 11:45:45 AM

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Hold out for a really big wheel in the cage ...

Avoid cedar shaving though.

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RE: kept in a box - 3/24/2007 11:51:33 AM

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After a few hours it would stop being fun for me- even in my long term cage fantaises there's good air flow and a toilet.

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