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Passion357 -> RE: Unwilling Witness (For Stephann) (3/28/2007 10:28:21 AM)
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Greetings, All,
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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44
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ORIGINAL: Passion357
It's just a general question, no details needed. Like "What is she doing?" Well, it does not matter :-) She is challenging authority in a public M/s setting. That's bad enough.
Well Wishes,
~Passion~ It's interesting to see what gets disreguarded in order to make ones point. Isn't it?
Thank you, Discipline! I was just fixing to do this very thing and copy and paste the part of the OP that was overlooked.
I asked the question the way I did for a reason. I wanted *all* outlooks. Draw your own conclusions.
If you want to be the Master friend of the Master and say the girl is surely being *bad* and not playing, then so be it. I'd like your outlook on what *you* would do. :-)
If you want to be a complete stranger and view the girl as being playful, please do. I want *your* outlook, too :-)
I must say, however, I think this statement says exactly what I was thinking:
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Are you absolutely sure that the submissive/slave is challenging his/her owner's authority. I ask because there have been many situations where someone could assume my sub was challenging mine when I wasn't. In other words, it is the Owner who determines what is and isn't a challenge. And some Masters/Owners want resistance; that is part of their kink.
Having said all of that, my answer is to watch the Owner/Master. He/She may be enjoying the challenge. They may not be. But, in either case, I think it is for the Owner/Master to deal with, or not. How they choose to respond may be the critical factor in the future of the relationship.
The bottom line is that no one can know all the details of the negotiation behind the relationship except the participants. Interfering in any way is just that: interfering. Even when it's clearly messed up. Besides, doing it wrong is an important part of learning how to do it right.
Well Wishes,
~Passion~
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