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RE: no sex or affection - 3/29/2007 11:14:22 AM

Wildfleurs

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

How many of you would scene with someone on a regular basis where both sex and affection were hard limits?

No. Why would I bother with that when I can have sex and affection with my owner. Now sex and affection are things I earned with my owner over time, but now that I have them I can't see why I'd waste my time with someone and not get those things (to be fair, I can't see myself doing much with anyone even if I could get sex and affection from them).

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RE: no sex or affection - 3/29/2007 3:37:42 PM

petdave

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ORIGINAL: Padriag
I've found it interesting just how many of us want and require a personal connection, affection, and emotional investment in this. That for many of us it is about more than just kinky play, but apparently a part of an expression of a relationship.

You assume those things are mutually exclusive? A "normal" man can desire sex as part of a normal relationship, but also be willing to hook up with random ho's when he's single and horny... i want to be be an owned pet, and BDSM play, to me, is part of that dynamic... but that interest in the physical side of things can also find some satisfaction in a scene that only involves power exchange without conventional sexual attention.

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