RobertCloud
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Yes, Hannibal, you may be right. Yet, there are many that are sticklers for protocal or that feel it is disrespectful or undignified or simply don't care for the use of pet names. My babygirl calls me "Poohbear" each time she does my heart soars, for I know she is happy and in a great mood, or she needs my attention. The only petname I have for her is "babygirl" or "babydoll" I realize neither are silly but I really have not had a silly one come to mind that fits and silly ones should just kind of come to mind without being coerced out. If they are coerced then they are not really fun and special. My personal feelings on it are much as yours, but it goes a little deeper. When you are in private with your submisive or slave and you cannot let the protocal lax enough to let their love for you shine out in something as special as a gift from their heart like a petname, even if it is silly, then perhaps it is a relationship where the protocal is more important than the love. I am not saying that that is wrong, for many that is the way it has to be, but for me the love is more important than the protocal. We are still Master and slave, and she knows that, she respects that and she will dare not disobey without the knowledge that she will be punished, yet I could not imagine refusing her the privilege of calling me "Poohbear" for it was a gift of love from her heart.
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