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MagiksSlave -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (4/1/2007 2:26:32 PM)
LOL Id love to meet them eniglish teachers!!! Magik's slave

SlaveBlutarsky -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (4/1/2007 2:39:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl I've almost given up on finding a male slave and am considering becoming a sub. Seems like most male slaves just want a mistress so she can "order" them to do same sex acts. Male slaves and subs that consider same sex acts a hard limit appear to be in the minority. Definitely hard to find. What makes you think the same traits that make a dearth of good male subs aren’t prevalent in male doms as well? Life is a wonderful, long journey. If we found what we wanted immediately, how would we know if it’s really what we want? I’m the first one to admit how frustrating it is to find a good Mistress, but I certainly am not going to change what I’m looking for or what will make me ultimately happy. I just know that when I find her, I’ll just be that much happier and that it was worth being patient for the true person I desire than something else.

AAkasha -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (4/1/2007 3:35:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: alphasubstituent If it were easy to find a truly compatible partner, there would be no point in having websites like this. All you can do is hope that the right connections get made at the right time. Best of luck Holy crap, you are that extremely intelligent, charming young man I met on the chatroom here last night? What a photo. You are indeed a catch! (fanning self). Proof that there are some good catches out there. Just have to be patient. Akasha

AAkasha -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (4/1/2007 3:38:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl I've almost given up on finding a male slave and am considering becoming a sub. Seems like most male slaves just want a mistress so she can "order" them to do same sex acts. Male slaves and subs that consider same sex acts a hard limit appear to be in the minority. Definitely hard to find. If femdom is your kink and you don't want the more extreme fetishes that seem more common, why not convert vanilla men? I have found that non kinky guys do back flips when they find a woman that owns her sexuality enough to be able to say "This is what it takes to please me. Get to work." A little bondage, some roleplaying, some lighter stuff -- you take the lead. Akasha

PhDslave -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (4/1/2007 5:25:27 PM)
Indeed, that's what happened to me.

Hanable -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (4/1/2007 7:06:00 PM)
Akasha: u have a good point.. but so many vanilla men r so set inthere ways that they would rather jsut find a girl that dosent want BDSM stuff ( bondage, rp, stuff of that sort). thought it would make a search simpilar if you added 'nilla men into the mix. H >:)

VeryMercurial -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (4/1/2007 7:14:43 PM)
It is hard, but don't give up. I met a wonderful submissive male on this site. I had to wade through a lot of non-desirables to find him, but it was worth the wait.

TVMistressHelen -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (4/1/2007 8:04:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha If femdom is your kink and you don't want the more extreme fetishes that seem more common, why not convert vanilla men? I have found that non kinky guys do back flips when they find a woman that owns her sexuality enough to be able to say "This is what it takes to please me. Get to work." A little bondage, some roleplaying, some lighter stuff -- you take the lead. Akasha Indeed and looking outside of the fetish world for vanilla girls to convert works equally well. I've got most of my play partners from a London-based free vanilla dating site of all places! Lots of vanillas would love to try BDSM but haven't the courage or lack someone with experience to take them in hand.

Brownbohemian -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (4/2/2007 11:59:23 AM)
Hi, Thank you all for your responses. I have gained a great deal of insight from them all. Najek Charmer, you kick ass and do you hannble (think i spelled that right) I can' mention you all but I would like to say a few things. I never assumed or thought I would ever find the perfect slave. I said suitable slave. B/c I did not mention any specifics how would you know. But that is another day and anothr thread. Also, my profile has changed a few times since starting. My profile is mine and I do not rely soley on it for meeting people. I do ive outside of the online world, I go to events, parties, etc. My major issue stems from my impatience which you have helped me see, and I am grateful b/c I took some of your advice and decided to give a former slave a chance. After a good talk we came to a very reasonalbe conclusion, which I will not disclose. So let's see what the future holds. Now as far as female slaves, oh how I desire and love a good female slave. They are a rare and much sough after delight. However, I tend to attract the ones who want me to stop having male slaves. Nothing wrong with that, just not for me. Until next time....Keep up the good work guys. LOL

Hanable -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (4/2/2007 6:00:37 PM)
u have spelled it closer then many.. its hanable, but thats neither important or about the topic at hand. sometimes a sutible slave will become a perfect in time.. it depends on many things. i am glad to see that you have.. grown in ur life of BDSM. as we have said many times, patients is the key to being a good master/misstress/dom/domme. female slaves r harder to get to listen although they r rather fun. i like having male slaves thou.. fun to play with.. in more ways then one.. but again its different for everyone. H >:)

totalysubservant -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (7/25/2008 2:55:06 AM)
same prob here i find it so hard to find a genuine real life Dominant Female.i've been searching for 25 years and all i can find is pro dommes.Why is it that nearly all women who are dommes are pros and theres so few who can do it without wanting money.i'm a totally genuine submissive who has to serve to be content inside and be truly happy but i can never find a genuine real life Dominant Woman.Anyone know where i can find details or contacts for one.All i can find on these bdsm sites is pros.And searchin on web best ive found is a course which i have to pay a pro 100 £ to join then 50 £ each month and if pass it get placed on list for so called dominant women but do they exist and is there a list that shows them.Please help if you can.Tell me whereonline or where to find a genuine real life dominant woman.

stella41b -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (7/25/2008 4:52:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: totalysubservant same prob here i find it so hard to find a genuine real life Dominant Female.i've been searching for 25 years and all i can find is pro dommes.Why is it that nearly all women who are dommes are pros and theres so few who can do it without wanting money.i'm a totally genuine submissive who has to serve to be content inside and be truly happy but i can never find a genuine real life Dominant Woman.Anyone know where i can find details or contacts for one.All i can find on these bdsm sites is pros.And searchin on web best ive found is a course which i have to pay a pro 100 £ to join then 50 £ each month and if pass it get placed on list for so called dominant women but do they exist and is there a list that shows them.Please help if you can.Tell me whereonline or where to find a genuine real life dominant woman. Try Google. Just type in C-L-U-E.

MsSarai -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (7/25/2008 7:03:40 AM)
Well, maybe the problem is you, totallysubservent. Maybe you need to change your outlook, and approach.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (7/25/2008 8:29:32 AM)
i don't know what approach you're using however i had no problem nabbing my 2 pets. have you tried communicating and building a friendship with them or do you immediately go into dominant mode? that's how i approached mine - building and earning their friendship and trust as well as getting to know them as person - learning about their interests, goals etc. that made their submission to me worthwhile too. though i understand my approach may or not work for everyone however it was a mere suggestion.

Lynnxz -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (7/25/2008 9:10:07 AM)
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TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (7/25/2008 11:15:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: amayos It is my experience consensual slaves—be they male or female—are in fact very rare creatures. Possibly just as rare are those who know what slaves really are and possess no moral qualms about willingly seeking them out. And we have a winner... Taggard

Leatherist -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (7/25/2008 11:19:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty quote: ORIGINAL: amayos It is my experience consensual slaves—be they male or female—are in fact very rare creatures. Possibly just as rare are those who know what slaves really are and possess no moral qualms about willingly seeking them out. And we have a winner... Taggard I miss amayos, He understood. I wonder how he is these days?

boytoy4female -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (7/25/2008 11:26:40 AM)
I think the problem is that your definition of men is in conflict with your definition of slave. It's akin to fried ice cream. Do it wrong and you have messy grease in your pot. Do it right and you create a dualality. It takes patience. Of course, Iam the worlds foremost authority on my own opinion.

joyinslavery -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (7/25/2008 3:29:15 PM)
It's a simple fact that most males on here looking for a dominant and calling themselves submissive or slave are just dirtbags. Believe me I know. Have fun. Edited to add the word, "dirtbags".

joyinslavery -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (7/25/2008 3:35:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz [sm=diethreaddie.gif] You're welcome. (Just check my success rate.) Have fun.

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