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hardbodysub -> RE: Why is it so hard to find a male slave? (7/27/2008 8:41:34 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Brownbohemian
I am sure most of you are looking at this and wondering what in the worlld I am talking about. Well, it is simple, I have not found one slave suitible for my needs. We go through the intial getting to know you deal, (what he want ,what I want what he won't and what I won't), but it always end with him being far more commited to (insert excuse here) than to me which makes a very poor slave. I of course drop him, and move on. Then come the calls, the begging, and the "I can change" speeches. [:@]NO!! I made it very clear as to what I wanted and was very willing to do my duty as a D to acheive it. I understand this is the BDSM world and bull#%$^ is part of the game, but give me a break. How long must a Mistress hunt before she bags the big one. Any advice dear Ladies and gentlemen would be greatly appreciated.
You'll just have to change your needs to fit the sub. At least, that's the type of advice people would give to a sub asking why it's so hard to find a female dominant.
The simple truth is that everybody has needs and desires, and no matter what anybody says, there is no such thing as a truly "selfless" sub/slave. Even if they act in a completely selfless manner, they must be fulfilling their own needs or desires by doing so, or they wouldn't act that way. Unfortunately, many dominant women seem to be satisfied only with a sub whose needs and desires are fulfilled completely by fulfilling the Mistress's needs, with nothing else on the agenda. Good luck with that. I'm not saying that there's nobody like that out there, but there sure as heck aren't many.
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