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RE: Tribute - 4/14/2007 7:04:25 AM   
DiannaVesta


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ORIGINAL: MissSCD

A tribute is not allowed on this site.  I had a Domme ask my slave for a tribute because he saved its  profile to his favorites for me to look at.  When I saw it, I knew it was a scam.
When my slave said no to the tribute, it called him a pig.  I was furious.  I reported it to Collarme, and it is still here. 
Then when I confronted it, it called me a pig as well.
Financial Domination is another name for prostitution, and it is illegal.

Regards,  MissSCD


That’s bullshit and you have no idea what you're talking about. If YOU have an issue with something that's your agenda. Don't make accusations towards others because YOU have a problem with it.


I really hate this about this about this site and have no tolerance for ignorance. .


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RE: Tribute - 4/14/2007 7:06:27 AM   
NakedGirlScout


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Status: offline 		If it's ok for Dommes to justify demanding tribute from male subs, then why don't we see more male Doms demanding tribute from female subs? I think they'd be shot down in so many flames that they'd still be smokin' from their graves.

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RE: Tribute - 4/14/2007 5:58:41 PM   
Jasmyn


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Status: offline 		Pfft @ "prostitution, and it is illegal"

In your narrowminded neck of the woods maybe ...but do keep in mind this site does draw on an international community.  Prostitution is legal in New Zealand and elsewhere, so don't presume your country's legal status for sex wroking women is the legal status world wide.  


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RE: Tribute - 4/14/2007 6:25:19 PM   
HutchGarahl


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ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique
ok I have decided from now on I am asking for a tribute .... but with a twist, it must be in neopoints or neopian items *g*


NEOPETS!?  WOW! Never thought i'd see that in here. :P

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RE: Tribute - 4/14/2007 6:27:22 PM   
MsCfromMelbourne


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ORIGINAL: MissSCD


Financial Domination is another name for prostitution, and it is illegal.



Australia is another place where prostitution is perfectly legal

Sex workers are healthy, law abiding, tax paying citizens

I suspect many of the critics are judging pro-dommes applying (IMO offensive and sexist)  judeo-christian values that prostitutes are inferior human beings and exchanging money for sexual services is a sin. 

WAKE UP!!!!  Live and let live. 

Some men are happy to pay; they have the time of their lives.  Pro-dommes are fun.   How else could they command A$200 - 300 per hour with no penetrative sex?

The question is not: why won't people do me for free? 

The question is why am I revolted by the idea of paying a fair price for a valuable service  if that service is sex?   

Why get mad at women just trying to make a living doing what they love?  If you want a relationship, make clear you only want a relationship and will not pay for services.  Believe me, pro-dommes ask far less of a man financially and emotionally than any 24/7 lifestyle Mistress.  

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RE: Tribute - 4/14/2007 6:33:16 PM   
HutchGarahl


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ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne
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ORIGINAL: MissSCD
Financial Domination is another name for prostitution, and it is illegal.

Australia is another place where prostitution is perfectly legal
Sex workers are healthy, law abiding, tax paying citizens
I suspect many of the critics are judging pro-dommes applying (IMO offensive and sexist)  judeo-christian values that prostitutes are inferior human beings and exchanging money for sexual services is a sin. 
WAKE UP!!!!  Live and let live. 
Some men are happy to pay; they have the time of their lives.  Pro-dommes are fun.   How else could they command A$200 - 300 per hour with no penetrative sex?
The question is not: why won't people do me for free? 
The question is why am I revolted by the idea of payng a fair price for a valuable service  if that service is sex?    and
why am I getting mad at women just trying to make a living doing what they love?


Very well put my dear.

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RE: Tribute - 4/14/2007 6:41:29 PM   
MsCfromMelbourne


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ORIGINAL: NakedGirlScout

If it's ok for Dommes to justify demanding tribute from male subs, then why don't we see more male Doms demanding tribute from female subs? I think they'd be shot down in so many flames that they'd still be smokin' from their graves.


Believe it or not, apparently some do.  There are actually subs expected to go to work and financially support their Dom (while he sits in his trailer drinkin' beer and watching football?)

All I can say is that not enough women have read "Women Who Love Too Much" by Robin Norwood.  Emotional masochism is sickening to watch.


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RE: Tribute - 4/14/2007 6:59:24 PM   
openmindedslave


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Status: offline 		Lets look at this from another point of view..Look on collar me at all the Mistresses and read their profiles ..
Now, if your in your 40's for example ( sub/slave, as one group)
Are you prepared for a longterm realtionship with someone in this lifestyle..If your honest with yourself, and say no - subtract all those ladies looking  for long term.Yhat would be fair, if all your looking for is to play and walk away
Might as well elimate most of the ladies half your age, because most, if not all  ,may say in their profile they are seeking a certain age group ( not all,but many profiles do suggest age as a limit)
Did you want a fantasy fullfilled..You know, latex clad  dom with that big dugeon and lots of neat toys for FANTASY play, - Again drop the number down further, because alot of ladies out here do not need to play fantasy to dom your sorry ass.Their strong woman  with strong minds.

See, if your a sub/slave or just a player,  your calling in life is a dom who does not see your age, doee not care if your married, and will cater to your fantasy  through the giving of tribute. You can schedule your play around a couple of free hours after work. You can do it at home on the internet.
And for less than some peoples car payments each month they can act out their fantasys . If thats you , then tribute is the investment in your life. If you want more and want someone who is long term , then there are many wounderful  people out here that are looking for someone like you.

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RE: Tribute - 4/14/2007 7:02:31 PM   
HutchGarahl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissSCD
A tribute is not allowed on this site.  I had a Domme ask my slave for a tribute because he saved its  profile to his favorites for me to look at.  When I saw it, I knew it was a scam.
When my slave said no to the tribute, it called him a pig.  I was furious.  I reported it to Collarme, and it is still here. 
Then when I confronted it, it called me a pig as well.
Financial Domination is another name for prostitution, and it is illegal.
Regards,  MissSCD


Hmmm...where do you live hun? I live in the Us, and while most states to outlaw prostitution...I do believe 1 or 2 states have made it legal. I believe Vegas is one. Though I can be 100% on this so don't quote me on it.

As for prostitution itself....for some people it's the only way they can support themselves. Jobs are getting harder and harder to comeby. So if a women feels this is her only solution...specially if she has a child to feed...I see no harm it it. What else is she to do? The maney is far better than the local welfare system could ever think of being. At least males and females who sell their bodies, for most of whom I have actually met....are doing something for themself as opposed to living off the taxes of others.

As for tribute in this lifestyle...no, I don't demand tribute or gifts. If one wants to give, it's of their own choosing. The only thing I do demand as far as finances go is what I said in my previous post. That's not a lot to ask really. I have my own money and ma quite capable of taking care of myself financially and do enjoy spending my money on my slaves.

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RE: Tribute - 4/17/2007 3:29:08 AM   
MistressRouge


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Status: offline 		Well I have just come back from a wonderful weekend in Amsterdam, Holland. I do wish the UK laws were as lenient regarding prostitution, as I enjoyed persuing the Red Light area very much indeedy .

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RE: Tribute - 4/17/2007 12:05:52 PM   
MiladyAngelique


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ORIGINAL: HutchGarahl

quote:

ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique
ok I have decided from now on I am asking for a tribute .... but with a twist, it must be in neopoints or neopian items *g*


NEOPETS!?  WOW! Never thought i'd see that in here. :P


lol What can I say???? I am addicted, but there ya go something they have to work hard to get but that won't cost them anything other then time.




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RE: Tribute - 4/17/2007 12:11:22 PM   
HutchGarahl


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ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique
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ORIGINAL: HutchGarahl
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ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique
ok I have decided from now on I am asking for a tribute .... but with a twist, it must be in neopoints or neopian items *g*

NEOPETS!?  WOW! Never thought i'd see that in here. :P

lol What can I say???? I am addicted, but there ya go something they have to work hard to get but that won't cost them anything other then time.


Ok, now you've sparked my curiosity there. What is your id over there? Mine is coolhuh1dragon. Oddly enough, am addicted to it myself. :P

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RE: Tribute - 4/17/2007 12:21:01 PM   
MiladyAngelique


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ORIGINAL: HutchGarahl

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ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique
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ORIGINAL: HutchGarahl
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ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique
ok I have decided from now on I am asking for a tribute .... but with a twist, it must be in neopoints or neopian items *g*

NEOPETS!?  WOW! Never thought i'd see that in here. :P

lol What can I say???? I am addicted, but there ya go something they have to work hard to get but that won't cost them anything other then time.


Ok, now you've sparked my curiosity there. What is your id over there? Mine is coolhuh1dragon. Oddly enough, am addicted to it myself. :P


angelofattitude131 and you would be suprised at how many people are on there that are also here lol


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RE: Tribute - 4/17/2007 12:29:56 PM   
GuidingLite


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Status: offline 		Quote:  If it's ok for Dommes to justify demanding tribute from male subs, then why don't we see more male Doms demanding tribute from female subs? I think they'd be shot down in so many flames that they'd still be smokin' from their graves. end quote

why arent more men doms demanding tributes from female subs?  COZ MALE DOMS RATHER HAVE THE SEX thats why. 

if putting the romance couples aside,

how many male doms do you think will still play with a sub girl knowing she wont give him any sex or oral sex?????????????????????  NOT MANY.   no ones complaining about that, its a double standard.   femdomms wont play with male subs without tribute & the male doms wont play with sub girls without getting some sex or oral sex so which is the the worse of the two evils?  playing for sex or playing for a paycheck? 

is it not real if the male dom wont playwithout getting sex? 

is the male dom doing it only for a place for easy access for sex?  would he play with female subs if they didnt give him sex or oral sex?

sex  and money intents. 

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RE: Tribute - 4/18/2007 5:43:07 AM   
undergroundsea


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ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne
Believe it or not, apparently some do.  There are actually subs expected to go to work and financially support their Dom (while he sits in his trailer drinkin' beer and watching football?)

All I can say is that not enough women have read "Women Who Love Too Much" by Robin Norwood.  Emotional masochism is sickening to watch.


This post suggests disapproval for men who accept tribute, and sympathy for women who might be in a one way relationship. How do you contrast your perspectives for when women must give tribute with when men must give tribute?

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: Tribute - 4/19/2007 10:53:18 PM   
HutchGarahl


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ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique
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ORIGINAL: HutchGarahl
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ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique
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ORIGINAL: HutchGarahl
quote:

ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique
ok I have decided from now on I am asking for a tribute .... but with a twist, it must be in neopoints or neopian items *g*

NEOPETS!?  WOW! Never thought i'd see that in here. :P

lol What can I say???? I am addicted, but there ya go something they have to work hard to get but that won't cost them anything other then time.

Ok, now you've sparked my curiosity there. What is your id over there? Mine is coolhuh1dragon. Oddly enough, am addicted to it myself. :P

angelofattitude131 and you would be suprised at how many people are on there that are also here lol


LOL! Really now? I sw we all get together and build our own guild. Anyone got a good name that can be put in a place like that? :P

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RE: Tribute - 4/20/2007 5:55:56 AM   
MiladyAngelique


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ORIGINAL: HutchGarahl

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ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique
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ORIGINAL: HutchGarahl
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ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique
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ORIGINAL: HutchGarahl
quote:

ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique
ok I have decided from now on I am asking for a tribute .... but with a twist, it must be in neopoints or neopian items *g*

NEOPETS!?  WOW! Never thought i'd see that in here. :P

lol What can I say???? I am addicted, but there ya go something they have to work hard to get but that won't cost them anything other then time.

Ok, now you've sparked my curiosity there. What is your id over there? Mine is coolhuh1dragon. Oddly enough, am addicted to it myself. :P

angelofattitude131 and you would be suprised at how many people are on there that are also here lol


LOL! Really now? I sw we all get together and build our own guild. Anyone got a good name that can be put in a place like that? :P


the problem isn't the name it is getting it past the censors there lol




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RE: Tribute - 4/20/2007 6:53:25 AM   
BayouSub


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Status: offline 		This is the warning message from collarme that all of you have seen in replying to emails:

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  DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON!

 
That seems clear enough to me.  What part of "DO NOT SEND MONEY" is anyone having a problem with?

Point 1 - If you view the TOS, collarme.com is clearly based in the United States and subject to the laws of the USA and individual states.  I personally would support making prostitution legal in all 50 states but it is presently legal only in a few counties in Nevada.

Point 2 - I have no problem with a professional charging a fee for a service as long as there is no deception involved.

Point 3 - If you ask for money, you are a professional no matter whether you call it a fee or tribute.

Point 4 - I don't believe collarme.com was set up as a free advertising site for professionals.  Collarme does offer paid advertising links.  If you are a pro, be a pro and purchase advertising on this site and others and leave the member part of the site to those not interested in the commercial aspect of BDSM.

BayouSub 

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RE: Tribute - 4/20/2007 8:11:59 AM   
shamedmale


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Status: offline 		why should we have to pay for pleasure and friendship. Its an Outrage

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RE: Tribute - 4/20/2007 3:10:37 PM   
Jaded2005


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Status: offline 		Trib-ute  n. 1. a gift, testimonial, compliment, given as due, or in acknowledgment of gratitude, esteem, or regard 
or
4. any exacted enforced payment or contribution

Gift n. 1. Something given voluntarily without charge

pros-ti-tute n. 2. a person who willingly uses his talent or ability in a base and unworthy way, usually for money

There you have it

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