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RE: Gifts to bring to a first session - advice needed - 4/4/2007 2:10:54 AM

MistressRouge

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I have allergies too, and I adore flowers as a gift.

Especially white lillies, my favourite

I cannot personally understand why, a gesture or gift of flowes is so offensive to some. An act of generosity should be admired, whether it be a small token of appreciation "allergies aside"!

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RE: Gifts to bring to a first session - advice needed - 4/4/2007 2:56:25 PM

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Now, whether i would accomplish this is another story, lol, but i'd try my hardest.

Well its all about effort and dedication... so whether the end result completely hit target or not..... it would still be worthwhile and VERY MUCH appreciated :)

Now if only all the Irish subs I know had similarly high targets I'd be a very happy Domme :)

In a society where male subs outnumber FemDoms by crazy proportions..... there is never a good sub around when you need one ;-)

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RE: Gifts to bring to a first session - advice needed - 4/4/2007 7:03:14 PM

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Are you talking about a first session or a first date?
A first date with a Domme would be a nice dinner per say to see how things go. From there you can discuss what you should bring to the first session.
I would suggest bringing a toy that she does not have and would like to have.

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RE: Gifts to bring to a first session - advice needed - 4/4/2007 7:25:05 PM

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I'm surprised a Domme like You is having trouble finding a sub who doesn't understand what he has got, or could have if he just wasn't so self absorbed. What's the old saying...."don't know what you got, 'til it's gone?" I bet there are alot of subs over there that are sorry they didn't put forth more effort.

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RE: Gifts to bring to a first session - advice needed - 4/5/2007 9:58:34 AM

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A nice bottle of wine or champagne would work for me and never be out of place for me but I can't say I'd be expecting anything.

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RE: Gifts to bring to a first session - advice needed - 4/5/2007 7:52:15 PM

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A nice bottle of wine or champagne would work for me and never be out of place for me but I can't say I'd be expecting anything.

I do agree with this also. Depending on how well you know the Domme, a bottle of wine is not a bad idea. After all, no one says that you have to drink it prior to a scene. There is a difference between over indulging in alcohol and a casual drink before a play session.

There have been some really good ideas to come out of this thread. I particularly liked the strawberry milk/Dorito's and the gift for the barking dog. The idea is to stand out, is it not?

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RE: Gifts to bring to a first session - advice needed - 4/5/2007 9:29:21 PM

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I vote for a BIG dildo.

Shows your commitment level.

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RE: Gifts to bring to a first session - advice needed - 4/6/2007 1:30:22 AM

Calandra

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What are her passions? Does She read? a gift certificate for a bookstore or perhaps a subscription to her favorite magazine? Does She cook? once again, something She can use everyday as a reminder of your thoughtfulness. If She wears a specific perfume, there are often lotions and body gels scented with that perfume. Does She enjoy wine? a bottle of something that comes higly recommended from your local store. "Mistress, I wanted to get You something special, and the clerk helped me select this. I hope You like it" is adorable.

I am always a sucker for a unique gift that maybe no one else thought to give Me. It doesn't have to be expensive, just something interesting and unique.

The year Columbine happened a submissive contacted Me and told Me that he'd made a contribution in My name to the fund they'd established for the victims. I thought this was very sweet. Because of our relationship someone else benefitted and that made Me think highly of him.

Whatever you do, do it from the heart and not somewhere else... a woman can always tell.

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RE: Gifts to bring to a first session - advice needed - 4/12/2007 11:56:08 PM

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*pouts*

Submissives never brought me a gift the first time... man, have I been missing out...

And we bearded men look silly when we pout, I know.

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RE: Gifts to bring to a first session - advice needed - 4/13/2007 1:08:58 AM

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One of the best gifts my first sub gave me when we were first dating was a small stuffed animal pug (he knew I own one and love them dearly) and even though we're not together anymore, I still have it and remember all the fond memories we shared. So perhaps a small token, non sexual or romantic, that will make your Lady smile and be pleased. Afterall a happy Mistress.. well you really dont want an unhappy Mistress..

Good luck!

Edited because its 0115 and I have disconnected syntax problems in My brain after finishing My homework

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