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RE: Can someone explain to me... - 1/29/2008 2:52:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea

The other day I logged on to CollarMe and noticed this domme nearby was also logged on. I immediately realized it must be destiny at work! We were both on at the same time! What are the odds of that? Our paths were destined to cross. Anyway, as I was reflecting upon this beautiful moment of truth, she logged off. She must have been overwhelmed by the magnitude of the moment.

And then I logged on again and guess who appears shortly thereafter? Now I am concerned that she is stalking me. I mean being on at the same time twice? Coincidence? I don't think so. I am considering closing this account and starting a new one. That way I won't have to worry about her stalking me anymore.

Cheers,

Sea

LOL!! An excellent plan, methinks. Or ... hmmm ... nevermind. LOL again!

I am relatively new here too, and the mail I have gotten runs the gamut from abrupt, to-the-point suggestions to friendly greetings and encouragement. I try to answer all politely and in a respectful manner, for I am responsible for my actions, not anyone else's. I have even messaged a couple of people with questions, since I grow weary in moments of having my own ignorance hanging out there for everyone to see.

If someone responds in a rude manner, it is their issue, not yours. It is no more complicated than that. Or, they are having a wickedly bad day ... heh.

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RE: Can someone explain to me... - 1/29/2008 3:02:54 PM

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Please do not stop noticing well written profiles. any attention is greatly appreciated.

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RE: Can someone explain to me... - 1/29/2008 3:05:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

What was that little cartoon with the itty bitty hyper dog and the great big dog? These guys remind me if that over eager itty bitty hyper dog.

"OMG OMG!!! She's looking at me, oh oh oh ohhhhhhhh OMG!!"

"I better start bouncing up and down to keep her attention...OMG!"

"Hey! Look at me! See me! I am perfect sub!!! OMG, she is looking at me!!"

I think the big dog's name was Spike. Can't remember the little dogs name..

Trying again, Does that not say it all?

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RE: Can someone explain to me... - 1/29/2008 6:08:53 PM

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I seriously believe some of the members of collarme do not think other "profiles" are real people. Just ordinary people like them. I do not know what they think we are!

Anonymity of the web makes some people do and say anti-social things. They think there are no consequences. Thats why it is so funny when private black lists of certain members start circulating. There are - shock horror - consequences!!

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RE: Can someone explain to me... - 1/29/2008 7:22:47 PM

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Having gotten lots of complimentary messages and only one actual flirtatious message in my time on CM...Well, in my case, it was easy to spot the difference between that one and all the others.

I like the little ego-boost a compliment about my profile gives me. Being a writer, it's always nice to know somebody enjoyed my work. Sometimes I'll respond, if a question's asked. Usually I'll just let it sit, though.

Subs who run to the end of their chains and bark...Jeeze. I'm lonely, but I ain't that lonely.

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RE: Can someone explain to me... - 1/29/2008 9:30:30 PM

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Cece, I suspect it's because of differing expectations. Whomever you're writing may be looking for connections, and you're not. When they get a message, it equates to "pickup line", when in reality, you're just being nice. When they find out it's just words and not a pickup line, they're disappointed, and they react badly to that. Why worry about it?

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RE: Can someone explain to me... - 1/29/2008 9:38:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: all4yourplsr

I have recently taken to responding to people who have just visited my profile using the "who visited me" feature. It might not lead to anything but it gets me out there in CM land. :-)

And this is exactly why most of us dislike that feature or don't bother viewing profiles anymore.

Hypothetically, if I had something to say to you when I viewed your profile, you'd know it. I would take the initiative to write and say so, you know....being dominant and all that stuff, I'm not shy.

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RE: Can someone explain to me... - 1/29/2008 10:03:10 PM

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Some people just don't know how to take a compliment.
A no strings attached gift of appreciation misconstrued.
Try not to let your generousity be stunted by those that are.
Even if you hit 100 rude twerps in a row, just making that 'nice" one's day is worth it, both to you and the person you reached out and touched, how ever briefly.

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RE: Can someone explain to me... - 1/29/2008 11:15:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: BeatMeDaily
i like to hear comments form O/others who view my profile. I've learned many
things from interaction with others. And always nice to get a "hello" from someone.

You should put your profile on visable then *chucklz*
Because now I couldn't take a peek!

Have a great day.

GoddezzT`

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RE: Can someone explain to me... - 1/30/2008 4:40:47 AM

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

Hypothetically, if I had something to say to you when I viewed your profile, you'd know it. I would take the initiative to write and say so, you know....being dominant and all that stuff, I'm not shy.

Hi Ma`am, There are surely those who view a profile that interests them, then welcome a response.

Personally i view profiles of people whose posts i find interesting.

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RE: Can someone explain to me... - 1/30/2008 4:24:36 PM

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Heck, I had two letters today in my box from different dommes complimenting me on my profile, my pics, how much they enjoy my posts and journals, and how beautifully I declare my love and adoration to my owner. I didn't view it as flirting or hitting on me. It's so nice to receive letters like that...and it's nice to be perved, too!

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RE: Can someone explain to me... - 1/30/2008 4:31:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: justasubby

I have written to Dommes to compliment them on their profile or just to let them know that something in their profile has encouraged me to think that I may one day find what I am looking for. I have made several friends this way and one can never tell what can come from networking with like minded people!

Yes you are quite wonderful that way. *smiles* and unlike many others you are not pushy about it. Any Lady would be quite lucky to find you.

Gwyn

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RE: Can someone explain to me... - 1/30/2008 4:45:57 PM

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I always get complements on my pictures, not my profile. When I first came on this site I got a bunch of messages telling me that I was to ugly to be a Domme and pointing out that I have acne. Now I get a ton of complements on my feet/stilettos.

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