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RE: swallowing cum - 4/13/2007 6:10:58 PM

lovewithoutfear

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"And it makes a big difference in taste according on what you eat. "

Both of the guys I do a lot of this for are vegetarians. One of them eats canned pineapple to make it taste better. I have heard of celery for this too.

It is just mind over matter really. Or it was for me.

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/13/2007 8:06:27 PM

slaveish

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Yep. Coffee, brussels sprouts, broccoli, and certain vitamins make it a little harder to swallow. It's never gonna taste like chocolate ... but it sure can be just as pleasant. ~smiling~

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/14/2007 1:38:16 PM

rskenderian

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oh, just love it already!

:)

What's with all these sexual problems? i'm a cum junky; it's just so unfortunate that i can't be because of the 'stuff' going around. Stick it in my Woman's ass and make me swallow, please.

Go mental. Love sex. Sex love. Make love and sex to everything always. Let your passions loose. Stop thinking about right and wrong. Stop the guilt-shit. Free yourself - anyway you can. BDSM and D/s is not for accountants and Fire Safety Instructors. Sorry, but us artists have this thing about accountants and Fire Safety Instructors.

BDSM - 24/7 D/s is NOT sane in an way, shape or form. Please see that. It can make you sane, eventually, hopefully, however.

"Stop making sense - makingsense."
- TVLKINGHEADS -"Stop Making Sense"

"Loved ones, loved ones visit the building
Take the highway, park and come up and see me
I'll be working, working but if you come visit
I'll put down what I'm doing, my friends are important

I wouldn't worry 'bout
I wouldn't worry about me
Don't you worry 'bout me
Don't you worry 'bout MEEEEEEEEEEEEE..."
- TVLKINGHEADS - "Talking Heads 77 - Don't Worry About The Government"

"Home;
it's where i want to be -
but,
i guess
i'm already there."
- TVLKINGHEADS "Speaking in Tongues - This Must Be The Place (naive melody)"

"Facts are simple and facts are straight
Facts are lazy and facts are late
Facts all come with points of view
Facts don't do what I want them to
Facts just twist the truth around
Facts are living turned inside out
Facts are getting the best of them
Facts are nothing on the face of things
Facts don't stain the furniture
Facts go out and slam the door
Facts are written all over your face
Facts continue to change their shape

I'm still waiting...I'm still waiting...I'm still waiting...
I'm still waiting...I'm still waiting...I'm still waiting...
I'm still waiting...I'm still waiting..."
- TVLKINGHEADS -"Remain in Light - Crosseyed and Painless."

Swallowing Cum:
1) Stop making sense.
2) Don't worry about the government.
3) This must be the place.
4) Crosseyed and Painless

OMG i'm too funny.

- richard "puppy"

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/14/2007 2:19:20 PM

barnone

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2-4 ice cubes
diced pineapple
3 oz. coconut milk
3 oz. rum
3 oz. cum

Blend at high speed. Strain into margarita glass and garnish with slice of pineapple and mint leaf.

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/14/2007 2:38:05 PM

julietsierra

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I read all the replies and I guess I go against the grain here. I also had that same block. There have been people in my past who have asked me to specify what was wrong with it in my mind. Was it taste, was it texture, what was the issue, and I never really had a good answer for them.

When I met the person who is my Master, I had that same mental block. I told him about it. He said he didn't care. If I didn't want to do it, then just don't. But I always felt like I'd let him down (ok, poor choice of words) like I was perhaps disappointing him. He assured me I was not and always had kleenex around for me.

Amazingly though, a while into our relationship, I was going down on him and when he came, I discovered I was driven to swallow. He wasn't forcing me, this drive, this desire stronger than any I'd felt in a long long time was making it imperative that I did just that.

And lo and behold, I discovered what my problem was all along. In that one moment, it all became clear to me - so clear, I couldn't believe I'd never figured it out before.

Just think about what we've been told about semen. It'll get you pregnant. It can carry disease. It tastes bad. It comes from the same hole that urine comes from (yes, I have a block about that too). Watch out. Protect yourself. Be careful.

And I discovered that my "mental block" was all about intimacy and yes, even trust to a certain extent. When I finally reached the point where I wanted to give more, do more, be more to him, swallowing was just one way I was able to do that. In essence, I took all those warnings and fears and tossed them to the wind.

By the time I was swallowing, my mental block had changed from a block to this intense desire to take a part of him into me so that for that one instant, we were mixed together - one person (so to speak).

The best analogy I have for it is those old movies where the native american and the mountain man cut themselves and become "blood brothers" except that to me, because of how we are mixing, it means even more.

Today, swallowing is something revered by me. It is an activity I love and I think if he'd have pushed me to do this, I might not have loved it as much. I would have hated for something this intimate to be something I do only because I'm required to do it. This way, when swallow, it's an expression of just how much I care for him.

juliet

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/14/2007 3:01:30 PM

sting516

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the only time i do such a thing is when i'm asked/ordered to do so...but when i do, i find it exciting because i'm doing it at someone else's behest...maybe you need to wait until you're in a situation that excites you enough to make you really want it.

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/14/2007 3:09:55 PM

Sunshine119

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Yeah.....I still puke. So, submissive or not. If he doesn't want the vomit, he doesn't do it.

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/14/2007 6:54:17 PM

grlneedstolearn

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quote:

ORIGINAL: alex22wv

Greetings all,
I am currently trying to get over the mental block of swallowing my own cum. Does anyone have suggestions of ways to get over this mental hurdle other then just do it?

Alex

Your post had me questioning that last night. i know that eventually my Dom is going to train me to eat my cum so i tasted it last night. Salty yes, but i didn't think it was that bad. And yes i'd try it again when i get the chance.

Good luck with it

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/14/2007 7:31:18 PM

Domin8tingUrDrmz

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RowanJ

Think of it as protein. :) That's what I do when I don't particularly feel like swallowing my Dom's semen. Just remember that it's good for you!

~Rowan

Many mention the protein content, but they neglect the fructose content. Semen is primarly fructose with only about 6% protein, I do not know if there is sufficient fiber to counterbalance the fructose but I doubt there is. If you are diabetic, I would be careful; if you are not diabetic...have at it!

To verify my statements regarding fructose you may read "The Penis Book".

edited to add source of information regarding content.

< Message edited by Domin8tingUrDrmz -- 4/14/2007 7:32:47 PM >

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/15/2007 7:25:27 AM

rskenderian

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quote:

ORIGINAL: barnone
Blend at high speed.

Does the recipe actually call for a high-speed blend? i would have thought a slower, gentler merging - a stirred, not shaken - approach would be in order.

Also, how much foam do you get at a high-speed blend? Does it get a head on it?

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/15/2007 10:30:40 AM

SilkLaceNPearls

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

If it's the texture that bothers you, spread it thin on a slice of bread.

Master Fire

Personally, I have no problem with swallowing. I enjoy it immensely within the right circumstances. But putting it on a slice of bread squicks me greatly which is most confusing as one of my most arousing fantasies is to be with my Master (whenever I find him) in a restaurant having an after dinner coffee. During that time, I massage my Master to completion, using my half full cup of coffee to catch his cum. Then I stir up my coffee, and indulge myself much like a cat licking cream off her paws.

Coffee, yes. Bread, no! Go figure!

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/18/2007 7:21:46 AM

LotusSong

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quote:

ORIGINAL: alex22wv

Greetings all,
I am currently trying to get over the mental block of swallowing my own cum. Does anyone have suggestions of ways to get over this mental hurdle other then just do it?

Alex

Have you ever asked someone to swallow YOUR cum? Consider it karmic payback (it's a b*tch isn't it? :)

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/18/2007 8:45:16 PM

funNtrainable

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if she (or he) wants you to swallow that, cum on her and lick it off her. the easiest way (for me) was when she made me lose it on her body, then without hesitation, she grabbed me by the neck and made me clean her. It took a few tries (and smeared faces) but I did it. she also placed it perfectly, which helped. At the same time (not exact moment, but time in relationship), she would also hang me off the bed and "aim" to make her laugh. With the right ring gag, she laughed and I got used to the idea. It was part of the play and erotic. Not some punishment afterwards. That made it possible.

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/18/2007 8:58:06 PM

marylynn

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try a little at a time. I agree with some of the other responses up there before me - a little at a time. On the tip of your finger, or maybe licking it off Her body.

but always keep in the back of your mind that it's for Her pleasure - not yours (necessarily). And always always be as honest and open as you can with Her... talk with Her about your hang ups.
you'll probably find that She's willing to listen..

..good luck..

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/19/2007 6:24:30 PM

rskenderian

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra

Amazingly though, a while into our relationship, I was going down on him and when he came, I discovered I was driven to swallow. He wasn't forcing me, this drive, this desire stronger than any I'd felt in a long long time was making it imperative that I did just that.

And I discovered that my "mental block" was all about intimacy and yes, even trust to a certain extent. When I finally reached the point where I wanted to give more, do more, be more to him, swallowing was just one way I was able to do that.

By the time I was swallowing, my mental block had changed from a block to this intense desire to take a part of him into me so that for that one instant, we were mixed together - one person (so to speak).

This way, when swallow, it's an expression of just how much I care for him.

juliet

<edited by me for consistency - no, not that consistency>
i think this is wonderful and beautiful; i'm happy, juliet, that this 'transformation' could occur from a 'mental block' or 'frigidity' to a full-out and meaningful passion. So many things are in the mind, placed there by external sources, that keep people from their truest freedoms, happiness, expressions, and from the fullest experience and fulfillment of meaning.

i love to kiss my woman after she's taken my cum in her mouth; i love that mutual intimacy and i love to express how much it means to me that it means so much to her.

Personally, i don't think there's too much more you can do to make a man feel loved than to desire, crave his cum (personally). For me this is very powerful, and i am kissing my woman as soon as i've finished orgasming (well, she can feel me leaning forward to kiss, and meets my mouth - eagerly! .. as it tends to happen).

... and yes, i've gotten those couple of impetuous *surprise* load-fulls squirted into my mouth, with the attending laughter caught in my ear.

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/19/2007 9:04:21 PM

temptressofsouls

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Im not sure I quite understand the aversion...Women do it all the time, you can, too. ;)

Sometimes with things you dont like, its easier if you jump in and do it with the least amount of thinking possible. Dont give yourself time to get worked up about it, just do it, do it quick, and freak out AFTERWARD *chuckles*

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/19/2007 9:23:04 PM

Cuckme4Life

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Considering i am now in my 40s, this brought back a few memories of that 1st Mistress i served so long ago and learned many a lesson from. She liked to masturbate/milk me Herself and have me cum in a shotglass, then She would top it off with Her fave shots .... i got used to it failry quickly , until eventually there was nothing but my own cum in a shotglass and no more tequila or "apple pucker" shots to mix it with,,, wasnt an issue, just did it and thought nothing of it....i m guessing 2 weeks tops is how She worked me into doing it,,,,, perhaps this might help????????

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/19/2007 9:28:33 PM

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Juliet,

Thanks for a great post and a perfect illustration of why pretending to ignore a problem/issue (all while watching like a parent over a developing child) it will quite often solve itself. Similar reasons why I laugh about people who want to train their women who dislike anal sex to instead like it. Force them into it and they will rarely like it, go slowly am make them WANT to be anal whores and you get exactly what you want. It just takes patience, a bit of nurturing, and the ability to wait.

quote:

When I met the person who is my Master, I had that same mental block. I told him about it. He said he didn't care. If I didn't want to do it, then just don't....

Amazingly though, a while into our relationship, I was going down on him and when he came, I discovered I was driven to swallow. He wasn't forcing me, this drive, this desire stronger than any I'd felt in a long long time was making it imperative that I did just that.

So by waiting, he got exactly what he wanted, a woman who lusts for him in ways she never did for another. Works for me and it does work for me!

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/19/2007 9:36:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Juliet,

Thanks for a great post and a perfect illustration of why pretending to ignore a problem/issue (all while watching like a parent over a developing child) it will quite often solve itself. Similar reasons why I laugh about people who want to train their women who dislike anal sex to instead like it. Force them into it and they will rarely like it, go slowly am make them WANT to be anal whores and you get exactly what you want. It just takes patience, a bit of nurturing, and the ability to wait.

quote:

When I met the person who is my Master, I had that same mental block. I told him about it. He said he didn't care. If I didn't want to do it, then just don't....

Amazingly though, a while into our relationship, I was going down on him and when he came, I discovered I was driven to swallow. He wasn't forcing me, this drive, this desire stronger than any I'd felt in a long long time was making it imperative that I did just that.

So by waiting, he got exactly what he wanted, a woman who lusts for him in ways she never did for another. Works for me and it does work for me!

Sigh....It works for me too
Have you ever tasted your own cum though?

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RE: swallowing cum - 4/19/2007 9:40:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Juliet,

Thanks for a great post and a perfect illustration of why pretending to ignore a problem/issue (all while watching like a parent over a developing child) it will quite often solve itself. Similar reasons why I laugh about people who want to train their women who dislike anal sex to instead like it. Force them into it and they will rarely like it, go slowly am make them WANT to be anal whores and you get exactly what you want. It just takes patience, a bit of nurturing, and the ability to wait.

quote:

When I met the person who is my Master, I had that same mental block. I told him about it. He said he didn't care. If I didn't want to do it, then just don't....

Amazingly though, a while into our relationship, I was going down on him and when he came, I discovered I was driven to swallow. He wasn't forcing me, this drive, this desire stronger than any I'd felt in a long long time was making it imperative that I did just that.

So by waiting, he got exactly what he wanted, a woman who lusts for him in ways she never did for another. Works for me and it does work for me!

This could and should be aplied to everything. SimplyMichael you are very insightful, and believe your philosophy on this is right on...

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