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RE: swallowing cum - 8/16/2007 11:34:58 AM   
livericecream


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Status: offline 		My problem was the loss of excitement just after ejaculating.  I would suggest saving a load in a shot glass in the refrigerator and then dumping it in your mouth just before you ejaculate the next time you do whatever you do to ejaculate. Warm it up first with a hair dryer, microwave, etc.   

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RE: swallowing cum - 8/16/2007 1:44:31 PM   
leatherpet32


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Well, as i mentioned not too experienced, but i HAVE tried my own cum, and rather enjoyed the taste/texture. Not something i do everytime the 5 fingered Dom/me shows up, but after finding that out, i felt alot more relaxed about cum. Now i am all for trying others, my own, whatever. I'm glad i tried it, not there are more doors open to experience! Cumming on a pair of boots and licking it off would certainly not bother me lol.

Ya'll have a good one

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RE: swallowing cum - 8/18/2007 4:13:00 PM   
Bleys


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

You could try flavoring it. I heard you can get some pills that make it taste like candy.


Wonder if it comes in chocolate... *considers*


From what I understand, diet affects taste - lots of fruit and veg makes it more palletable (sp?) than a predominately meaty diet.

Wonder if it comes in chocolate..Freudian slip, AquaticSub?  :-)

B

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RE: swallowing cum - 8/19/2007 5:31:34 AM   
trustingsubHF


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Status: offline 		nothing to this... drink up!

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RE: swallowing cum - 8/19/2007 5:33:48 AM   
InnocentYoungSub


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Status: offline 		Do women 'cum'? (i.e. emit a liquid of some kind when they orgasm)

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RE: swallowing cum - 8/19/2007 5:39:23 AM   
missjan


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Status: offline 		this squirter can promise women cum..lol

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RE: swallowing cum - 8/19/2007 5:41:31 AM   
InnocentYoungSub


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this squirter can promise women cum..lol


Eh? Squirter?

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RE: swallowing cum - 8/19/2007 7:25:53 AM   
julietsierra


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ORIGINAL: sfdrew

The only thing i can compare it to is eating a bug


rofl!! I've heard of cum being compared to a lot of things, but I can honestly say that this is the FIRST time I've ever heard it being compared to a bug. I swear! If the next time I'm going down on him, I start to think of cockroaches, I'm hunting you down!!
That is HILARIOUS!!

juliet

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RE: swallowing cum - 8/19/2007 7:58:49 AM   
BoundDragon


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Status: offline 		Oh yes... I get very 'wet' although I'm no squirter. Have got a friend who can hit the ceiling when she does (yes it is an old house with a low ceiling.... but still impressive.... or scary)

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RE: swallowing cum - 8/20/2007 7:00:43 AM   
chey


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Status: offline 		I am not sure if this will help you but I will share something personal. I have been learning how to worship and suck a cock (leaving out the personal aspects of this particular relationship)....What I am finding is that it is more about my focus on him and my desire to please him that changes my mental outlook on it. This is the first time I have let myself stop thinking so much about the "what" I was doing and instead concentrated on why. I stopped thinking about how uncomfortable I was, and realized I was determined to please him and excited about it. I found that it aroused me when my mindset was one of being in my place and loving where I was and in being so aroused, the idea of doing things that once were difficult for me to do and enjoy, were now coming naturally. I was able to take him deeper, swallow his cum and love it, and also enjoy having it on my face. I would even go as far as to say I begged for it! So my point is, maybe if you are able to come to it from a different perspective it would help you like it did me. For me it took taking myself out of the equation and making it about him. I am not sure if you were questioning this in regards to a he or a she but either way. I am certainly not saying that it is an easy thing to do for some of us. I know it is not for me, this has truly been the first time I have been in a place of some selflessness. So I do wish you the best of luck and I hope no matter what advice works for you that you do find something that helps.

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RE: swallowing cum - 8/20/2007 7:10:07 AM   
Cuckme4Life


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Status: offline 		Concerning Female squirters, my (vanilla) ex could squirt so much the bedsheets and mattress had to be dealt with immediately. May as well have turned a water hose on , LOL!!  Tried swallowing her fluids sometimes  and it came out so rapidly i couldnt, Oh yeah. Some Women can squirt!!! And GOD BLESS THEM ALL THAT CAN!!! i would worship a squirter anytime.

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RE: swallowing cum - 8/20/2007 7:11:35 AM   
chey


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Status: offline 		alex I wish you had come back to answer some questions such as why. Are you wanting to do this for a Mistress or Master? Just a casual play partner? I apologize for misunderstanding you in my last response. I misread your original post. What I said could still apply however. Again, for me a lot of what I do is in my mindset and where I am mentally.

What juliet and Michael said about not being forced is also significant. Had the man I was refering to said to me "just do it, because I said so" I would not have been approaching it from a place of intense desire to do so that came from within me!

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RE: swallowing cum - 8/28/2007 2:30:02 PM   
Vigilantejustice


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Status: offline 		To the OP:
If it's psychological, don't worry. It really isn't as bad as your ex girlfriend or whoever made it out to be.  I really think that the only reason people take issue with it is the classic stigma. They say things (founded and unfounded) about (especially males) swallowing/tasting cum because everyone else does, and it becomes a negative association in the mind. If someone didn't know that the shot they were handed was cum, they probably wouldn't mind it so much. (Not that I recommend tricking anyone like that. It's really poor form.<winks>)
If it's a matter of flavor, eat lots of celery, drink tons of water, or lots of orange juice. One of my lovers was on a road trip with me once, and he'd been drinking nothing but OJ for about 2 days straight. He tasted citrusy, it was nice. <grins>
If it's more a matter of general squeamishness, try making it very sexual, like cleaning her with your tongue, or if it's not okay to cum on/in *her*, cum on something that is lickable (leather boots, as opposed to velvet or the like) and then she can (nominally) force you to clean up your mess with your mouth. Or she can scoop it up with her finger and then perform the same actions on you as you do to her finger. Oh my... is it getting hot in here? <grins>
Oh and for the record, I've never had any qualms about sexual fluids, so these sorts of things for me are really just the icing on the cock, er, cake... yeah, that's what I meant. <devilish grin>
On Female Ejaculation:
I have known women who could cum, I have known women who hadn't been able to yet. I've only recently discovered my ability to cum. (The world will never be the same! <maniacal laughter>) Some women are like a fire hose, force, distance, very dramatic. Some women (myself included) more strongly resemble an overflowing bathtub... it's just gushing, like suddenly there's no place to keep it inside. I much prefer the latter, personally. Less risk of losing an eye. ;-)
Just my 2p,
-Justice, aka Domina Cerise

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RE: swallowing cum - 8/28/2007 3:30:20 PM   
TakenPet


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Status: offline 		Rose that is a very good idea.  I personally just swallowed it, and over time a few more times I have learned to love swallowing and in fact crave it most of the time.  I think try the soda or juice idea, when I first started I used juice.  If you dont' like the taste you can always pop a mint or something.  I think your best solution is to talk about how you are feeling with your Dom and work on it from there.  They always have some good suggestions for you as well.
Good luck, you'll love it soon enough.

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RE: swallowing cum - 9/2/2007 2:17:17 AM   
southernsubboy


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Status: offline 		just LMAO at all the ideas haha

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RE: swallowing cum - 9/2/2007 2:21:53 AM   
twistedkytten


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Status: offline 		gargle with it... swish it around in your mouth...  no sorry I have to agree with MasterFireMaam

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