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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/9/2007 8:02:44 AM   
Jasmyn


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LOTS of women fantasise to get off!  Its very common.  Men can get off totally on physical sensation but women usually (yes, usually) need to 'go some place else" in their heads.
 
Often pondered would men feel ripped off to learn that great orgasm they thought they gave her last night, she kind gave it to herself...


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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/9/2007 9:50:59 AM   
PONYSEEKER


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Status: offline 		I have an oral fetish so I eat and eat often... allmost daily and I dont go inside anything I havent eaten.

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/9/2007 4:51:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: arayofsunshine55

OK -- I was a dyke for many years, over 20.  Even then cunnilingus was not my sup of tea.  Having nothing to do with upbringing.  In order to get off I need my head heavily in the game.  And if his mouth is down there full of me my head is not overwhelmed by him or her.   The ongoing sex banter is cut off.  That's just me, no matter how good the person thinks she is techincally.  So that takes me to fantasy land, cause fantasies can overwhelm my head, it's how I masturbate.  But I have no desire to being fantasy land with another.   I'd much rather have him up there physically with me.  That's me.


So what if verbage were to be prerecorded and played while activities were underway?

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/10/2007 7:25:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		BRNaughtyAngel - you are correct..in fact Amuzing usually squirts at the end of an orgasm.  The female G-Spot is made of the same tissue as the male prostrate.  The female ejaculate is very similar to the clear fluid released by the male prostrate. 

The female body and mind are wonderful things.  That is why one technique will not work for all women.

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/11/2007 6:57:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne
Two is a small sample.  This is Ask a Master so I am asking you guys: do you perform cunnilingus and if not, why not?


Alas, mine doesn't like to. 

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/11/2007 7:42:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		To me, there is nothing as sexually pleasing as having a dominant go down on me.  I don't take long to cum when receiving oral.
And as to the idea that it is not Dom-ly...at least from my persepctive, I feel far more submissive and "owned" when being licked, especially if I am bound.
But thats just my thoughts. ^.^

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/11/2007 3:42:03 PM   
ScreamerGirl


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Status: offline 		I'm not sure why this is a d/s issue.  To me, it's really not.  It's a personal thing.

I'm not crazy about receiving oral.  Mostly - probably - because I never had a partner who was good at it or enthusiastic about it.  My recent ex and I had a deal that there was no oral either way (he felt that was fair) in our relationship because neither of us had this all-powerful urge for it.

I may meet someone someday who is good at it, and then enjoy it.  But it isn't going to matter to me if he's dominant or not.  It's not a submissive act.  It's a sexual act.

And if I don't meet someone who's good at it?  I'm sure I'll find a way to get by /wink


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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/11/2007 4:27:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		This thread makes me so very sad on so very very many levels.  In talking to a woman who was relating something about blowjobs and making them sound sloppy plus things like what spring break has turned into that most people in America actually DO get their sexual education from porno.

While I realize all women are different, oral sex can and should be a part of most people's healthy sexual range.  I mean fuck, even vanilla people do it?  We don't want them being kinkier than WE are!

So many people look at "that" as yucky, whether that is men terrified to touch/taste their own cum, men and women freaked out about menstrual blood, or that their cunt is ugly (guys, you would be AMAZED at how many do) or guys that worry about small dicks (trust me, tongues are FAR more important and mine is short so size doesn't matter).

Perhaps a few of us guys who LOVE oral should start touring the country teaching classes as I think it is immoral the state of affairs if this many people don't love oral sex.

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/12/2007 6:40:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Rose4Mistress

To me, there is nothing as sexually pleasing as having a dominant go down on me.  I don't take long to cum when receiving oral.
And as to the idea that it is not Dom-ly...at least from my persepctive, I feel far more submissive and "owned" when being licked, especially if I am bound.
But thats just my thoughts. ^.^


Rose4Mistress..
I agree with you 100%..
(and thanks for the nice little erotic wake up!)
-BSB


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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/12/2007 10:21:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

This thread makes me so very sad on so very very many levels.  In talking to a woman who was relating something about blowjobs and making them sound sloppy plus things like what spring break has turned into that most people in America actually DO get their sexual education from porno.

While I realize all women are different, oral sex can and should be a part of most people's healthy sexual range.  I mean fuck, even vanilla people do it?  We don't want them being kinkier than WE are!

So many people look at "that" as yucky, whether that is men terrified to touch/taste their own cum, men and women freaked out about menstrual blood, or that their cunt is ugly (guys, you would be AMAZED at how many do) or guys that worry about small dicks (trust me, tongues are FAR more important and mine is short so size doesn't matter).

Perhaps a few of us guys who LOVE oral should start touring the country teaching classes as I think it is immoral the state of affairs if this many people don't love oral sex.



pleeease don't get that tour underway anytime soon. imo there are far too many men, Dominant and vanilla alike, who think that every woman loves (or should love) to receive oral sex, and insist on doing it for that purpose.

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/17/2007 3:05:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		There was a time before the NEt, yes there was a time before that, when it was thought to be too much of a submissive thing for a Domnant to do with a slave. It would have been looked down on by Other Masters. slaves were very leary of being in that position too.
I know of several slaves, a wide range of ages, which believe so today, just as being "on top" for sex.
Personaly I fnothing against this but I do feel it is the territory of slaves to be the oral-subs to other slaves rather than the Master. Why? Because that is putting her pleasure first if a master wants to give His slave a 'reward" fine. But then to Each His Own ........

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/17/2007 3:23:25 PM   
OedipusRexIt


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Status: offline 		To the OP's original question/point:

Of course. 

Why would I deny myself that pleasure, let alone my partner?  I don't confuse being Dominant with being selfish or obtuse.



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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/17/2007 4:01:22 PM   
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hell yeah.

and to any sub who says it is not 'Domly', I'd just bind em', maybe a blindfold,
then tell them since no pain will be involved there is no need for a safeword......right?

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RE: Oral sex taboo? - 4/17/2007 10:41:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		My Master was the first to ever go down on me and he loves it and I wasn't the first he went down on. I guess some men don't like it and other do or as others have said they may think it is a submissive act. No oral taboos here tho.

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