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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 7/30/2007 1:27:28 PM

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My ex was the perfect male wife but he hated to hear it! So sad! I miss him for that!

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 7/30/2007 2:33:09 PM

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I am a male wifeand it sucks maybe call me the male soccar mom i pick the kids up do the chores ,laundry cook the meals , keep the house clean and all the traditional male chores outside and there is no Kink here

if being the wife (whether it be a female or male) means all you are is a servant and no romance, play or sex. i'd be gone in 60 seconds. i can get sex pretty easy if i want it and if by bowing down to a female Dominant means to simply be used, while she gets her sex elsewhere, count me out. in my mind, she should show some love and gratitude to her male wife, just like it would be expected the other way around. that doesn't mean i wouldn't want some discipline in between. this male wife would have some emotional and physical needs too. sounds like some women really just want a male slave and not a male wife. keeping a wife happy takes some work. just think about the expectations that a woman wife would have and reverse that. it's a good starting point. what type of reward do you have in this relationship?

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 7/30/2007 2:47:28 PM

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He amuses me, he often asks if he can take my last name!
I tell him I don't think this is legally possible.

It is legal...it's just a name change

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 7/30/2007 2:58:06 PM

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Damn! Me too! I want a male wife! If thats what it takes to get the job done! I want to marry a man whos as good a wife as I am for sure! Or maybe I want a secratary for the paperwork, and a poolboy for the sex. Hmm, male wife secratary pool boy. Some times its hard making up my mind.

why not go for a "hot male (submissive) wife" (trophy male wife) or would you feel intimidated and marry one without self esteem and search for the pool boy on the side?

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 7/30/2007 3:03:27 PM

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not all Domme's cockholding, finding a good domestic male shouldnt be that hard to find but he is.....and there are the ones of Us out here that do love sex, so keep looking and you will find your match just like in submissives not everyone is alike

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 7/31/2007 12:30:28 AM

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Hello, i'm new to this board. i'm intrigued by the concept of a male wife, but how does a male wife differ from a sub or a slave?

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 7/31/2007 5:24:59 AM

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nice red shoes

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 7/31/2007 2:01:16 PM

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This is very interestnig concept. Could someone, please, explain in more detail what the concept entails? As i read the posts it sounds like the male is simply required to the dual roles women have traditionally done - work both in and outside the home. What more does it entail, ie., dress? characteristics? etc.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 7/31/2007 8:15:16 PM

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Dress and other specifics are determined by the relationship. For us, we aren't interested in crossdressing, so we prefer our boy(s) to not wear women's clothing. Other Dominants may want to keep her male wife in dresses ... For us, we want one of our boys to only work part time - others want their boy(s) to work full time or not at all.

As with most other aspects of life, there is no "one true way"

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/1/2007 6:55:35 AM

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Thank You, Sweet Dommes. i would be interested in hearing, er, reading, what othr Dommes prefer concerning this and the male wifes.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/1/2007 8:32:02 AM

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WOW As I am posting my reply there are 14 pages of discussion of this topic... And I would guess, most Dommes would gladly welcome the idea of a "male wife" or "house husband".
My own personal preference is to have my prime or number 1 sub/slave work full time... and either have a specified house slave that HE would direct, to pick up the slack... or to hire a regular service to do the domestic work.
Now did anyone determine where we can find 1 or 2 of these little gems...
I am presently accepting applications ;)

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/1/2007 8:48:22 AM

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I have a male wife.....recently aquired.....I am still working out the details of how the relatoinship is going to work.....partially because he is 4 years from retirement so leaving his job is not a good idea right now and partially because we are still learning each other and trying to incorporate as much as possible of what we each desire into the relationship.

My "male wife" happens to enjoy cross dressing.   Skirts work for me for they afford unlimited access to the parts I love to torment.   HIs cock is caged when he is away from home on business....I am not unrealistic.....he is still MALE....

Once I finalize how things will work for my primary relatoinship I will be seeking someone(s) to fill in the gaps left by what I find works for my "male wife" and myself.   I suspect I am going to need someone stronger to lift the a/c's in and out of the window.......maybe a nice bull?? Grin....

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/1/2007 1:22:52 PM

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Congratulations on the male wife!
Let us know how things work out for you.
Do you have a cute sissy maid outfit yet?

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/1/2007 2:33:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: bettamorphasis

WANTED one male wife.. with detachable testicles and latin style furry chest for public roleplay/decoy preferably with silver spoon up his ass and Hot Pink Ferrari..must moan in bed even when has headache...and insist we go to his mothers for lunch after church..yeah that gets me wet!!!!!!!!!

Ok where do I sign up??

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/1/2007 2:44:29 PM

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Congratulations on the male wife!
Let us know how things work out for you.
Do you have a cute sissy maid outfit yet?

Dont worry I can get one asap

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/1/2007 3:11:13 PM

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I am a male wife for all intents and purposes. I am not a sub or slave. I am the primary homemaker. I cook, I clean, I do laundry. My wife pursues her career, takes out the trash, fixes the garbage disposal, and changes the oil in the car. That has nothing to do with the kink end of our lives. It simply comes down a division of household labor based on what each of us is able to do and inclined to do. She can barely cook and I don't know a spark plug from a fan belt. So, I'm the homemaker, she's the breadwinner. The idea that being the homemaker is somehow submissive or sissified -and hence inferior - is nothing more than idiotic gender bias.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/2/2007 5:34:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: Suleiman

I am a male wife for all intents and purposes. I am not a sub or slave. I am the primary homemaker. I cook, I clean, I do laundry. My wife pursues her career, takes out the trash, fixes the garbage disposal, and changes the oil in the car. That has nothing to do with the kink end of our lives. It simply comes down a division of household labor based on what each of us is able to do and inclined to do. She can barely cook and I don't know a spark plug from a fan belt. So, I'm the homemaker, she's the breadwinner. The idea that being the homemaker is somehow submissive or sissified -and hence inferior - is nothing more than idiotic gender bias.

The THRILL of having a submissive man around, who acts as a wife, is what we are looking for here on this "ask a Mistress" thread. It is not about the vanilla thing that happens re: chores, and who does them.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/2/2007 11:37:15 AM

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I am a male wife for all intents and purposes. I am not a sub or slave. I am the primary homemaker. I cook, I clean, I do laundry. My wife pursues her career, takes out the trash, fixes the garbage disposal, and changes the oil in the car. That has nothing to do with the kink end of our lives. It simply comes down a division of household labor based on what each of us is able to do and inclined to do. She can barely cook and I don't know a spark plug from a fan belt. So, I'm the homemaker, she's the breadwinner. The idea that being the homemaker is somehow submissive or sissified -and hence inferior - is nothing more than idiotic gender bias.

The THRILL of having a submissive man around, who acts as a wife, is what we are looking for here on this "ask a Mistress" thread. It is not about the vanilla thing that happens re: chores, and who does them.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/2/2007 12:49:55 PM

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So, I'm the homemaker, she's the breadwinner. The idea that being the homemaker is somehow submissive or sissified -and hence inferior - is nothing more than idiotic gender bias.

As you (and we) already know, neither being a male wife nor any other career path make one (male or female) submissive or dominant in and of themselves. As YesMistressIrish correctly points out, it is being associated with submission here because we are fem dominants seeking submissive male wives. M

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/2/2007 11:13:57 PM

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My ex Wife had a male housewife for 20 yrs and in the end it was not enough for her.I am a submissive crossdresser and She knew it the first time my jeans came down. She said "I might get a bit rough with you" when She felt my panties that first time and i was so hooked.Over these past years i have done all of the cooking laundry and made the bed every morning,with joy.The BDSM aspect did not develope beyond a personaly satisfied level between us. i always wished to dress up completely But She could only tolereate me in panties or tights and a leotard around the house. i will miss her rough play and hairbrush the most being spanked by Her was my reward.She became very involved in a new church a couple years ago and became less tolerant of my crossdressing.it has been a year since the divorse and i am starting to become more social.i think a Dominate Woman is waiting for me to become Her wife. please ask for blessings for my neighbors that are victims of the bridge in mpls mn,ty.

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