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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 10/31/2007 11:53:27 PM   
ServeYou


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Status: offline 		Wow, incredible thread. It just keeps going and going.

I did not get the impression that most of the dommes here were looking for someone a lot younger than themselves. I would think most people would look for someone near their own age for any kind of long-term relationship. Otherwise you have different cultural touchstones.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/1/2007 2:24:17 PM   
Cissykay1999


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Status: offline 		SweetDomme,
I think that is my problem. I don't contact any domme under the age of 45, or over 65. Although I have recieved messages from women as young as 19, I don't answer or ask anyone under the age I've stated. I think alot of the problem that older male submissives face is that many dommes over the age of 45 just leave collarme. Couple that with the fact that many of the men and women on here are just plain phonies, (more men) it is very hard to connect. I have met three terrific ladies recently on this site, and only one told me up front that she was married. The other two waited quite some time to spring that on me. The one that told me she was married has become a respected friend, and I will fly to Dallas soon to meet her and her husband.
I've been out of collarme since I got ill in 2006, but I've been a member for 5 years. I actually found 1 woman that I wanted to meet. I flew to Atlanta to meet, and we had the best week possible. Unfortunately, yhings fell apart shortly after my visit. It did give me hope that there might be a domme for me out there though.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/3/2007 7:32:40 AM   
MuscleCuteClever


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Status: offline 		Personally I dont offer anything extra from my sexuality in terms of an actual relationship and would never take any role that pertains to my sexuality and define the relationship itself as such.  So "I will do anything to please Mistress" is something Dommes will never hear from me.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/10/2007 6:13:25 AM   
OneSlvman


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Status: offline 		i would love being a male wife again.  i was functionally for several years in a wonderful relationship.  It would be easier now since i am semi retired and could devote full time and am able to relocate to her.

slave 

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/10/2007 10:22:43 PM   
FullfigRIMaam


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So "I will do anything to please Mistress" is something Dommes will never hear from me.
I thought you left yah tease!   In your case, I don't think it matters what you call (tell) her, she ain't coming.   M

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/10/2007 10:30:19 PM   
SweetDommes


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ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMaam

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ORIGINAL: MuscleCuteClever
So "I will do anything to please Mistress" is something Dommes will never hear from me.
I thought you left yah tease!   In your case, I don't think it matters what you call (tell) her, she ain't coming.   M


Yeah, my first thought when I read that was "gee, and I wonder why no one has snapped him up"

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/11/2007 4:15:07 AM   
BOUNDTOENJOY


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Status: offline 		No I seek to become a male wife however im finding it diffacult to find a woman who would make me her wife ,to love, honor, and obey, i so want to find a woman who will take control

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/11/2007 7:54:22 AM   
spirit1975


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Status: offline 		Well I think we can gather from the amount of posts etc that there are plenty of virtual potential male wives out there!! 

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/11/2007 7:37:18 PM   
FullfigRIMaam


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Well I think we can gather from the amount of posts etc that there are plenty of virtual potential male wives out there!! 
Yes, and of course the problem being "virtual" lol...  And I'm not speaking of my situation at present.   M

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/11/2007 11:33:40 PM   
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Well I think we can gather from the amount of posts etc that there are plenty of virtual potential male wives out there!! 

yeah, but i wonder how many would actually get their ass out in my kitchen and start cooking? 

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/12/2007 2:53:48 AM   
spirit1975


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ORIGINAL: MiladyLily

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ORIGINAL: spirit1975

Well I think we can gather from the amount of posts etc that there are plenty of virtual potential male wives out there!! 

yeah, but i wonder how many would actually get their ass out in my kitchen and start cooking? 


LOL! Very few I would suggest. I am fortunate enough to have made breakfast for my lady(only 3 week relationship) this morning before scooting off to work and will be making Dinner when I get home so all In all I feel very lucky  

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/12/2007 3:24:36 AM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		Aw, how wonderful for you, spirit.  Congrats and I hope things continue to be so great for you and Her.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/12/2007 9:57:09 AM   
unravel


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ORIGINAL: MzMia

I just had a blast posting on our darling Canuplease post, soooooooo I want to continue it.
I am one of these new fangled Female Supremacist Dominants, I so adore Elise Sutton and her ideas.
I also want to point out that FOR ME, I do not consider myself Supremacist over any other human
being except my submissive.  The narrow mindedness and LACK of imagination of many around here, NEVER
ceases to amaze or amuse me, but it is possible to be a Female Supremacist and ONLY be a female supremacist
to YOUR submissive--ONLY.
To me it is a way of being in the relationship, whether I call myself a Female Supremacist, Domina,
Queen, Goddess, Mistress, Lady or the Easter Bunny.

Anyway, I not only seek a male submissive, I seek a male WIFE.  I have always stated this upfront, and you
would be surprised the men that seek and enjoy this concept.  The little subbie I have been talking to for a while,
brings this up often, usually more that I do!  For the men that embrace this idea, it can be a real craving.
He amuses me, he often asks if he can take my last name!
I tell him I don't think this is legally possible.
Anyway, if all goes well, I will eventually have my male "wife".  Since I am divorced I will/would not make it legal
for a couple of years. **Anyone divorced can understand not wanting to make it legal right away**
Regardless if it is legal or not, he will be my "wife" in terms of our relationship.
I think this is so hot and so sexy, it brings sexy back, for me.
Are there any other women here that have or want a male wife, or am I the only one that has always thought I needed
a wife a hell of a lot more than I need a husband?

i can only agree this is a very enticing perspective of a relationship You have described there. i am not sure the word "wife" would be the one i would use as in this context it could be interpreted as a left-over patriarchal view of society and definition of the word.
But yes, as a submissive i feel what You and others have described above would be an incredibly true experience.
Thanks for the post!
unravel

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/16/2007 8:22:38 AM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		I just wanted to bump this up with a bit of news ...

Our potential male wife is coming to meet us rt in one week ... I'm excited.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/16/2007 9:45:21 AM   
Cissykay1999


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ORIGINAL: MiladyLily

quote:

ORIGINAL: spirit1975

Well I think we can gather from the amount of posts etc that there are plenty of virtual potential male wives out there!! 

yeah, but i wonder how many would actually get their ass out in my kitchen and start cooking? 


Milady,
I for one would. Not only that, I would do the shopping because I want my Mistress to enjoy her meal, and if I buy the food, I know it will be the best, and something I feel comfortable preparing.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/16/2007 11:52:45 AM   
FullfigRIMaam


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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes
I just wanted to bump this up with a bit of news ...

Our potential male wife is coming to meet us rt in one week ... I'm excited.
Yeay!   Keeping fingers crossed and hoping everything goes wonderfully well for you.   M

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/16/2007 1:01:23 PM   
SDFemDom4cuck


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

I just wanted to bump this up with a bit of news ...

Our potential male wife is coming to meet us rt in one week ... I'm excited.


YAY! We expect an update to let us all know how it went.

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How glittering they shone -
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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/16/2007 5:01:44 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		I will ...   This will actually be our first face to face meeting with someone that we've met here on CM ...

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/16/2007 9:14:42 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		Good luck to you Ms.Holly, finding a good submissive is certainly not easy.
Finding a good male wife is even harder, but so worth it when you do!
I hope this one works out for  you!

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 11/17/2007 2:35:55 AM   
NickNickBoNick


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Status: offline 		I would absolutely LOVE to serve a woman as a male wife!  Where can one get more information?  Or for that matter, has anyone thought of a referral service?  I've found that anyone I've been interested in serving is halfway across the country.  Once my lease is over, I'd be happy to move just about anywhere to become a male wife.

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