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Cissykay1999 -> RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? (11/19/2007 12:26:34 PM)
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Ms' Karen and Holly,
When I read your profiles, I saw that you were very specific about what you were looking for especially as far as the age range you wanted. Some women are not so specific. It seems to me that many dommes who say they would like a sub to assume, what most think are the female duties in a relationship, want to do it for fun rather than on a more serious basis. I may be wrong, but it appears that most of the women who want a male wife already have a husband. Unfortunately, for me that is a deal breaker. Distance is also an issue. It is just so hard to convince a domme that there are actually some submissive males out here that will relocate to them if the two of them hit it off. That isn't to say that a serious sub will be on a plane the day after they say hello on line.
I believe that dommes hear so much crap from men that they get disgusted, and when a man that is truly looking for a dominant woman comes along, there is some kind of defense built in that makes it impossible for a sub to even get a response. I've had problems with my mail on collarme, but I still don't get even a reply from many of the women I try to contact. Now, that can be because of the number of men that contact women. I can only imagine how many men chase after dommes.
I for one would travel almost anywhere to meet a domme who I thought I might connect with. That's not to say that I would move there immediately. I would want to get to know someone before I relocate to them. I've heard so many womwn say that they are contacted by men who say they would move to them after the second email. How can a man convince a domme that he is serious if he can't even get a reply to an email.
Ms. Holly and Ms. Karen, I have no doubt that you will find the man you seek. You seem to be level headed and are not willing to bend on hard limits. I would like to find a woman that has some of the qualities you possess, and truly wants a male wife, or maybe significant other. Good luck to you both.
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