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SusanofO -> RE: How many others prefer the submissive female to be married? Would you agree there is a deliciousness (4/13/2007 6:00:00 AM)
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redsky: I hear you. I was married for 15 years to someone who refused to have sex for 10 of them. I eventually (at year 11), had a year-long affair. I could go on, and say more, but most have already heard this saga of mine, and it is IMO pretty boring.
I do think (I really do) that it just plain is nobody else's business what anyone else does, if they aren't asking that person to be personally involved. I think about all people can do is say what they would do themselves - I simply don't consider what other people do in this regard to be my business, if they are not involving me personally.
but when we have these discussions, that just isn't where it seems to stop. People seem to want to talk others into their POV (which is equivalent to callling them "sinners", or "moralists", etc.)
Not exactly a "friendly, happy place", although I do concede everyone is entitled to their opinion, certainly, and to state it.
I always find it especially amusing, though, in a dark-humor kind of way, that these vehement rants re: "Morality" (or anyone's lack thereof) on this (and similar) topics take place on an "alternative life-styles" message board.
Presumably that title means all "alternative life-styles" - but then again, perhaps not.
Hmmm is about all I can say to it all, anymore, really. [:)][;)]
- Susan
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