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What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 5:49:27 PM

RopePrincess

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I have questioned many about this and have also seen first hand what some have given up or even put aside to belong to a Dom/me.
Some have given their children up. Others have moved away from the family roots. A lot have left their husbands/wives for this elusive Dom/me. Even others have forfitted the paychecks.
What is it you would be willing to give up to belong to that that Dom/me you want to serve?
Is this a fantasy or reality?
RPrincess

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 5:55:41 PM

jauntyone

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Greetings

I have already given up, and would do so willingly again all personal rights and authority for myself to have the priveledge of being owned by Master

I wish you well

melissa

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 5:57:21 PM

slavejali

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I completely gave up the lifestyle I was living, totally, completely and utterly. I changed the food I was eating, the clothes I was wearing, my leisure time activities, my goals and my future plans. (Did someone say I was submissive in relationship?)

< Message edited by slavejali -- 4/19/2007 5:58:11 PM >

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 5:59:51 PM

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all my rights as a human being

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 6:01:49 PM

hisannabelle

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greetings ropeprincess,

i have given up my right to retain the way i lived my life before i met Him; i've given up all of my rights, essentially. i am blessed to be with someone who values many of the things i value and so i have been allowed to keep many of the parts of my life that were present before we got together, but that is a blessing, not an expectation, and He has the right to take away and change whatever pleases Him.

annabelle.

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 6:06:27 PM

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This girl gave up indecision, loniness, depression...
What i gained totally blinds me to anything that i might have possible given up.
There is no doubt that living the lifestyle and serving a Master, changes everything in your life. you are the only one that decides whether you are giving up something or not.

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 6:14:21 PM

slo18

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its easer to say what I wouldent give up. I am a submissive not a slave. this is because i refuse to give up certin things such as my pay cheak, my rights as a human being, and most importantly ( and least used) my right to say no. for this i have been told by many that i am not submissive enough. let them say what they wish i am submissive enough for the Dom I am with. and that is all that matters.

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 6:17:17 PM

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Pickled okra and brussels sprouts.

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 6:25:08 PM

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I gave up the insecure, unstable and unhappy person I used to be.

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 6:51:47 PM

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almost everything except my Sporster, my right to be a human, my paycheck and my right to say NO........

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 6:57:45 PM

junecleaver

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I gave up getting my nipples pierced and my hair cut. I am switching colleges to be closer to him. I have given up what was once a blossoming social life full of people who didn't really care about me to spend more time with my Dominant who loves me to pieces. Does that count as twue and hardcore?

I think for almost any relationship people make certain sacrifices. I guess they call it a power exchange, because things are traded back and forth? If you want to think of the sacrifices I've made for my relationship as selfless or real signs of submission/slavery, that's cool. But I made those decisions because they benefited me and they made me feel good. It feels good to choose his way--even more so when my personal preference is far different. I made those decisions from a 'selfish' place because they benefited me and they benefited my relationship. I would gladly give up more if it edified my relationship or my dominant.

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 7:15:26 PM

sambamanslilgirl

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i'm a submissive and i gave up nothing to be a daughter to my Daddy. i have improved into a better woman and person than i was 8months ago.

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 7:16:47 PM

slaveish

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I am willing to give up a lot in order to gain a lot. I gave up being a submissive in order to be his slave. I gave up my rights to a lot of things and gladly do so. He is my Master, which still strikes me as amazing sometimes although the reason is too much to type.

In return for giving up certain things (pretty much everything is negotiable except my UM's) I get a bustling, loud, busy, wonderful family, love, care, acceptance, guidance, and the ability to trust and to be vulnerable.

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 7:18:50 PM

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Give up? You mean aside from chastity? i don't see serving as giving something up as much as i see it as gaining structure, guidance, love and control.

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 7:24:11 PM

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Oh no I have to have that scooter smile,I often tell a potential slave that they give up every thing to attain more, for in their slavery they find freedom...bounty

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 7:26:48 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: stef

...brussels sprouts.

~stef

But cruciferous vegetable play is so edgy.

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 7:43:24 PM

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I'm with you, slo18. While I will place my trust in my Dom to make those important decisions that affect us both, ( I actually find this to be a relief ) it does not mean I would give up the right to express my feelings and any disagreements I have with them. And I don't think that it would ever be realistic for me to say that I will give up my "rights". If my Dom came home and said "Tonight you will do xyz" and my reaction was "Not in this lifetime", then my right to say no and leave is equal to his right to say "Then it's over". The term "rights", for me, really refers to the gift of submission.

And, I suppose I could give up my Mcdonalds cheeseburgers.

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 8:08:13 PM

stef

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quote:

ORIGINAL: justheather

But cruciferous vegetable play is so edgy.

I don't ever want to be that close to the edge again.

~stef

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 8:14:28 PM

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ROFL!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: What would you give up to belong to a Dom/me - 4/19/2007 8:41:48 PM

smcontrol

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What a great response. I'll apologize in advance for stealing most of it and claiming it as mine in a slightly revised format!

M

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