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What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 1:32:45 AM

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I was just reading through a thread and someone was using a picture for their posts with someone wearing a mask..god I got shudders! Masks really freak me out, ..what freaks you out?

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 1:43:55 AM

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Nonconsensual BDSM.. aka abuse is my main freak out button. I've had consensual play freak me out twice

The first time, I visited a chat room where a pair of women were having a man on his cam sound himself (urethral penetration) with a phillips head screwdriver. That freaked me out pretty royally. Sounding should always be done in a sterile manner. Not only were they risking damage at the moment, but the scar tissue from the infection could have rendered the poor man impotent and barely able to urinate.

The second time was a ProDomme doing a scene at a local play party. She was lighting a cigarette and extinguishing it on a male sub's sphincter. That freaked me a bit. I didn't consider it to be a "sane" act, considering the problem keeping burns from infecting and the impossibility of keeping the area in question clean at all times till it healed. I brought the scene to the attention of the dungeon owner and they stopped it. The male sub in question protested because he had paid the woman. As there are no "for pay" scenes allowed at the dungeon during parties, they were both shown the door.

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 1:45:50 AM

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clowns and magicians.....they just seem so freaky fake like theyre all hiding something..

and stalkers. Ive had a few and still have one i cant seem to get rid of after over a year. i don't want to end up beingone of those.."well, all the signs were there" when they find my dead body :( i can handle mean people but not those crazy ones...

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 2:36:40 AM

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Needles and blood siphoning.

Thankfully, only had a set of blood draws once. Three rather large cups of it.. not sure why the hell they needed so much.. By the end, I was clinging desperately to consciousness. Had a hard time fending off the freak-out feeling. Blacked out while standing, but caught myself before hitting the ground. They got me orange juice. :D

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 4:40:59 AM

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Clown make-up!!

- I never liked it either...

And, also, unless it looks really hot on them (and I can think of a few Doms whose pics I've seen where this is the case), being dressed up in all kids of leather gear, and maybe even sporting a whip, freaks me out. Dunno why.

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 4:52:48 AM

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Having my nose covered....by a hood, under the covers, however.... it makes me panic.

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 4:53:10 AM

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watersports - if you have to go, then use the toilet not me ...and stalkers - actually going home after a concert. i have this fear of being kidnapped and never heard from again.

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 5:30:26 AM

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E - stim... i've actually cried from the absolute fright of it.

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 5:39:11 AM

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rape play the mention of it gives me a panic attack. it's to close to the real thing (in my head). I know it’s role play but… I just can’t make the cognitive leap in my head.

Also playing in the dark. I'm afraid of the dark big time, so just having the lights off freaks me out.

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 5:40:00 AM

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someone keeps calling me an not saying anything....i live alone...it totally freaks me out....

beachmistress: that sounding with a philips head freaked me out, did you say anything?

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 5:46:43 AM

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If it makes you feel better crouchingtigress, maybe it is just one of those autodialer things looking for people who answer the phone as opposed to disconnected numbers? Can you hear them breathing? There is a recording of the three-toned sound that is made when you get a number that isn't in service - supposedly if you put this on your answering machine, these automated dialers will hear it, hang up and delete your number from their database so they can't sell it for spam purposes.

As for what freaks me out - play that breaks the skin - I knew this domme one time who was into bdsm-playing with a loaded gun - freak city. When she talked about doing that it made me physically ill.

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 5:51:40 AM

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The thought of being tied down one day and hearing the dom say, "now where did i put those cans of fava beans"

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 5:51:42 AM

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Women that enjoy sex for its own sake the same way men do lol. Rare

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 5:59:48 AM

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My freak out has always been Needles. I can't even watch someone get a shot on television. I had this dumb nurse give me a shot when i was like 9 and the needle broke off IN my arm. The subsequent events of being held down by my dad while the doctor dug the needle out made matters much worse. I have very very bad teeth now because I've avoided the dentist for10 years. However, the presense of a severe absess and no dentists open at 9pm on a sunday (this was 2 weeks ago), required master to sterilize a very sharp sewing needle, have a submissive of mine hold me down and lance the absess. Needless to say when I went to the dentist the following week my needle fears were alot less compared to that. As a matter of fact, with a little bit of nitrus I was FINE

So now of course that I'm (nearly) over my whole needle fear thing, the master is rubbing his hands together with glee as he threatens frequently to get me that little tattoo on my left hip. *sighs*

Oh, yea, ball gags. This might sound weird. I LOVE to use them on my submissives. As much as possible. But the sight of master coming at me with one damn near induces a panic attack. I can't handle the whole drooling thing. I feel like I'm going to choke to death.

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 6:10:21 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aubre

i am hearing breathing.*sigh*..but it did make me feel better to read that you cared...He always (i am assuming its a he) calls from a private number, so i wont pick up if it is private, and that is how i am dealing with it..and also not thinking about it...and thinking happy thoughts...lol

i think it might be this guy i just broke up with, he was the inspiration for my thread about how if you say you have been too busy to call you are either a dreadful time manager or you are saying that you simply will not prioritize me in your life, stop bullshitting and be honest about it.

anyway he texes me all the time to try to get back togeather...and i am not having any of it...fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me...thank you again for your advice....it was appreciated.

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 6:13:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress

Nonconsensual BDSM.. aka abuse is my main freak out button. I've had consensual play freak me out twice

I'll expand on that.

I get freaked out and beyond that angry when people use the terms from BDSM to excuse their abusive behavior or their survival of abusive behavior. One of my sister's exs did that -- as far as I'm concerned he belongs in jail and she should have turned him in to the cops but she bought into his BS until a death happened in their house.

I also get pissed when people use Ds as an excuse not to be an adult or to take responsibility for their actions.

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 6:24:29 AM

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Aging men in speedos.

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 6:39:14 AM

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my kids being teenagers and having flashbacks of all the things i did at their age.*shudder*

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 8:26:48 AM

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Aging men in speedos.

OMG ... just *spit* hot tea all over the moniter! LMBO (thanks for the laugh windchymes)
What an image!

For me, definitely masks - on me, and watersports, et al - though I have never participated in this activity (and don't care to), just the thought of it makes me *squick*. Oh, and spiders, they totally creep me out! **shuddering**

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RE: What freaks you out...? - 4/20/2007 8:27:39 AM

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Anything close around my neck, I cannot stand it so its a good thing Im a Dom and not a sub. Also watersports/scat play UGH definitely not for me.

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