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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 2:39:43 PM   
WhyteRavenne


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I think that if it is negotiated in the contract between submissive and dominant, than by all means, go for it.  However... if it's not talked about, or negotiated, then it's just bad manners to expect it, Dominant or NOT!

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 6:27:21 PM   
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I'll echo some of the others here and say he demands what he wants, when he wants it...and gets it.  I can't fathom it any other way.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 6:49:16 PM   
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Laughing.....  so mine wasn't an orignal thought?

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 8:00:15 PM   
slaveish


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Master is training me to do and to be many great things; however, his "selfish" goal for me is to be his oral pet. ~stifling a smile~ Gee. That's going to be quite the challenge.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 11:20:54 PM   
chiaThePet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: myobedience

As to the website you found so appealing..... sorry, I cant get past the "great cyberchase where women reign supreme" ...............
What is that all about.... the cyberchase??  Is that what you find to be so realistic and enjoyable.....sorry cant suck a cock through the flat screen.... if you can lick pussy though the screen....great for you !!

Give me the real deal and I am real deal for him.


Let's see, KLUNK, OW, KLUNK, OW, what the hell?! Hey where am i
anyway? OH YEA, CYBERSPACE! Trying to get to you and talk, but
this damn screen keeps getting in the way! But it's as realistic as it's gonna
get here i suppose, me believing you're who you say you are, and not some
three hundred pound, balding, wheezing old man sharing a two room flat
with his lesbian side kick Moe. i suppose trust enters in somewhere here
in cyberspace at some point or other. Ah yes, the Great Cyberchase, just
one of the wonderful system requirements for a boy at MystressWorld.
Follow me now, without spilling all the beans, i'll set the premise for you.
boy applies to MystressWorld, gets examined and disected a bit during
the screening process, hopefully to weed out those pig-male phonies
looking for a quick dip into their own fantasy and folly. No, Dearest Mystress
is looking for those boys with true need and respect for Feminine Authority.
not the "do me" dumber than a stump parade of fools. Continuing, the boys,
if passed through the screening regimen, are placed in Boot Camp to complete
the basic lessons of servitude and understanding, that they should be advanced
into the slave quarters and made available to the Wonderful Dommes, whom
along with Dearest Mystress, compose the DommeCorps, a Powerful Group
of Women from around the world seeking well trained and genuine submissive
boys. All the pre-screening and bootcamp lessons saves Them the trouble of
hitting the delete button over and over again out here in Cyberspace. Continuing,
each boy in the slave quarters has a profile, revealing his best qualities, devotion and adoration for serving the Powerful Women of the DommeCorps. At varying intervals, an Auction is held, and the Dommes put in bids for a boy They feel
adheres to Their requirements and Command of desires. If captured, a boy is
then held to the highest of servitude as Her boy, beginning a strict series of lessons
geared toward an honest and revealing dialoge between the Domme and Her boy.
If a boy is found unworthy of Her, he is tossed back to the slave quarters, to be
set on the Auction block again, and captured again if lucky. A boys reputation
will preceed him, and will ultimately advance, or hinder him. The goal here, is for
a Domme and boy to connect in a fruitful D/s relationship leading to an in person
surrendering of him at Her feet, compliant under Her shadow. BINGO! Thus you
have the Great Cyberchase, a boy chases a Domme until She captures him. Here
at MystressWorld, the design is structure and discipline for the boy, required to
provide emotional nudity, impeccable protocol, completion of lesson and much,
much more. The Domme has Her boy right where She wants him, sailing along
in Cyberspace until She decides he is worthy enough to kneel before Her realtime.
Saves all that "get out you moron" diatribe and putting on the corset and taking off
the corset and putting on the corset and...you get the picture. Is it for everyone?
Is anything ever for everyone? ODODD, or Oral Service On Dommes Demand
is a series of lessons required of the boys there, enlightening him to the fact that such IS NOT simply a boy getting to lick his way into Her heart when She desires
such. Not even close, sorry all you oral sluts out there, it's not about you, not at all.
i have posted my thoughts to this subject at Dearest Mystress' OSODD The Training Regimen Post and include a link to one such post below;
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=940860
So much more than your Dom shaking his cock in your face when he wants to get off, so much more than a Domme whistling and spreading Her legs when She's in the mood. So much more that when one finally ventures beyond Cyberspace, there
exists a concrete foundation of training, thought process and behavior modification
which will hopefully lead to a beautiful and fulfilling D/s relationship, or, corset on,
corset off, "get out you moron". KLUNK, OW, KLUNK, OW, pleasure talking
with you, even here in Cyberspace~~~~~~~~<(~.~)>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

< Message edited by chiaThePet -- 4/20/2007 11:31:08 PM >


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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 11:32:31 PM   
AAkasha


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quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

quote:

ORIGINAL: myobedience

As to the website you found so appealing..... sorry, I cant get past the "great cyberchase where women reign supreme" ...............
What is that all about.... the cyberchase??  Is that what you find to be so realistic and enjoyable.....sorry cant suck a cock through the flat screen.... if you can lick pussy though the screen....great for you !!

Give me the real deal and I am real deal for him.


Let's see, KLUNK, OW, KLUNK, OW, what the hell?! Hey where am i
anyway? OH YEA, CYBERSPACE! Trying to get to you and talk, but
this damn screen keeps getting in the way! But it's as realistic as it's gonna
get here i suppose, me believing you're who you say you are, and not some
three hundred pound, balding, wheezing old man sharing a two room flat
with his lesbian side kick Moe. i suppose trust enters in somewhere here
in cyberspace at some point or other. Ah yes, the Great Cyberchase, just
one of the wonderful system requirements for a boy at MystressWorld.
Follow me now, without spilling all the beans, i'll set the premise for you.
boy applies to MystressWorld, gets examined and disected a bit during
the screening process, hopefully to weed out those pig-male phonies
looking for a quick dip into their own fantasy and folly. No, Dearest Mystress
is looking for those boys with true need and respect for Feminine Authority.
not the "do me" dumber than a stump parade of fools. Continuing, the boys,
if passed through the screening regimen, are placed in Boot Camp to complete
the basic lessons of servitude and understanding, that they should be advanced
into the slave quarters and made available to the Wonderful Dommes, whom
along with Dearest Mystress, compose the DommeCorps, a Powerful Group
of Women from around the world seeking well trained and genuine submissive
boys. All the pre-screening and bootcamp lessons saves Them the trouble of
hitting the delete button over and over again out here in Cyberspace. Continuing,
each boy in the slave quarters has a profile, revealing his best qualities, devotion and adoration for serving the Powerful Women of the DommeCorps. At varying intervals, an Auction is held, and the Dommes put in bids for a boy They feel
adheres to Their requirements and Command of desires. If captured, a boy is
then held to the highest of servitude as Her boy, beginning a strict series of lessons
geared toward an honest and revealing dialoge between the Domme and Her boy.
If a boy is found unworthy of Her, he is tossed back to the slave quarters, to be
set on the Auction block again, and captured again if lucky. A boys reputation
will preceed him, and will ultimately advance, or hinder him. The goal here, is for
a Domme and boy to connect in a fruitful D/s relationship leading to an in person
surrendering of him at Her feet, compliant under Her shadow. BINGO! Thus you
have the Great Cyberchase, a boy chases a Domme until She captures him. Here
at MystressWorld, the design is structure and discipline for the boy, required to
provide emotional nudity, impeccable protocol, completion of lesson and much,
much more. The Domme has Her boy right where She wants him, sailing along
in Cyberspace until She decides he is worthy enough to kneel before Her realtime.
Saves all that "get out you moron" diatribe and putting on the corset and taking off
the corset and putting on the corset and...you get the picture. Is it for everyone?
Is anything ever for everyone? ODODD, or Oral Service On Dommes Demand
is a series of lessons required of the boys there, enlightening him to the fact that such IS NOT simply a boy getting to lick his way into Her heart when She desires
such. Not even close, sorry all you oral sluts out there, it's not about you, not at all.
i have posted my thoughts to this subject at Dearest Mystress' OSODD The Training Regimen Post and include a link to one such post below;
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=940860
So much more than your Dom shaking his cock in your face when he wants to get off, so much more than a Domme whistling and spreading Her legs when She's in the mood. So much more that when one finally ventures beyond Cyberspace, there
exists a concrete foundation of training, thought process and behavior modification
which will hopefully lead to a beautiful and fulfilling D/s relationship, or, corset on,
corset off, "get out you moron". KLUNK, OW, KLUNK, OW, pleasure talking
with you, even here in Cyberspace~~~~~~~~<(~.~)>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)


Wow, what an ad. Will you come work for my web site?

Akasha


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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/20/2007 11:43:46 PM   
chiaThePet


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Dearest AAkasha,

Why Thank You Mistress, i am humbled by Your compliment.
Dearest Mystress does if fact make it quite clear that She is
preparing Her boys to be good passionate servants to All
the Glorious Women Whom might require their presence.
Here, i'll give You my number, KLUNK, oh damn it!

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

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You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/21/2007 8:04:01 AM   
chiaThePet


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Hi CanPleaseU2, good to see you here uplifting Dearest Mystress.
If i may ask, what is your given name at MystressWorld, always
nice to know who i'm sharing with. First two or three letters
would be enough if you don't wish to "expose" yourself entirely.

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/21/2007 2:33:19 PM   
bobipanti


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Oh it would be wonderful to be locked into one of Your Pussy Collars with apermanent lock!!!

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/21/2007 2:52:27 PM   
tulinwl


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If it is a service that the Dom wants and it is within agreed upon limits...  then of course.
I can think of nothing I would like more than having the One I submit to command this of me. Then again, I think there is a little cock worship there on my side... so I may be a little more than eager... *smile*

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/21/2007 5:23:40 PM   
Suleiman


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::sigh:: blowjob dominance is so passe. For my money, I can think of dozens of activities that I would want to train a submissive for. Then again, I have never been in a relationship, het or gay, sub or dom, where I was unable to get a BJ just for the asking.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/21/2007 5:42:16 PM   
selilekwi


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Good lord and here I am thinking submission is about challenge.


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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/21/2007 5:49:06 PM   
Suleiman


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quote:

ORIGINAL: selilekwi
Good lord and here I am thinking submission is about challenge.


Oral sex can be very challenging! The person who once owned me spent a great deal of time in a wheelchair. Getting around that sumbitch was a challenge, believe me! Then there's the challenge of learning to breathe through your ears, the challenge of not using your partner's thigh as a napkin to wipe your chin on... the list goes on...

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/21/2007 7:58:17 PM   
chiaThePet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Suleiman

::sigh:: blowjob dominance is so passe. For my money, I can think of dozens of activities that I would want to train a submissive for. Then again, I have never been in a relationship, het or gay, sub or dom, where I was unable to get a BJ just for the asking.


Well, if you're paying!

i reiterate, So much more than a  Dom shaking his cock in your face when he wants to get off, so much more than a Domme whistling and spreading Her legs when She's in the mood. Sure, you can probably get a blow job on any street corner in the good old U S of A, sluts abound in a permissive society. So does herpes for that matter. (shattering the dreams of oral sluts everywhere since 2004) Not wishing to repeat myself entirely here, (sigh) getting a blow job, and the body, mind and heart of total Worship, within the binds of behavior modification, obedient thought process, complete surrender unto specific conditioning and requirement, are so much more than "inches" apart. One man's "passe" is another's "pure passionate purpose", ruling and governing his every moment as his perceived sexual desire completely becomes Theirs. Never give a boy something just because he "wants" it, bright boys will sense when there is slack in the leash and will take every advantage possible of the opportunity. By your own admission, put a pair of wheels on a sub, and you're challenged, not the sub, but you. You have to find a way to work around the situation in order to get what you want. The sub is simply enjoying watching you sweat as she waits for dinner. And believe me, a good oral submissive can breathe through their eyes when in the "zone" of servitude. And, a good oral submissive never needs a napkin, you've apparently been the victim of serve and slober, your seed deemed unworthy of consumtion. Just my opinion you understand, i'll leave the carving in stone to the one whom can do such with the edge of a lightening bolt. One man's perception is another man's "what the hell?".

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/22/2007 1:01:51 AM   
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OSOD....hmmm...sorta the point i think.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/22/2007 1:11:19 AM   
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Surely, a slave is required to do whatever is asked of him/her?
Oral servitude falls under that category, does it not?

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/22/2007 1:19:29 AM   
hisannabelle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: jauntyone

quote:

Anyway I would be interested to know what others think of oral sex on demand from a dominant.  Should a dominant be demanding this service?

Greetings
 
Master is entitled to demand anything from me that he wishes. That is why he is the Master and I am the slave
 
I wish you well
 
melissa


greetings all,
greetings canpleaseu2,

couldn't have said it better than melissa did. besides that, giving oral is probably my favorite sexual act...so...it's something i'm more than happy to do. :) hasn't involved much training, though.

annabelle.

< Message edited by hisannabelle -- 4/22/2007 1:20:02 AM >


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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/22/2007 8:11:30 AM   
chiaThePet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: xxKyu

Surely, a slave is required to do whatever is asked of him/her?
Oral servitude falls under that category, does it not?



As a submissive, regardless of task or requirement, i have always felt the need to be cautious in those "whatever" and "anything" applications of my devotion. There will always be someone lurking in the shadows who is more than happy to take one up on such. i suppose my own "train" of thought to this subject has so much to do with the instruction and requirements of my Dearest Mystress whom has instilled within me the understanding which has taken "oral sex" out of the simple sexual term, into a state of mind and body outside of my own needs and desires. Not trying to argue a "point" here, as one will of course believe that a Dominant has every right to demand "oral sex" from his submissive, if there is understanding of such in the communication process which leads to their perspective D/s relationship. (some might actually have a problem with this specific act of adoration) This boy kneels in a most beautiful surrender which finds him completely consumed by Her desires of oral Worship, a long road traveled of obedient understanding which flows through every sinew of his captured mind, body and heart. Well beyond the "sit and suck", elementary act itself.

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)  

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/22/2007 8:36:03 AM   
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If I liked oral sex I might want it on demand.   But I don't.  And lots of women don't.  The reality is we are all individuals.  What I want most of all is someone who follows my lead and finds some pleasure in my pleasure, whatever form that might take.   What I would not like is someone who believed there was any "right" way to serve me, cause he read it somewhere, or cause everyone else is doing it.  This is a very individual and personal dance.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/22/2007 8:40:48 AM   
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Is oral sex some horrible thing I'm not aware of?  What's the deal?  I thought most people actually liked oral sex, both giving and receiving.  I could see having a problem with if it he said to do it in the middle of a shopping mall or something like that, but otherwise, I'm not understanding this entire thread.

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