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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/2/2008 7:26:12 AM

Emperor1956

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I can have manual sex anytime I want...so there!

Jeff

Well so can I, if I go out and rev up the Porche. But usually I like automatic sex...PRNDL!

When I met my wife she mentioned she was taking a class at the conservatory called "Oral Skills". I was amazed that the school was so progressive....

...then I learned they spelled it differently.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/2/2008 7:28:20 AM

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ORIGINAL: christine1

my mouth was made for service (sure does a lot of yapping sometimes though). what he wants in it goes in it.

Thats it!.I am off to Utah......

Jeff

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/2/2008 7:32:00 AM

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[quote Anyway I would be interested to know what others think of oral sex on demand from a dominant. Should a dominant be demanding this service? unquote]

Almost by definition, and no one's ever complained ;-)
quite the opposite since they beg for it, as they should

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/2/2008 7:32:08 AM

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i must agree with littlebitxxx when she say "Oral sex on demand becomes a real pain the ass...um...jaw. Fun it may be for the Dom, fun it may be to have that control, but from this side.....it gets REAL boring REAL fast. Like another chore to do. Ho-hum, dum de dum, licky sucky, thinking about what to make for dinner. " Every morning, jaw hurting, sometimes locking up, and having a much younger Master who has much control can frustrate a sub/slave real fast. i also don't want to run the risk of being late for work which has happened and has added more to the stress. i can only hope someday it becomes umm...hummer drum...for Him as well. but until then, i continue to suck. hehehe
regards,
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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/2/2008 7:36:33 AM

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I remember this thread, twas a lot of fun, just like MystressWorld.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/2/2008 8:57:14 AM

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When two people enter into a bdsm relationship, even if it's not sex-oriented, the availability of it on demand, regardless of the act, is the Dom/Domme's right as a form of control, and a normal expectation to have. This of course is with prior consent.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/2/2008 9:03:45 AM

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I guess I don't get it... why just oral sex? I mean, whenever I've been in a sub/slave relationship to a Dom/me, I just assume they have total access to my body, however they like, whenever they like.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/2/2008 9:49:40 AM

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'oral sex' from a slaves point of view is nothing more than asking a slave what time it is. it really should not be an issue to even comment on, it is a simple but rewarding task to carryout. so long as one swallows and does a good job, i dont see a problem with it.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/2/2008 9:54:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: carisa

i must agree with littlebitxxx when she say "Oral sex on demand becomes a real pain the ass...um...jaw. Fun it may be for the Dom, fun it may be to have that control, but from this side.....it gets REAL boring REAL fast. Like another chore to do. Ho-hum, dum de dum, licky sucky, thinking about what to make for dinner. " Every morning, jaw hurting, sometimes locking up, and having a much younger Master who has much control can frustrate a sub/slave real fast. i also don't want to run the risk of being late for work which has happened and has added more to the stress. i can only hope someday it becomes umm...hummer drum...for Him as well. but until then, i continue to suck. hehehe
regards,
{carisa}Mk

i'd be giving him a box of Kleenex and getting my butt to work on time! No one is worth the possibility of losing my income.

Just my oh-so-humble opinion!

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/2/2008 11:00:19 AM

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nyway I would be interested to know what others think of oral sex on demand from a dominant. Should a dominant be demanding this service?

CanPlease,

times are achanging. To many fems/subs/slaves simply love the feel of a cockhead in their mouth that it is no longer a demand for many, but a right.
course for those that do not share that, then it is the right of the dom/Domme to have it as desired.

CP

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/2/2008 11:41:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: litleone8620

Sure it's the dominants right to demand whatever he/she wishes, within the submissive's physical abilities, and willingness, of course.

i am a slave, therefore i do what the dominant tells me to do. If he tells me to perform oral sex on him, i'm going to. Simple as that.

i'm only a part-time slave but i agree. my body is His to use in any way He chooses. it is my duty to give Master oral sex whenever He wishes

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/2/2008 11:44:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: born4serving

'oral sex' from a slaves point of view is nothing more than asking a slave what time it is. it really should not be an issue to even comment on, it is a simple but rewarding task to carryout. so long as one swallows and does a good job, i dont see a problem with it.

hmmm...looking at the clock and sucking on a cock are not even on the same page...fuck cock sucking! (try saying that fast 3 times hehe). looking at the minute hand go round and round on that clock face just makes me a horny coot!

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/2/2008 5:11:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: windchymes

Gee, a guy who wants blow jobs on demand. Now there's an original thought.

LOL....touche' :)

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/6/2008 7:58:35 PM

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2 points: a.) Yes I agree over time the sub must feel reciprocated and tended to. 1 way streets lead to death. b.) I have demanded cock service, but have given directions to "go undress and sit "on the bench" and wait for me. What delight it has been for her to just sit and wait in anticipation to suckle on my cock.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/6/2008 8:22:40 PM

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I personally wouldn't feel like I was being submissive at all if a request this simple could be turned down without the hypothetical Dom taking issue...

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/6/2008 8:35:47 PM

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Greetings

What are the nature of the relationship. If it is a Dom/sub relationship and oral is on the sub's hard limit list, then no the Dominant have no right to demand it. There is not automatic submissive equals willing to give oral sex. When i was a submissive this was one of my soft limits. For you this may be a simple request, for me it is a phobia to face and a huge thing. i have a pet tarantula, if i asked you to watch her for a week, if you like spiders this is a simple request, trow her a bug and water her now and then, if you are afraid of spiders however this is a huge thing. For some oral is disgusting, a very, very not enjoyable thing to do.

So do the Dom have the right to demand this, that depend on the relationship. One have BDSM relationships that is just based on the Top tying up his girlfriend and doing a very specific list of things to her, through 50's marrige to 24/7 lifestyle D/s to TPE to Master/slavery all kinds of relationships whit the authority of the Dominant varying from hardly any to total control over the submissive's life. In some relationships the Dom can demand this, in others, no.

i wish you well

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/6/2008 8:46:30 PM

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Even though I smell a shameless plug with the primary intention of marketing a website going on I'm going to respond.

For me personally, sex is a very big aspect of BDSM. It all goes hand and hand together for me.

In terms of oral sexual service, this is something I've never had to train anybody to do for me or please me in this manner. Basically, how to you train somebody who's already willing to do this and can do it damn good.

For the most part, I'm not a fan or supporter of cookie cutter training services. I'm a Dom with a Dominant personality.   I don't want to live nor shape my life around and according to other people's standards.   So, I guess this makes a Rebel. I really have issues with people blindly following the masses.   People should be able to think for themselves and be in touch with what they want out of life.

I'm a supporter of diversity, appreciate and value individualism provided it causes nobody any real or true harm in life.

I actually think "Oral Service on Demand" is a pretty basic or understood concept in the BDSM world and is the same in the vanilla world as well. Then again, that's what I honestly think.

I also honestly think, that the OP was geared to drive traffic to website, more then it was geared towards sincerely engaging a topic.   However, this is non the less a valid topic to talk about. Hence why, I've taken the time to respond bluntly.

Not only to the concept of Oral on Demand, but also with regards to services that train Dominants and submissives.   There are a lot of great articles that are posted freely and openly on the internet. I personally would not recommend anybody to use and stick to any one source of information.

There are plenty of people writing good articles with tips and advice. Whole sites devoted to various aspects, Blogs published by Doms and submissives. The whole world of BDSM is there to be Googled or search on the search engines, and great resources such as this Message Board.   There is a world of information people can read without having to sign-up for anything or shell out money for.

Don't get me wrong I value the merits of Training. Hell, I even value micromanagement as a training tool as well.   However, not everybody who's into BDSM is looking for a M/s relationship. Not everybody is into TPE or high power exchanges. Also cookie cutter organizations do not have focus upon other types of relationships such as Dom Couples, Switch Couples and whatnot.   In fact, I find much lacking with one wayism instructional organizations.

I would be more impressed the day I see somebody post about an online "Dom Couple" workshop or something to that effect. Something beside the dime a dozen resources and websites that are already out there.

Perhaps I'm being too mean, judgemental and blunt for my own good here. But at least I'm being a honest bastard with this post.   For those that hate me for it, I'll keep an eye out for the angry mob to show up at my door with the pitch forks and torches.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/7/2008 1:23:19 AM

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I think a Dom can expect to get oral jobs on demand. Or any jobs on demand. Of course this presumes that he is a real Dom Man who knows his sub and takes care of her and knows exactly when to do a thing and when not to do it. For example someone said something about having a tooth pulled out or having a sore thorat. Will a loving Dom who cares for his sub demand oral at such a time as these? Summing up, I believe a Dom and his sub who are into each other can play this. He can demand and expect to get because he knows when to demand. And hey in general I do believe there is not a sub who will not want to give a oral to her Dom to please him.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/7/2008 2:14:08 AM

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i thin it is important and i love it, he has demanded in public a few times (or semi public mostly)

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 3/7/2008 5:02:44 AM

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I'm always happy to oblige her whenever she commands

be that "On your F***ing knees bi**h" or the mere click of her fingers and a point in the direction.........my most favorite place in the world to be, and seeing her layed exhausted and totally satisfied is when i'm at my happiest and most content.....

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