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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/22/2007 11:57:43 AM

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I've noticed some replies on this thread where oral gratification was asked of a submissive. And a few others demmanded, and a couple commanded. Makes some wonder, which is correct?

There is always a time, and place for such activities. I believe a proper Dom/me will know when and where. If they don't, time to rethink some dynamics.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/22/2007 12:39:54 PM

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/22/2007 12:48:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: Suleiman

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ORIGINAL: selilekwi
Good lord and here I am thinking submission is about challenge.

Oral sex can be very challenging! The person who once owned me spent a great deal of time in a wheelchair. Getting around that sumbitch was a challenge, believe me! Then there's the challenge of learning to breathe through your ears, the challenge of not using your partner's thigh as a napkin to wipe your chin on... the list goes on...

Hey, if my ears can be handles, the least he can do is offer his thigh as a napkin!

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/22/2007 1:37:51 PM

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yes of course

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/22/2007 3:21:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: CanPleaseU2

Anyway I would be interested to know what others think of oral sex on demand from a dominant. Should a dominant be demanding this service?
Discuss Please

Should they? I dunno. Depends. If the submissive who holds their attentions sucks at it, then maybe not. If they don't enjoy it, then probably not. If the fem sub for a male dom has a rotten gag reflex and tends to puke all over his lap...

It's all personal and all unique to the relationship. Personally, I beg to provide that service but not everyone is like me.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/22/2007 3:32:53 PM

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Hello A/all,

General response to the thread. I imagine whatever works within the dynamic people are in. From the standpoint of the thread topic, it could be considered that "Oral Sex On Demand" could be construed that the Top in the relationship could demand that the bottom service anybody on demand.

I have met people who have this sort of relationship, and I dont think it would work for me.

I dont see something preventing me from using her mouth (like recent oral surgery) as being a problem, I can use something else.

I am a fairly easy-going person.

Sinergy

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/22/2007 3:41:10 PM

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Somewhere a reply to another thread got posted here...

I don't know how

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 4/22/2007 3:42:07 PM >

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/22/2007 10:08:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

quote:

A boy can lie, but his cock never does. (MystressWorld)

Without trying to be insulting, because I generally don't attack people for no good reason, does you Mystress ever consider that there are some people who wish to enter a life of slavery for reasons other than achieving an erection?

*damn html quote thingies

< Message edited by DominaSmartass -- 4/22/2007 10:12:44 PM >

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/23/2007 5:12:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

. Ah yes, the Great Cyberchase, just
one of the wonderful system requirements for a boy at MystressWorld.
Follow me now, without spilling all the beans, i'll set the premise for you.
boy applies to MystressWorld, gets examined and disected a bit during
the screening process, hopefully to weed out those pig-male phonies
looking for a quick dip into their own fantasy and folly. No, Dearest Mystress
is looking for those boys with true need and respect for Feminine Authority.

Wow! I did not know JessicaPowers had finally gotten her own website.

Does that mean she will no longer be reincarnated here?

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ORIGINAL: windchymes

Hey, if my ears can be handles, the least he can do is offer his thigh as a napkin!

Ok, i lost it, this one is a winner in the most quotable quotes contest, hands down!

< Message edited by Twicehappy2x -- 4/23/2007 5:14:58 AM >

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/23/2007 7:00:57 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

quote:

A boy can lie, but his cock never does. (MystressWorld)

Without trying to be insulting, because I generally don't attack people for no good reason, does you Mystress ever consider that there are some people who wish to enter a life of slavery for reasons other than achieving an erection?

*damn html quote thingies

Also, just because sexual response happens it does not mean that sexual pleasure is being had. Our sexual organs can have similar responses for different reasons.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/23/2007 7:09:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x

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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

. Ah yes, the Great Cyberchase, just
one of the wonderful system requirements for a boy at MystressWorld.
Follow me now, without spilling all the beans, i'll set the premise for you.
boy applies to MystressWorld, gets examined and disected a bit during
the screening process, hopefully to weed out those pig-male phonies
looking for a quick dip into their own fantasy and folly. No, Dearest Mystress
is looking for those boys with true need and respect for Feminine Authority.

Wow! I did not know JessicaPowers had finally gotten her own website.

Does that mean she will no longer be reincarnated here?

quote:

Dearest Mystress sends along a big Thank You for the comparison, and a big <SLAP> to let You know She developes Her own philosophy and training regimen to advance D/s relationships. And Jessica will keep returning in various forms just to spite you. The voice is coming from inside your head, get out of your head now, run for mercy sake, run!

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/23/2007 7:19:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

Dearest Mystress sends along a big Thank You for the comparison, and a big <SLAP> to let You know She developes Her own philosophy and training regimen to advance D/s relationships. And Jessica will keep returning in various forms just to spite you. The voice is coming from inside your head, get out of your head now, run for mercy sake, run!

Obviously you are just jealous because the voices talk to me!

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/23/2007 7:31:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

quote:

A boy can lie, but his cock never does. (MystressWorld)

Without trying to be insulting, because I generally don't attack people for no good reason, does you Mystress ever consider that there are some people who wish to enter a life of slavery for reasons other than achieving an erection?

*damn html quote thingies

Dearest Mystress quotes such to the effect that many a boy will lie about various needs and desires (yes, something we all are aware of) within a lifestyle which does tend to be sexual in nature, but his cock most often will give him away as to the "honest" intention of his heart. (not meant to be profound, just a thought presented) MystressWorld advances training well beyond the "sexual surrender", addressing the ever changing and developing beauty of D/s relationships. Thank you for a good question, honest exchange should not be felt as an attack, but a stimulation of conversation.

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/23/2007 7:34:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

Dearest Mystress sends along a big Thank You for the comparison, and a big <SLAP> to let You know She developes Her own philosophy and training regimen to advance D/s relationships. And Jessica will keep returning in various forms just to spite you. The voice is coming from inside your head, get out of your head now, run for mercy sake, run!

Obviously you are just jealous because the voices talk to me!

Jealous is such an ugly word, let's just say "amused".

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/23/2007 7:46:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: slaveish

Master is training me to do and to be many great things; however, his "selfish" goal for me is to be his oral pet. ~stifling a smile~ Gee. That's going to be quite the challenge.

~grins~....is that another reason why the eyes are bulging outwards?

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/23/2007 7:50:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: selilekwi

Good lord and here I am thinking submission is about challenge.

You know...for some, the sex on demand...even when agreed to within negotiated limits...can be a challenge. It all sounds great to know that your dominant is going to command you to serve him/her in this way at any time of his/her choosing and in any way he/she feels like...but think for a minute about those submissives who understand that sex is a part of their servitude but for whom sex is no big fun ride. Think it might be a challenge for some of them?

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/23/2007 7:52:02 AM

chiaThePet

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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

quote:

ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

quote:

A boy can lie, but his cock never does. (MystressWorld)

Without trying to be insulting, because I generally don't attack people for no good reason, does you Mystress ever consider that there are some people who wish to enter a life of slavery for reasons other than achieving an erection?

*damn html quote thingies

Also, just because sexual response happens it does not mean that sexual pleasure is being had. Our sexual organs can have similar responses for different reasons.

Perhaps if viagra or the like come into play, but let's face it, there is a strong desire of the situation involved, whether of heart, mind or body for such a reaction to take place. i can simply speak from experience as i have the appendage in question.
Thank You for Your input.

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/23/2007 7:55:44 AM

chiaThePet

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

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ORIGINAL: selilekwi

Good lord and here I am thinking submission is about challenge.

You know...for some, the sex on demand...even when agreed to within negotiated limits...can be a challenge. It all sounds great to know that your dominant is going to command you to serve him/her in this way at any time of his/her choosing and in any way he/she feels like...but think for a minute about those submissives who understand that sex is a part of their servitude but for whom sex is no big fun ride. Think it might be a challenge for some of them?

Very good point, thinking beyond the crotch, i love it.

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/23/2007 11:00:15 AM

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

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ORIGINAL: selilekwi

Good lord and here I am thinking submission is about challenge.

You know...for some, the sex on demand...even when agreed to within negotiated limits...can be a challenge. It all sounds great to know that your dominant is going to command you to serve him/her in this way at any time of his/her choosing and in any way he/she feels like...but think for a minute about those submissives who understand that sex is a part of their servitude but for whom sex is no big fun ride. Think it might be a challenge for some of them?

good point CD. sexual service can indeed be a challenge for many submissives. i am one of those for whom sex is not a "big fun ride"...not that i dislike it, but it has always been about use and service to me, not fun and personal pleasure. having to give 100% every time has been a challenge for me on occasion, but remembering my place and purpose always helps me give that little extra inner push and serve as i'm expected.

btw, i disagree with selilekwi's notion that submission is about challenge. if it is always a challenge then that tells me it is against one's nature.

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RE: Oral Sex on Demand - 4/29/2007 9:38:24 PM

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..were all addicts...

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