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Najakcharmer -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/29/2007 9:31:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TexasMaam No, this isn't so. Mystress does offer training to women who want to learn how to make their submissive hubby's happy and fulfilled, but Mystress certainly never trained Me, and never tried to. She was very personable, and very sincere. I was acquainted with a couple of Dommes there before I joined, so perhaps My impression was a bit skewed by having known them on a personal level. Thank you for sharing your personal knowledge and perspective. I'm glad to know that they are personable and sincere folks. Unfortunately the impression the site gives for dommes who are thinking about joining was....er....not personable, and directed at newbies who need a mentor. Edit: I just read your other replies, as we seem to be posting at the same time. Here is what you get on the domme information page when you ask for information about joining: Learn how to identify, select, subjugate, train, and enjoy the loving, faithful service .. of an adult male, enslaved to his own desires and conditioned need and respect for strong feminine authority .. YOU !!!! Mystress becomes your mentor and together we learn by training screened, real need system boys. IP is the goal. IP .. the boy on his knees and OSODD is the next stage of his training. We call it a REALationship. . IP? In-Person, OSODD ? Oral Service on Domme's Demand REALationship ? D&s is your boy's reality .. play is his vanilla life where he pretends he is "normal". Application below leads to the DC Academy and the MystressWorld Domme Corps ... semper fem ! Scholarships available. The program requires commitment to success and fulfillment of your special destiny. Thus, the program is not for those who see D&s as casual or recreational play. Nor is it for so-called pro-dommes or those who aspire to pervert D&s for "play for pay". Nor is this for a wife merely wanting "to please her subbie husband". You must want it for YOU. You must truly want to GRAB LIFE BY THE BALLS, GIRL !!!!! Age, race, and location are not impediments, 40 is only the begining of prime .. and motherhood is great advance training for a future Domme. Good women don't get older .. they just get better.

TexasMaam -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/29/2007 9:39:39 PM)
lololol yes, well, it's been years since I participated there, haven't looked at the site in at least 3 years or more, so, (still laughing) what can I say? lololol It's ridiculous, yes, but I still had a good time. Best regards, TM

TexasMaam -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/29/2007 9:41:23 PM)
and I really do still talk to My former cybersub, several times a year. he was, and still is, an absolute sweetheart. TM

Dusty15 -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/29/2007 10:01:37 PM)
Well what do you think of me writing back to them and telling them I quit

chiaThePet -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/29/2007 10:17:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dusty15 I would like to know from the Mistress out there if they have every saw or had any dealings with Mystress World and I would love to know your thoughts on it. Dear Dusty15, i am sorry your time at MystressWorld was not fruitful for you, no one there wishes failure for either a boy or a Domme, an admittedly saddening situation for the one whom realizes such. i am chia* (the pet), a two year attendee of MystressWorld, i belong to TC25 (training class 25) and am currently in the stables of Dearest Mystress and Dearest Mistress Mykaela. i am not sure where, in the lengthy application process, you did not understand the system and it's workings. It is made clear from the onset, and in a basically simple format, just how MystressWorld works and applies to both Domme and boy. Yes, for the most part it is cyber related, as could be said for collarme and Akashasweb for instance, among the many thousands of cyber related sites worldwide which offer "something" for just about "everything". Gee, we're in cyberland, imagine that! Cyber can be a wonderful experience depending on what an individual is seeking from it. Dearest Mystress at MystressWorld is blatantly honest and up front about the system She offers to those whom choose to come of their own free will and experience. "Help me! Help me! i'm chained to my keypad, forced to go to places i do not wish to go!" At MystressWorld, Dominants and submissives are given the opportunity to share with one another in a structured environment. Dommes rule, boys are held to the highest protocol as they receive lessons on varying subjects related to D/s relationships. In this environment, Domme and boy exchange dialogue respectfully for a learning, enlightening and revealing growth. Yes, some will say, "you can do this anywhere, even calling someone in the phone book", go ahead, good luck with that. i have posted to other threads here sharing of MystressWorld and stated then, and will reiterate now, is it for everyone? Is anything ever for everyone? MystressWorld will work for those whom it works for, and please, don't disrepect my Dearest Mystress by calling what She offers a scam, <slap> for that. As for the "pigmale" association, Dearest Mystress refers to such when referencing those boys whom come looking for a quick "hook-up", "kinky sex", or to fulfill nothing but their "own" desires. At MystressWorld, you leave the pigmale and his ego at the door and enter in with devotion, adoration, honesty and true need and respect for Feminine Authority, plain and simple. Pay for play, another <slap>, we don't play at MystressWorld, we study, exchange, learn and grow in our understanding of ourselves as Dominants and submissives, leaving us better to apply such to our lives as we live them. Call it tribute, call it tuition, i call it less than i spend on coffee at $tarbuck$. As for the Women being men being Women being men being "whatever" anyone out here can "say" they are, anythings possible here in cyberland, from anyone. How bout you? Are you who you say you are? Am i who i say i am? Roll the dice baby, we're in cyberland. i have been fortunate to come and study with many Beautiful Dominant Women at MystressWorld, whom i also know from other D/s groups, including OMG collarme! If any is a man, well i hope they have a tremendous cock, as i am a bi-boy, raised as such from childhood, no choice, just demand. It is a goal at MystressWorld that a Domme and boy will find that ever elusive connection and She will "take him home", has happened. i have been invited to visit a number of my Dommes there, when and if possible. Travel is difficult due to circumstances beyond my control, but when that changes, you can bet i will be kneeling and uplifting my Glorious Dommes in exultation. It is my choice to belong, and my choice to believe, no one there ever lying to me to get me to enter, or to stay. As for your situation Dusty, i do not have all the facts, simply those statements made by yourself here. In such, i believe you were new to MystressWorld, and perhaps during your first lesson exchange, you found it did not work for you, preferring a more face to face training dialogue. What i don't understand is how you continued into the system with the knowledge fully presented to you in the application process of exactly how the system works, only to be disappointed when you were given the opportunity to do specifically that which MystressWorld does. Again, i am sorry it did not work for you, and wish you well in your journey as a submissive. i am not here to argue for MystressWorld, simply to share of my experience there, a most beautiful horizon on my path, fulfilling a need as i grow to be a most passionate boy under Her shadow always. We all have the freedom of choice, and if you're being held at gunpoint in a secret dungeon somewhere, you're a prisoner, not a submissive, call 911. And if you enter in without knowing where you're going, well simply dial 1-800-Wah-Wah-Wah! With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

chiaThePet -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/29/2007 10:35:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TexasMaam Dusty, I know several Dommes at MystressWorld, who encouraged Me to join, and because they were friends of Mine I did so for a time, and I enjoyed the time I spent there corroborating with fellow friends, their real time subs, and their online boi's. There are many many reasons that sub men are too intimidated to attempt real time training. And no, they don't all have to be married hng wannabe's, either. MystressWorld is like any other BDSM site: there are players, and real Dommes, and Domme wannabe's, and hng's and sincere submissives who just don't have the courage to go and risk their indentity at some group BDSM activity or munch. I encountered a shy young man with a speech impediment, from a state far far to the northeast of Texas, who was so engaging that he became My online sub for a year. Using a webcam, and phone calls, he eagerly carried out every assignment I gave him with extraordinary grace and charm. I had the freedom to use My own lessons, although I did use a few from their 'training library' to get some online ideas, and I had a perfectly fun time with it. I have no idea what he paid to belong to the site, I was not paid a dime, but I was not charged anything to belong to the site, either. I believe they charge a monthly fee, probably somewhat less than most people pay to have cable. The fact that men paid for a subscription, because it is a subscription in every sense of the word, weeded out a LOT of jerks. I mentored several male subs, and eventually concentrated on the one sub from the NorthEast because he entertained Me so very well. I have since engaged two male subs for service who had online training at MystressWorld, and they were both very sincere, very real, and very impressive in their service. It is up to the submale at MW to set his own limits; MW staff will not force the sub into doing things he doesn't want to do. Whether or not MW includes among their ranks Pro Dommes who accept fees for their services is unknown to Me. I doubt you'd be offered a real time session for a fee until you had been there several months and Mystress felt that she and the staff had become acquainted with you. As for the three month contract, I see no reason for MW not to set a minimum initial subscription, because speaking strictly for Myself, it took a lot of time, creativity, and effort at written communication to develop a rapport with a sub at MW. I'd have hated to undertake that effort and waste it on a guy who would just disappear in eleven days or less. Wouldn't you? As with any BDSM activity, it's up to you to use your head, and decide what you want to pursue or participate in. Take away from the MW site, and from the lessons of the Great Cyber Chase, whatever positive things you want to, and let go of the rest. As for the naysayers on this thread, unless they've been involved with MW and can speak to their own experiences, I wouldn't put much stock in their comments. Email Me on the other side of CM, if you would like specific information, it's been several years since I participated there, but it was great fun and I still hear from My 'cyber boi' from time to time. He's met a new Domme at a fetish event near his home town, has put his lessons to good use: when he was finally ready he made the leap from cyber to real time. So can you. TexasMaam Dearest TexasMaam, Beautifully shared, Mystress would be proud, Thank You! Perhaps TexasMaam might consider a return engagement "one for the boys" so to speak. Thank You again, so much. With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

chiaThePet -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/29/2007 10:41:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dusty15 Well what do you think of me writing back to them and telling them I quit Dusty, Dusty, Dusty, No one can make that decision for you. Since you are current, why not give it a chance. Open up to your Domme, including your feelings about what you have shared here. And remember, if you don't feel a connection with a specific Domme, a simple letter to Dearest Mystress asking for re-assignment will take care of that. Please though, if you do choose to resign from MystressWorld, do so respectfully, as how you treat Domme, will reflect on how others view you. Be a good boy either way Dusty. With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

Dusty15 -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/29/2007 10:50:32 PM)
I would say this I believe in the teaching that they offer but I ask a question and the question was where do we go with my training and the reason for this question was that the Mistress I was with could not give me the time that i needed and if you look there are not that many Mistress that are doing the training. Also they where the one that came to me and it was there question that I answered to get in. With all due respect to the Mistress that are out there and that as been giving me there thoughts this is what I sent to them. Well as you can see and I know that i will be call a pig male for this and the way I am writing this. I was taught by a Mistress of over 10yr of experience that as a slave or a sub i do have the right to question. Also if you want respect you have to gain respect. Mistress that I have talk with have said that when you own a slave you have to gain their respect in order for them to trust you. Yes I know that when I come across in my emails sound like I am a pig male but if you would talk to me live and in person you would find out different. I believe some of your teaching are good but the way you go about it is wrong. So as far as I am concern you where the ones that let me in and you are the ones that took my money and you are the one that contacted me. See in the real world you can tell who is real. I even talk to one Mistress that had look at your web site that she would not have to pay if she would train for you. Also looking at all the Mistress that you had and if you are so good why have they not stayed with you. The one that are with you know how can they train 3 or 4 subs and the subs get what they need/ I know you will not answer those questions you will focus on me being a pig male well like I said you love taking this pig male money and if I am a pig male and you do not like pig males then refund my money back but that will never happen if it does I will let every one know you did the right thing. So have a nice day yes we are all different but as a slave do I have the right to ask question until I gain their respect. I know that the Mistress wants there slave to be open and honest with them. As a slave I need to know that I am going to be safe with the person that I am with so please forgive me if I have step on any of the Mistress toes and I do have respect to all the Mistress to a point

chiaThePet -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/29/2007 11:26:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dusty15 I would say this I believe in the teaching that they offer but I ask a question and the question was where do we go with my training and the reason for this question was that the Mistress I was with could not give me the time that i needed and if you look there are not that many Mistress that are doing the training. Also they where the one that came to me and it was there question that I answered to get in. With all due respect to the Mistress that are out there and that as been giving me there thoughts this is what I sent to them. Well as you can see and I know that i will be call a pig male for this and the way I am writing this. I was taught by a Mistress of over 10yr of experience that as a slave or a sub i do have the right to question. Also if you want respect you have to gain respect. Mistress that I have talk with have said that when you own a slave you have to gain their respect in order for them to trust you. Yes I know that when I come across in my emails sound like I am a pig male but if you would talk to me live and in person you would find out different. I believe some of your teaching are good but the way you go about it is wrong. So as far as I am concern you where the ones that let me in and you are the ones that took my money and you are the one that contacted me. See in the real world you can tell who is real. I even talk to one Mistress that had look at your web site that she would not have to pay if she would train for you. Also looking at all the Mistress that you had and if you are so good why have they not stayed with you. The one that are with you know how can they train 3 or 4 subs and the subs get what they need/ I know you will not answer those questions you will focus on me being a pig male well like I said you love taking this pig male money and if I am a pig male and you do not like pig males then refund my money back but that will never happen if it does I will let every one know you did the right thing. So have a nice day yes we are all different but as a slave do I have the right to ask question until I gain their respect. I know that the Mistress wants there slave to be open and honest with them. As a slave I need to know that I am going to be safe with the person that I am with so please forgive me if I have step on any of the Mistress toes and I do have respect to all the Mistress to a point Dusty, Dusty, Dusty, Stop being so hard on yourself! So far the only one i see calling you a pig-male, is you. As you replied to "my" post, i must say, "i" didn't contact, invite, nor take your money. Nor did i force you to enter MystressWorld, nor would i force you to leave, simply not up to me, i am simply a boy there. Dommes come and go, boys come and go, pretty much like other training facilities, no great revelation here Dusty. Of course you have the right to question Dusty, but shouldn't those questions have come up front BEFORE you entered MystressWorld? Again, are you a prisoner or a submissive, big difference in my opinion. One of the greatest lessons and gifts i realized in my studies at MystressWorld Dusty, was patience. Never give a boy something just because he wants it! You'll never shut him up! The Dommes at MystressWorld all have lives outside of MystressWorld, many executive businesswomen with full lives. They are not there to entertain you Dusty, nor to come to you at your beckoning whim. Structure my boy, structure, a basic at MystressWorld, and again, if your Domme wasn't working for you, you are told over and over again, ask for re-assignment. As for getting your money back Dusty, just whom "took it" from you? i believe we give of our own free will, and as Dearest Mystress so states, "Lovingly, or not at all". Ring a bell Dusty? Does any of the application process and full description of the workings of MystressWorld ring a bell for you Dusty? Again, i am sorry that you are displeased here, but pout and sour grapes never look good on the resume of a submissive. You asked Dusty, i just answered your question. i hope you will take a deep breath and re-assess your needs and desires. With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

MiladyAngelique -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/30/2007 2:30:38 AM)
are you a neopet fiend as well??

chiaThePet -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/30/2007 6:19:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique are you a neopet fiend as well?? That would all depend on the definition which exists in the Dear Lady's mind, as the words could be construed on either end of the spectrum in accordance with the specific meaning applied. All men are animals, some simply make better pets.

MiladyAngelique -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/30/2007 6:44:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chiaThePet quote: ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique are you a neopet fiend as well?? That would all depend on the definition which exists in the Dear Lady's mind, as the words could be construed on either end of the spectrum in accordance with the specific meaning applied. All men are animals, some simply make better pets. Do you neopet as well?

SweetDommes -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/30/2007 6:49:44 AM)
I'm thinking that he doesn't, or he would understand the reference. I used to play neopets - but I despise the new format of the opening page and what they have done to the game room ... and this concludes this section of offtopic posting LOL

chiaThePet -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/30/2007 7:11:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique quote: ORIGINAL: chiaThePet quote: ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique are you a neopet fiend as well?? That would all depend on the definition which exists in the Dear Lady's mind, as the words could be construed on either end of the spectrum in accordance with the specific meaning applied. All men are animals, some simply make better pets. Do you neopet as well? Dear Lady, apparently this has a meaning to which i am not familiar. One can either chuckle at such, or enlighten a boy as to it's reference here. Somewhat new to collarme and have not completely explored all the venues. Please, share with me exactly what Your query seeks in respect to this topic and the term "neopet". Thank You.

MiladyAngelique -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/30/2007 7:32:23 AM)
A chia is a neopet, which is an online cyber pet who lives in neopia.... www.neopets.com it has nothing to do with bondage, you name the pets feed them groom them etc,

chiaThePet -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/30/2007 7:41:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique A chia is a neopet, which is an online cyber pet who lives in neopia.... www.neopets.com it has nothing to do with bondage, you name the pets feed them groom them etc, Found it, Thank You, shall explore. Does this mean another pet is masquerading as moi? Of course, i am chia* (the pet), that asterisk holding it's own special meaning at MystressWorld, getting back to the subject at hand :) Thank You again Dear Lady. With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

MistressCalico -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/30/2007 7:55:21 AM)
it's supose to be a place to learn to be a lifestyle domme and for subs to learn to be better subs. i was in their group and found it dull,all that was taught was how to pussy whip a man. all the lessons were in sex. that isnt being dominant,its just lessons in how to have sex. i would not recomend going to mystress world.

chiaThePet -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/30/2007 9:00:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressCalico it's supose to be a place to learn to be a lifestyle domme and for subs to learn to be better subs. i was in their group and found it dull,all that was taught was how to pussy whip a man. all the lessons were in sex. that isnt being dominant,its just lessons in how to have sex. i would not recomend going to mystress world. Dearest Mistress Calico, i respectfully disagree, having been privy to lessons expounding on D/s Relationships, Femdom, Lifestyle Domme vs Pro and Play Domme, D/s Contracts, Protocol, True Need and Respect vs Fantasy, Folly and Kink, the application of Discipline, Punishment and Bondage in Association to the D/s Relationship, Identifying and Understanding the Specifics of Dominants and submissives and their Perceived Needs and Desires in a Relationship, Her Demands and Requirements vs his Priorities, Humiliation and Feminization to name a few. Yes, in a Lifestyle where sex can be prevalent, topics addressing such are included in the Training Regimen, Oral Service on Domme's Demand, Owning his Backdoor, Chastity-Mind, Body or Both, Total Temple Worship, the Pavolvian Response to Sex, Milking and Denial, Code Red etc., each addressing the issue of surrender and obedience of the boy to Her Desires, Her Wishes, Her Requirements, Her sex becoming his sex. Lessons are simply catalyst between a Domme and Her respective boys, the Domme taking the lead in discussion after a boy places himself in the lesson, offering emotional nudity as to his feelings within the subject at hand. Training is not limited to lesson subject, as Dommes are encouraged to lead a boy into those areas which will serve Her best. Dull? As with most things in life, one gets out of it what they put into it. i find privilege in the honest and open sharing of thought and emotion with the Dommes at MystressWorld, a better boy within the understanding. It is clear that the system didn't work for You, Your reasons as valid as my own for finding the system works for me. You did what is best for both MystressWorld and the submissives there, You moved on. If Your heart is not into that which You find before You, simply going through the motions serves no one and no purpose. Thank You for sharing Your perspective. With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

MistressCalico -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/30/2007 9:24:18 AM)
and i disagree with you, i was in mystress world and all the lessons involved sex. being dominant is not controlling a mans penis,it first begins in the mind. being in any kind of bdsm relationship is not only sex,heck sometimes theres no sex at all. in my time there all i saw was 40 and over women on the verge of menipause trying to act like big shots who can only get sex from a sub they brainwashed.

chiaThePet -> RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World (4/30/2007 9:30:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressCalico and i disagree with you, i was in mystress world and all the lessons involved sex. being dominant is not controlling a mans penis,it first begins in the mind. being in any kind of bdsm relationship is not only sex,heck sometimes theres no sex at all. in my time there all i saw was 40 and over women on the verge of menipause trying to act like big shots who can only get sex from a sub they brainwashed. To all the Dommes 40 and over on the verge of menopause trying to act like big shots, i sincerely apologize. With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

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