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topcat -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (7/1/2004 6:45:27 PM)
quote: A brain is so much harder to find. No- that's easy. Just make the cutjust above the tips of the ears, and pop the skull off. there's a Brain!

Desires2BeOwned -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (7/2/2004 9:36:10 AM)
although i am pretty new to the BD/SM lifestyle and have no real life experence, i would have to say that looks does matter to me a lot if i am to be owned and serve the rest of my life. but at the same time about the age thing, it just all depends, as i like some older women as well. i prefer ages 30-40 but im not real picky about age. "Women are like wine, They get better with age". Then there is the factor that older Women have been around longer and have a better chance of more experence. id much rather be with an experenced Women, then a vergin. but everyone to their own.

ManeSlave -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (7/2/2004 1:24:54 PM)
Of course.. Looks are xxxtremely important to men whether sub or not... but not necessarily age! I am a 53 YO who has served as many as a dozen Dommes over the years (spanning the full range of ages) and each was a wonderful experience. i have been serving my present glorious Mistress for over a year and a half (She's mid Forties) and yes, She is the most beautiful, gorgeous, sexy woman that i have ever served (or even know for that matter!) Here to fore i have had no more than three sessions with any one Domme.... i have lost count with my Mistress, but it must be approaching 20! (i hope She keeps me!). But beware! LOOKS ALONE ARE NEVER ENOUGH! If it were not for HER (Who SHE is.. How we interact.. etc.) Then the "Looks" would quickly wear thin. i hope this helps... and to those who are not/can not be "glamour girls" and to those who are no longer "young"... do not depair! Life goes on and there is somebody (usually more than one) out there for everybody! Give and Ye shall get! ManeSlave

OTK4don -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (7/2/2004 7:44:44 PM)
I have two views on this subject. As an older mature man I would find it very humilating to be dominated by a younger women. But that's not a bad thing. However, an older Domme may know how to push buttons better than a younger one. Also, she maybe more caring and safe. OTK4don

Shyguy21040 -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (7/3/2004 5:50:15 AM)
I'm more of a bottom than a sub, but yes, looks are important to me. The more attractive the woman, the more I would allow her to have her way with me. Age doesn't matter as much, although there is more humiliation with a young woman.

Silvertonguedevl -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (7/6/2004 1:51:04 PM)
To be quite honest, looks are only important when I see a woman walking down the street. The importance balances out shortly after she begins to speak, or as soon as one sees her interact with people, or things. A good looking woman might make me take a moment longer to notice such things. Beyond that, I have been able to find the beauty in everyone that I have ever encountered. I know that sounds silly, but try it. The next person that you look at, try and find the one thing about that person that makes them beautiful or irresistable. Trust me that it is there. If you don't see it, then try again, please.

slaveboy07 -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (7/6/2004 11:37:34 PM)
I echo the sentiments of inyouagain. Conceitta clearly has constructed an artifical persona in order to prey upon sub males for personal gain. She presents males with a fantasy and uses cunning, manipulation, and artifice to ensnare males into her web. She understands that her web is fleeting. Sub males tribute and then disappear. Hence, the need for continual promotion and banner ads. A few who tribute over time have obsessive compulsive disorders and/or other mental health problems. There is very little loyalty to a "Money Domme" because subs and slaves have little respect for, and trust of, "Money Dommes." Conceitta and others like her suffer from low self-esteem and seek gratification and self-worth through manipulating others. There is very little interest in the persons "money Dommes" are using as long as they cough up the dough. Many of these women have no interest in BDSM other than employing it for wealth enhancement. Most "money Dommes" hold the carrot of real time before an online slave because they know it attracts tributes, even though real time is a virtual impossibility absent the sub being a true cash cow. Their true fetish is obtaining money for nothing. They are nothing more than rag tag group of self-proclaimed con artists. They may proclaim to be proud women, but deep down they know that they are virtual con artists. Money Dommes lie among the lowest rungs of BDSM. At least Pro Dommes work for their money. They aren't quite as manipulative, and I'm sure sub males are more satisfied with the services Pro Dommes provide. Isn't it curious though how most Pro Dommes do not have lifestyle partners. It's a job. Why be married to your work?

ShadeDiva -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (7/7/2004 1:12:18 AM)
Interesting. I think almost all the pro dommes I know have personal BDSM relationships. They don't seem to mind at all being married to their work lol. ~ShadeDiva

subinfyniti -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (7/7/2004 5:19:42 AM)
I feel this post was an obvious attempt for attention. Maybe someone's idea of completing a college term paper on sexuality? Either way........ my 2 cents. I am a 43 year old submissive female. Two grown children, probably both older than "Mistress Concetta", I am sexy, healthy and intelligent. I have wisdom that comes with age, patience that comes with age. I have recently spent some time talking with my daughter's friends..... that "twenty-something generation" could use some wisdom, insight and patience. Trust me [;)] Anyway.... Master thinks I am hot ( or so he says all the time [:)] )which works for me. Thinking back to his prior relationships before we met, he never seemed to be interested in the " Barbie" or " Air Head" types.... something said for intelligence. peace, infyniti

maledave777 -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (8/30/2006 6:07:56 PM)
Most of my life I grew up around older women. Most of my supervisors in my working career were older women. My supervisor now is an older woman. I guess I find them easier to talk to them about different things. They seem more down to earth and know what they want in life. I guess I prefer an older dominant woman.

swtsouthernsub -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (8/30/2006 6:34:16 PM)
OH MY GOD I LOVE YOU PEOPLE !!!![:)] A 40 YEAR OLD UNLOVED SUB HEEHEE[:D] applaudsssssss

bluelace001 -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (8/30/2006 6:50:26 PM)
I have a lagitament question. What does looks and age of a Domme have to do with the servitude a slave gives?

Owned1 -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (8/30/2006 10:20:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressConcetta How important is it for male slaves and subs to serve an attractive or beautiful Mistress such as Myself, rather than paying some old lady that claims to be young, or maybe a Domme in her "thirties" (usually closer to 40). Men are visual creatures, so tell us boys, would you rather have a 20 something gorgeous Goddess to worhship, and older woman? Or does it matter. What are your thoughts?[&o][&o] [image]local://upfiles/26809/7DAD365C163F48AE9BABADB62454BE89.gif[/image] My first thought is this "domme" is someone very lonely unattractive with poor personal hygiene who needs to profess the opposite. If "she" thinks about those who are pretending to be something they are not ~~ makes ya kinda go hmmmmm. I guess for a "professional" female working girl looks are important cause it is straight forward no strings. M/s D/s and BDSM are far more involved mentally spiritually and physically. On the other hand she has obtained tons of free advertising for the hng's who will respond. More power to you perhaps you can keep them off the boards and out of our mail boxes for a while. Owned

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (8/30/2006 10:26:09 PM)
Who is to say that an older woman cant be drop dead gorgeous as well? Or, who is necessarily to say that every man is going to find a 20 something all that attractive? If all your worried about is look, eye candy is easy to find. Personally, I prefer a brain under all that candy, so that when the allure wears off of "wow, look at how hot my bf/gf is" there is still something left to the relationship. DV

Lashra -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (8/31/2006 5:05:24 AM)
I'm an old 43 year old Dominant hag and I recieve lots of emails from men & women of all ages. Looks are fading but knowledge usually is not. Personality and knowledge is paramount in any relationship and the OP can't seem to look beyond what lies in her mirror. Alas she will find out as time goes on that image she's so fond of will fade. Most subs/slaves would rather play with someone who knows what they are doing and someone who cares somewhat about them. My sub is 9 years younger than me and in his words "I've dated women younger than I am, I've dated women older than me. I'll take an older woman any time as there's no one more erotic or passionate. Younger women tend to care only about themselves." ~Lashra and slutjack

popeye1250 -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (8/31/2006 6:21:41 AM)
I really like women in their 40's and 50's!

SaphireLynn -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (8/31/2006 6:30:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressConcetta How important is it for male slaves and subs to serve an attractive or beautiful Mistress such as Myself, rather than paying some old lady that claims to be young, or maybe a Domme in her "thirties" (usually closer to 40). Men are visual creatures, so tell us boys, would you rather have a 20 something gorgeous Goddess to worhship, and older woman? Or does it matter. What are your thoughts?[&o][&o] [image]local://upfiles/26809/7DAD365C163F48AE9BABADB62454BE89.gif[/image] For thoughts like that is why alot of them prefer older maturity.... not someone who only thinks of themselves and says, "hey look at Me..." what pleasure can you give them either through thier service or play is you only can see yourself...

MissyRane -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (8/31/2006 6:40:08 AM)
I don't know why but my preferance is 28+ but then I've no idea why and it's only a preferance so I don't really put the age down for me..although I don't go up aaaaaaaaaalll the age scale..I do have limits..

curiousitykitten -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (8/31/2006 6:46:09 AM)
snickers cos i can't wear a one inch heel without breaking an ankle, but can saunter in stilettoes online buggrit! i do my best and being 96 doesn't stop folk giving me the odd one. Kiss i mean - naturally :D

mam -> RE: Servitude-A question for online subs/slaves (8/31/2006 7:02:27 AM)
I prefer older subs, they are more mature and stable. If someone compliments my looks, I thank them and move on. I am not pretty, intelligent, witty or lively all the time. No one is. But, to be caring and skilled or at least with a wish to learn... that is worth something.

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