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KatyLied -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 9:26:14 AM)

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Man... this has just turned into a giant shit fest.


It's okay, I was complaining to someone the other day about how boring the message board has been lately.

I think what's going on with his demand is very clear, it surprises me that some can't see it for what it is. 



mixielicous -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 9:26:42 AM)

no its ok, He has been debating making His own profile for a lil while now



mixielicous -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 9:28:59 AM)

ok, have to go all. have fun assuming the worst while i am gone!



UntamedStar -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 9:29:16 AM)

[:)]



astarri -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 9:30:32 AM)

i agree...i think she looks really good



HutchGarahl -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 9:31:16 AM)

Oh boy....talk about out of hand.

Mixi dear....this is real simple, you asked, you got. While the responces seem to be not what you expected...so be it. If you didn't want responses against what you asked, then it was better to not have asked in the beginning.

Me personally...if a guy held a ring and told me to do this or don't get this, i'd tell him to fuck off. If he didn't love me enough to accept me for who and what I was to begin with, then no matter what you try to do after will be of no happiness to either of you because he still won't accept it.

The ball is in your court. Talk to him, go down that "what if" road with him. Ask him simply.."What if I losse the weight now, we marry....will you tell me to leave if I gain it back?" Or maybe you should throw some "what if's" back at him.



HutchGarahl -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 9:34:50 AM)

Stupid question..but, just where do you need to loose weight???? Shit, i'd do most anything to look that good.



FelinePersuasion -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 9:35:11 AM)

That would cheapen the proposal in my eyes if it was me, and I would be extreamly and highly offended, you should want to marry someone regardless, to dangle carrots with your proposal wouldn't fly with me.

Now it'd be one thing if I wanted to loose the 25 pounds, so I could get a wedding dress I wanted, but not because a trophy slave weighs 190 or some bullshit.



untamedshysub -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 9:35:30 AM)


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as long as they make me a better me, i could care less.

Thank You Master for being so concerned about my weight that You will finally marry me when i am happy and satisfied with myself and pleasing to Your eye!
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It is all about how you see yourself.  Happiness comes from within and if this makes you happy good luck. I like the firm series its really good hard but good.



mnottertail -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 9:39:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Fuck it, let's get this back on topic and talk about how I can snag me some fat girls.

Ron the Munificent, and man of large appetite.


 


right here, baby, come get this choco-licious bbw with 50DDs to boot too [;)]



I am so--- there.

Ron



astarri -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 9:40:36 AM)

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It is all about how you see yourself. Happiness comes from within and if this makes you happy good luck.
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ORIGINAL: untamedshysub

i agree untamedshysub ... noone can make me happy ...i have to do that myself




Slavetrainer2007 -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 9:49:07 AM)

Ok i must go as i have things to do. Before i do i would like to say this.

Mixie asked for opinions given the info she gave. From page one her relationship, her dom, and her were dragged through the mud. She asked for  opinions  and advice  not to be a punching bag.

The girl had to resort to defending herself constantly instead of taking in advice and then she gets beat on more for defending herself. Im rather disappointed in how childish this thread as become. Is it so hard to give an opinion without having to insult and disrespect the same people you ask for opinions from in other threads?

People come here to learn various things and to interact with others in the lifestyle. Today we have learned to stereotype people as superficial because their mindset doesnt meet your own. We have learned how to kick and stomp someone asking for opinions from people she shares views with on the regular basis. We have learned how to interact in a verbally abusively  enviroment.

Congratulations, we are now children. school is dismissed.



UntamedStar -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 9:52:28 AM)

Hear hear!![:D]



astarri -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 9:53:25 AM)

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Congratulations, we are now children. school is dismissed.


*runs outside to play



domiguy -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 9:53:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mixielicous
well i am glad you are comfortable with being over weight, but i cannot even stand to look at myself naked. i think thats enough concern for me! [:'(]


I know I would probably end up puking or possibly worse... but I consider myself to be an incredibly daring and brave soul....So I am willing against my doctors orders to look at several pics of you naked.....




FelinePersuasion -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 10:00:34 AM)

So when you're 45 50 maybe 60 and you maybe don't look as good any more, would you leave them for some fabio? Or would you say hey we've gotten older, we're not stunning any more, But we love each other, so stunning or not we're commited.
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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I think it's ridiculous to pretend that looks are not important in a relationship.  They are in mine.



EvilRachel25 -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 10:01:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GeekyGirl

I am still trying to lose but I am losing for what I consider to be the right reasons.


Just because mixielicous doesn't have the same reasons for losing weight as you do, it doesn't mean that hers are not just as valid as yours.

I am a D, and though I would never tell my pet to lose weight for aethstetic purposes, it doesn’t mean that it’s wrong for her Master to ask it of her. 

I think that as long as they are both happy in their relationship (as she very clearly seems to be) then whatever they may choose to do is fine.  If it doesn’t appeal to you, then steer clear of M’s who would require that of you. 

I agree with slavetrainer2007, this is way for mixie to show her devotion to her Master.  He is giving her a task, she has accepted it.  When she has lost the weight, she will not only have the satisfaction of looking better to herself and to her Master (who are really the only two whose opinions matter), but she can also be proud knowing that she did something to please him.

Besides that, he knows looks are important to her and has also agreed to go on the diet, which shows he wants her to be satisfied with him, too.  He must obviously care for her. 

Good luck to you mixielicious, both in your weight loss and your relationship.



mnottertail -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 10:04:19 AM)

right reasons or wrong reasons, it comes to the same place  we are not talking avoirdupois here. 

It's all good, it's all good.

Ron



domiguy -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 10:06:09 AM)

The girl has said she wanted to loose the weight...And now she has gotten some reinforcement from her Dom to lose the weight...What's the big deal?...She wasn't attacking you chubbies...But no, the talk always degrades how healthy and happy it is to be overweight...Why are you all so angry?...I always thought fat people were supposed to be happy?...kinda like Burl Ives....

Yes we have a skewed view of beauty in this great land of ours.....I wish I could change all of this, but alas, I am just another pawn trapped in the mentality of the times.....But I do like big butts and I can't deny.....But unfortunately they have to be attached to a rather small woman.....So the quest for the Holy Grail continues.....I am but a lonely Knight, "Sir GalwithassIhad."    Looking to plunder the perfect booty and fuck it on a nice round table.



gothicdiva -> RE: 25 lbs? (4/29/2007 10:07:08 AM)

Mix,

Let us know how this diet goes. This particular one has been around at least since I was a teenager as I remember someone printing it out and passing it out at school or something. The "cabbage soup diet" and "grapefruit juice diet" have been around a long time as well. I remember a friend who went on the former one. I certainly remember that soup! I am highly skeptical that it actually came from a hospital, though. I favor healthy eating habits and exercise over anything else to help one lose weight. I think that several smaller meals are best if you have a schedule that accommodates this. There are alot of fasting/detox type diets on the market these days and they seem to be quite popular. I think that short-term, they are alright. Basically, this diet you have posted is a variation of a low-carb diet. Yes, you will experience weight loss on these types of diets, but you must be aware that once you start eating carbs again, you may GAIN weight back. I know this, because it has happened to me. I need to lose 40-50 pounds myself and I am lacking the motivation to get started presently. Perhaps I need some "hot" young slave to place such an ultimatum upon me...ie. his being with me is contingent upon me losing "X" amount of pounds....*wink* Good luck to you!

M. Diva



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