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PenetratingGaze -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 7:24:43 PM)

Diva, you are very right. My Mistress is overweight, love Her all the same. She has struggled with yo-yo dieting effect for years. Now She wishes to go to with a little more drastic procedure than dieting - because She wishes, for Her own health and self image to do so. I really empathize with Her, I had to do some drastic lifestyle changes to get back in shape and off the fatboy program after reuping into the military after 14 years of civilian desk jobs.

Rudeness IS unneccesary, always. If anyone says anything rude to Mistress, it is my job to defend Her. She is my Sovereign and I her Knight.



caitlyn -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 7:30:02 PM)

Actually, burns are the hardest to fix, no matter the size.



defiantbadgirl -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 7:38:44 PM)

I wasn't aware of that. Guess I was thinking of a small punch graft. My apologies. If only I could find a doctor who did tatooing on the side so I could be put under.



FatDomDaddy -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 7:39:25 PM)

man... I thought this thread was dying a few hours ago... must have a second wind!



juliaoceania -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 7:50:04 PM)

 DBG, you have a preference for men with hair and teeth. Men cannot help it if they lost their teeth and hair, so why are you turning them down about something so shallow as that?

Wait... don't answer the above question.... is it because bald men are a turn off to you? Well some men are turned off by fat women with saggy bellies... just the facts.

It is one thing to have a preference (like height, skin color, weight, and that sort of thing), but quite another to devalue and insult people that are not your ideal. I read a lot of insulting comments by certain people on the weight loss thread in gen discussion, like people who are not beautiful or skinny are not desireable... well those same people that make those statements are usually the ones that hold themselves up against an external yardstick and they always come up short no matter how thin and beautiful they are...  I say this because it seems like some people may have let that thread hurt their feelings, all that really matters is that we like ourselves. It is really hard to get someone else to like you if you spend all your time looking for validation from the outside.



defiantbadgirl -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 7:54:35 PM)

One of my play partners is bald and has a great personality. As for teeth, I only said they need to have them. I didn't say they had to be real.



domiguy -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 8:04:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: caitlyn

I don't know if you could afford this, but you need to discuss scar minimization with your doctor, as someone has previously mentioned.
 
I have several very ugly cigarette burn scars ranging from ten to fifteen years old. I've has plastic surgery on some, and will eventually have them all repaired. I've even learned how to use high protection sunscreen put carefully over these areas, so keep them from turning red when I tan. When I keep up a good tan, you can't even see the ones that have been fixed.
 
This may be of use to you.


Caitlyn my dear, this is why a woman should never be allowed to hold office or run a major company!!! You need to think outside of the box or your box whatever maybe the case....

The op should not be focussing her energies on some expensive scar minimization mumbo jumbo...But be looking at the economic benefit and substantial savings that a scar maximization program would achieve.  Just a few huge gashes and burns on your face, arms. hands and neck would probably draw ones gaze completely away from  her "trouble area" which is her stomach...Also most scar maximization programs can definitely be accomplished on the cheap.

No need for any thanks or private messsages requesting just a "taste" of the Domidong...Just to know that I have once again been of help is really all of the thanks I need.

Caitlyn, I am a nosey sot, why do you have cigarette burns?  



juliaoceania -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 8:09:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

One of my play partners is bald and has a great personality. As for teeth, I only said they need to have them. I didn't say they had to be real.


Hmmmm, I remembered differently so I looked it up


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For me, it's more of a hair thing than age. I wouldn't want a man close to my father's age, but I've actually turned down men younger than me because they were going bald


http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=608529
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baldness can be prevented by taking a pill every day.......all a man needs is a prescription. For those already balding or thinning, that's what hair transplants are for. The younger older men look, the more women will make exceptions to age limits.


http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=608548

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Doesn't searching for someone else qualify as moving on? I've found that all the doms and switches in this area are either older and bald, already taken, or only date vanilla women. Here are my standards. He must have a job, his own transportation, and all his hair and front teeth. He must not expect sex outside of a monogamous relationship. He must be willing to date a bdsm woman, not just vanilla. Most people have a much longer list than this. So you see, it's not a problem of refusing to move on. It's the lack of decent doms to move on

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=773767

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I'm afraid there is nothing I can do about the hair thing. One has to be attracted to a potential mate and I'm just not attracted to bald men. There is no need for men to be balding anyway when there are hair restoration clinics all over the place. I would have no problem being attracted to a man who was a bit overweight and had average looks. I don't expect perfection.


http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=773884


Now from these several statements about bald men it seems fairly humorous that you deny it now... but maybe you had an epiphany or something... btw, I had a child and I am not fat because of it, but I am not about to be crass and unreasonable and state that your experience with being fat is a crock of shit and that you can't help it.. for all I know that is true. Men lose hair as they get older... and I have news for you, some women do too.

My Daddy has thinning hair, but he is not obese, my personal preference is for men that are active, I do not care about the hair line... it just means we have different preferences.



FatDomDaddy -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 8:12:23 PM)

julia is so smart.

Ya gotta love strong smart submissive women!



juliaoceania -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 8:14:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: FatDomDaddy

julia is so smart.

Ya gotta love strong smart submissive women!


Well I am at least a smart ass[:D]

Thanks for the compliment



DianeB269 -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 8:18:55 PM)

There's just as many overweight males here on CM.


Diane



Rose4Mistress -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 8:23:20 PM)

i am not tiny.  i never will be tiny.  but i never will be big either.  i am 5'6" and around 150 pounds....i am a german woman, what can i say? if someone has an issue with my weight (or skin color, or eye color, or breast size or whatever) that is fine.  i would never be offended by that...that is simply their preference.  plenty of people find me attractive the way i am now. 
would i turn down a date with someone that was extremely overweight? yes i would, simply because that would not be attractive to me.  same thing as i would turn down someone that was older than my parents...it just is not attractive to me.  i am not looking for someone who fits society's standard for what is beautiful...as long as she thinks she is beautiful, and i think she is beautiful, well then she's beautiful.
we are, as always, our own worst critics.  i look into the mirror some days and think: "God why am I so fat/ugly, why is my nose/eyes/chin/boobs shaped like that?" 
be happy with yourself, because you have to love yourself for someone else to love you in return



Dtesmoac -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 8:23:56 PM)

As for women I have little preference of skinny or rounded, stretch marks and tummy from children, not an issue. I don't like either extreme. What  I do like is a women that is "fit" i.e. well exercised, can walk a few miles, swim a few miles and generally not start wheezing when she sees a set of stairs, but has a figure and round softness........... but can feel a bone or two when strtched on a rack...!! 

When I do become bigotted is when I get on a plane and then someone arrives who thinks they are entitled to half my seat as well as the one they paid for. Excess baggage ..... to bloody right ...... If you require two seats, ..... you pay for them don't expect me to.... well my company !!!   lol






YourhandMyAss -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 8:34:14 PM)

Me either, there's a group called chubby chasers, they seek out the fat women, simply because fat w*omen turn them on, I've told those type who want me because I am fat, and I would tell others nope sorry, because I plan on loosing my weight, and I am not interested in someone who wants me cause I am fat.  Me being fat is not healthy, and if my flabbyness is what attracted them they won't like the skinny non flabby new me.
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

also, I wouldn't want a male who only wanted me because of my extra padding.




domiguy -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 8:34:30 PM)

Julia you they say you are a bad mother..Shut your mouth!!! I'm talking about Julia...Then can we dig it!  She's a complicated sub, but no one understands her like her daddy...

Very well done.  God, Synergy must have his hands full dealing with a woman like yourself.....Great post!!!!  Poor Synergy doen't get to get away with anything....You recall to much info...that poor, poor man.





domiguy -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 8:37:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

There's just as many overweight males here on CM.


Diane


Well then start your own damn thread...Don't think you are gonna come out here and bash my brothers...Not on my watch sweetie....Thanks for the tit shot.



YourhandMyAss -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 8:38:33 PM)

And what is your idea of"eating so much food"


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ORIGINAL: Trampler

Wanted to clarify on what I said.  The overweight guy that I turned down, I had gone out with him twice before, and both times, he ate so much food, that it made me sick to watch. 



defiantbadgirl -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 8:42:29 PM)

My fat experience from being pregnant is not a crock. The amount of food a woman eats during pregnancy has nothing to do with her having too much amniotic fluid. Before my pregnancy, I weighed around 125 lbs. I admit that I prefer men with all their hair, but obviously I can overlook baldness or I wouldn't have a bald play partner. Why can't men overlook a woman disfigured by pregnancy? By the way, I'm happy for you and all other women who don't have loads of stretched skin from pregnancy. I wouldn't wish this on anyone.



juliaoceania -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 8:54:18 PM)

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

My fat experience from being pregnant is not a crock. The amount of food a woman eats during pregnancy has nothing to do with her having too much amniotic fluid. Before my pregnancy, I weighed around 125 lbs. I admit that I prefer men with all their hair, but obviously I can overlook baldness or I wouldn't have a bald play partner. Why can't men overlook a woman disfigured by pregnancy? By the way, I'm happy for you and all other women who don't have loads of stretched skin from pregnancy. I wouldn't wish this on anyone.


I explicitly said that I was NOT saying that your being fat was something that you could not help.. just like bald men can't stop their hair from falling out. You would have them take chemicals and resort to 1000s of dollars to put hair plugs in to "help" going bald. I would not want my Daddy to ingest drugs to keep his hair in, nor plugs to make his hair look fuller, why? I love him the way he is, it does not matter to me.

My entire point was that we both have our preferences, and there is nothing wrong with that. It seems rather silly to bash men that do not find fat women attractive when you do not like bald men... that was my point.

Oh, btw, I have a little pooch and loose skin from having my son, but I get lots of exercise and I eat right. I have a few extra pounds as I approach middle age too. It is not easy to lose weight. There are plenty of men that might find you attractive, but loving yourself first might help someone else love you.



merrysbrat -> RE: rant over "fat women" (4/29/2007 9:44:36 PM)

Mmm, I think some people on here need to realize we're not mad about people rejecting us for our weight, we're mad about them insulting us for our weight. At least, that's my P.O.V.



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