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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz
If someone at work were to discover your picture on here, and try to out you, they would be outting themselves.  If someone came to me and said, "did you know that so and so has a profile at a kink site?", I'd be asking them how they knew.
i used to think exactly the same way until a similar thing happened in the system where i work.  Someone discovered a woman and her husband on a swinger's site where they had posted their pictures.  They "reported it" to the board of that system and she was questioned about it.  She and her husband both ended up leaving in disgrace and it was a front page newspaper story in the small, rural county where it happened!  Can you imagine?  My first question was "How did these people come to see it if they weren't on the same site looking to swing?"  It apparently didn't matter why they were looking there.  The "cat was out of the bag," so to speak, and the damage done.  i said if i was this woman, i would have sued their asses off for civil rights violations.  i mean how did she and her husband swinging have ANYTHING to do with the performance of their jobs?  But, it was just too humiliating for them to pursue, i suppose, since they had been "outed" and it had been publicly reported. 
 
THAT is the main reason i decline to ever put my pix on public sites such as this.  It's just not worth the hassle that could result.  Am i ashamed of my choices as far as this "lifestyle?"  Nope.  But, i don't feel i have to shout it from the rooftops or proclaim it in the streets anymore than vanilla folks need to announce their sexual and lifestyle preferences.  i can proudly be what i am while practicing discretion.  Master has the same situation as far as His job.  W/we share photos on an individual basis once a relationship has been established and that has worked wonderfully..........slave luci



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