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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/8/2013 11:21:58 AM   
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...Feminism isn't about making women rule everything, it's not about unfair advantages or man-hate. It's simply about leveling the playing field and make sure everyone has the same chances regardless of gender.

What does the gay rights movement do for straight people? Nothing, because that's not the point.
What does honest charity organizations do for rich and healthy people? Nothing, that's not the point.
What did the black rights movement do for whites? Nothing, that's not the point.
What does feminism do for men? Nothing, that's not the point.


I'm gonna play my starry-eyed idealism card here. What they do is make the world a fairer place. (At least when they're doing it right.) That's better for everyone, not just the disadvantaged.


I have to say, that I too agree with this sentiment. At the end of the day we are all in the same boat together. And making the overall community stronger is actually to EVERYONE'S advantage. Anyone who sees it differently doesn't understand the concept of community. And to those people, I will simply say this. Then live off the grid. But if you are part of a community then helping every member of that community achieve their full potential is something that we each owe to each other.

In addition, living in an environment that is morally imbalanced does reflect badly on those who hold the power. If whites in a community support apartheid at the expense of the livelihoods of blacks, does this not taint the white community? Is there such a thing as amoral discrimination?

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/8/2013 11:38:33 AM   
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Yes, kids, this is what passes for feminism these days.


No HW. The insane and inane rant you posted is not "what passes for feminism these days". It is what passes as an insane and inane rant. It appears to be the personal blog of the poor troubled soul that wrote it and that's about all it will ever be. About as representative of feminism as WBC is of Christianity, or Al Quada is of Islam.

If people are really interested in what "what passes for feminism these days", there's a mountain of literature available for any one who wants to find out. Any decent bookshop will have a section devoted to feminism or womens' issues. That is where you or any one else genuinely interested can look and find a representative sample of "what passes for feminism these days".

Happy browsing!

Well, I'm so happy that you're the end all-be all of what is feminism.

The person who wrote that little crazy blog has hosted multi day conferences down on your part of the world.
Now if one is hosting 3 day conferences, I'd assume they aren't exactly fringe.

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/8/2013 2:10:49 PM   
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I cant seem to find her name, Hill.... Not doubting you, just curious as to who the writer is since she gives lectures.

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/8/2013 3:05:34 PM   
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I cant seem to find her name, Hill.... Not doubting you, just curious as to who the writer is since she gives lectures.

I followed her other writings. She writes under a pseudonym (obviously to keep from being murdered by EVULLL MENZ)

In all seriousness, if everything she writes were switched genderwise, it would be classified as hate speech.

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/8/2013 3:46:46 PM   
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I cant seem to find her name, Hill.... Not doubting you, just curious as to who the writer is since she gives lectures.

I followed her other writings. She writes under a pseudonym (obviously to keep from being murdered by EVULLL MENZ)

In all seriousness, if everything she writes were switched genderwise, it would be classified as hate speech.

And presumably she gives lectures under a pseudonym too, since you can't give her name or even the pseudonym?

Way to avoid giving your source...

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/8/2013 3:51:50 PM   
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Hill provided a link to the essay whence he quoted:

http://users.livejournal.com/_allecto_/34718.html

I've looked there and can't find the author's real name either.

All this raises an interesting question: Have we defined what we mean by "contemporary feminism"?

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/8/2013 3:57:10 PM   
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Interestingly, the essay sparked a discussion at a whole different forum:

http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,19568.0/nowap.html?PHPSESSID=ba00c9b5f459e835ef41f81f1137b444

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/8/2013 4:17:59 PM   
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I think the whole question is bizarrely phrased and amounts to a misnomer and oxymoron.

It's like asking what do plumbers do for roofers.

Feminism is all about women and what they can do for women in general.
It has nothing to do with men at all other than the inequality in most areas of life.

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/8/2013 4:20:54 PM   
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FR

Hill provided a link to the essay whence he quoted:

http://users.livejournal.com/_allecto_/34718.html

I've looked there and can't find the author's real name either.

All this raises an interesting question: Have we defined what we mean by "contemporary feminism"?

The first question it raised for me was: how could he say with confidence that the original source was a real live feminist Voice, giving lectures and writing books and stuff, if all he had was an untraceable blog? I could claim to be a lecturer and writer on BDSM, and maybe someone would be dumb enough to quote me as proof that all BDSMers are crazy humourless fanatics, but that wouldn't make it true.

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/8/2013 4:39:37 PM   
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Well, I'm so happy that you're the end all-be all of what is feminism.


Seriously, HW, it really is the only way to go with definitions when it comes to political world views. My own view of what feminism - that feminism is about equality and freedom for women - conforms to the vast majority of definitions I've ever found. It trumps the definition of those who are hostile to feminism, of course - but it also trumps that of self-proclaimed feminists, even if they're female.

Sticking to that definition enables me to trash the anti-feminist propagandists - of which there have always been many - but it also allows me to trash those women who've simply tried to give their own selfishness and/or, occasionally, their own nuttiness, a reasoned and cogent veneer. Of course you get such women now and then because women are people and people are apt to put an ostensibly reasoned and balanced spin on their selfishness and nuttiness. (And, if you've never done it, you've no idea what fun it can be to watch some looney man-bashing woman's mouth open and close in shock when you tell her - confidently, because you know your stuff - that she's not actually a feminist at all.)


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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/8/2013 4:44:02 PM   
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I could claim to be a lecturer and writer on BDSM, and maybe someone would be dumb enough to quote me as proof that all BDSMers are crazy humourless fanatics, but that wouldn't make it true.


You have a picture of yourself with an item of vaguely BDSM-looking equipment and a beard, Leonine. That's enough for me to know that you're an expert. ;-)

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/8/2013 5:05:57 PM   
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I think the whole question is bizarrely phrased and amounts to a misnomer and oxymoron.

It's like asking what do plumbers do for roofers.

Feminism is all about women and what they can do for women in general.
It has nothing to do with men at all other than the inequality in most areas of life.



Not really. Plumbers and roofers can pretty much do their own thing and their jobs only occasionally contact one another and most people aren't either one anyway. Now, if plumbers were the children of one plumber and one roofer (some raised by only one or the other, or two plumbers or two roofers, but still "one plumber, one roofer" households are the most common), their children each had 50/50 shots of becoming either plumbers or roofers and this was determined by random chance, and almost everyone was either a plumber or a roofer, then plumbers really do need to consider the effects of pro-plumber activity on roofers. Any organization that pushes advantages for plumbers and doesn't care how or if it affects roofers is going to rightly attract the anger of a lot of roofers - and plumbers who actually give a shit about the other almost-half of the human race.

Men and women don't live entirely separate from each other. We all live on this planet together and come in frequent contact with each other. If someone's goal is just to give women more freedom, rights, and other good things, and the effect on men is irrelevant, s/he runs the risk of creating situations in which sexual inequality reappears, in the form of women being advantaged over men. This is NOT an improvement. If the goal is equality, and to make human life better, then it's important to consider men's experience and at least do no harm.

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/8/2013 5:18:14 PM   
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trying to achieve equality between women and men


It can't do that when it totally ignores men's issues.


Of course it can.

Womens fight for the vote
Womens fight for equal pay
Womens fight for equality in the workplace

None of the above have anything to do with ignoring mens issues, yet women have had a long hard fight for all of them.

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/8/2013 6:33:01 PM   
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was gonna say something but i decided to strike my opinion from the record.

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/8/2013 8:00:33 PM   
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Well, I'm so happy that you're the end all-be all of what is feminism.


Seriously, HW, it really is the only way to go with definitions when it comes to political world views. My own view of what feminism - that feminism is about equality and freedom for women - conforms to the vast majority of definitions I've ever found. It trumps the definition of those who are hostile to feminism, of course - but it also trumps that of self-proclaimed feminists, even if they're female.

Sticking to that definition enables me to trash the anti-feminist propagandists - of which there have always been many - but it also allows me to trash those women who've simply tried to give their own selfishness and/or, occasionally, their own nuttiness, a reasoned and cogent veneer. Of course you get such women now and then because women are people and people are apt to put an ostensibly reasoned and balanced spin on their selfishness and nuttiness. (And, if you've never done it, you've no idea what fun it can be to watch some looney man-bashing woman's mouth open and close in shock when you tell her - confidently, because you know your stuff - that she's not actually a feminist at all.)


I would agree with this. I think selfishness and nuttiness abounds in both genders. Perhaps it might be sexist of me to say this, but I think that, as men, we tend to feel concerned and possibly threatened by the selfishness and nuttiness of other men more than that of the feminists. A lot of other issues more to the forefront these days, things which have nothing to do with feminism. I wonder what Naughty Nixon would think of us now.

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/8/2013 10:45:34 PM   
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Yes, kids, this is what passes for feminism these days.


No HW. The insane and inane rant you posted is not "what passes for feminism these days". It is what passes as an insane and inane rant. It appears to be the personal blog of the poor troubled soul that wrote it and that's about all it will ever be. About as representative of feminism as WBC is of Christianity, or Al Quada is of Islam.

If people are really interested in what "what passes for feminism these days", there's a mountain of literature available for any one who wants to find out. Any decent bookshop will have a section devoted to feminism or womens' issues. That is where you or any one else genuinely interested can look and find a representative sample of "what passes for feminism these days".

Happy browsing!

Well, I'm so happy that you're the end all-be all of what is feminism.

The person who wrote that little crazy blog has hosted multi day conferences down on your part of the world.
Now if one is hosting 3 day conferences, I'd assume they aren't exactly fringe.

Sorry HW your assumption is 100% wrong in this instance. You really ought to know better.

While neither HW nor anyone else has yet succeeded in putting a name to HW's source, her political stance is not in doubt. The mysterious anonymous self-identifies with 'radical feminism', aka lesbian separatism. This is the most extreme and militant of all streams of feminism, known for its ideological rigidity.

It is a fringe element, which achieved a little influence within the feminist movement in the 70s, and has been in sharp decline ever since. Nowadays, almost every feminist I know regards it as an embarrassing historical hangover from the ideological excesses of that era. Even within the lesbian community, it is largely irrelevant. I'd be greatly surprised if its numbers constitute more than a fraction of 1% of feminists. As I stated above, it's as representative of feminism as Fred Phelps and WBC are of mainstream Christianity, or as Al Quada's views and behaviour are of Islam .

However, this tiny, inconsequential and rather nutty stream of feminism is a tabloid media darling. The gutter press loves it for its blind adherence to outdated ideology and uncompromising hostility towards anything masculine, regularly labeling the most extreme of its views as "feminist". For the same reasons, opponents of feminism also love this group and seize upon it as examples of "feminism gone mad".

It is at best misleading and at worst deliberately deceptive to present views emanating from this microscopic group of has-beens as representative of the broad feminist movement.

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/9/2013 12:37:57 AM   
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"What does contemporary feminism do for men?"

Uhhhh, nothing? Because it's FEMINISM? Because it's not supposed to do anything for men?

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/9/2013 4:57:12 AM   
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On a kink site, I dont see how it would be the prevalent attitude. Sure, we have dommes who are into female superiority. But we also have female submissives/slaves who are quite happy with their dominated lives, to whatever extent they are controlled/mastered/guided/ect.


It's purely conjecture on my part, but I would venture that the op's view of feminism might well be incompatible with the notion of a feminist female submissive. You all might have to choose ;)

It's quite difficult to have a proper discussion though because I'm not really sure what contemporary feminism refers to. What's the cut-off?

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/9/2013 4:59:34 AM   
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Yes, kids, this is what passes for feminism these days.


No HW. The insane and inane rant you posted is not "what passes for feminism these days". It is what passes as an insane and inane rant. It appears to be the personal blog of the poor troubled soul that wrote it and that's about all it will ever be. About as representative of feminism as WBC is of Christianity, or Al Quada is of Islam.

If people are really interested in what "what passes for feminism these days", there's a mountain of literature available for any one who wants to find out. Any decent bookshop will have a section devoted to feminism or womens' issues. That is where you or any one else genuinely interested can look and find a representative sample of "what passes for feminism these days".

Happy browsing!

Well, I'm so happy that you're the end all-be all of what is feminism.

The person who wrote that little crazy blog has hosted multi day conferences down on your part of the world.
Now if one is hosting 3 day conferences, I'd assume they aren't exactly fringe.

Sorry HW your assumption is 100% wrong in this instance. You really ought to know better.

While neither HW nor anyone else has yet succeeded in putting a name to HW's source, her political stance is not in doubt. The mysterious anonymous self-identifies with 'radical feminism', aka lesbian separatism. This is the most extreme and militant of all streams of feminism, known for its ideological rigidity.

It is a fringe element, which achieved a little influence within the feminist movement in the 70s, and has been in sharp decline ever since. Nowadays, almost every feminist I know regards it as an embarrassing historical hangover from the ideological excesses of that era. Even within the lesbian community, it is largely irrelevant. I'd be greatly surprised if its numbers constitute more than a fraction of 1% of feminists. As I stated above, it's as representative of feminism as Fred Phelps and WBC are of mainstream Christianity, or as Al Quada's views and behaviour are of Islam .

However, this tiny, inconsequential and rather nutty stream of feminism is a tabloid media darling. The gutter press loves it for its blind adherence to outdated ideology and uncompromising hostility towards anything masculine, regularly labeling the most extreme of its views as "feminist". For the same reasons, opponents of feminism also love this group and seize upon it as examples of "feminism gone mad".

It is at best misleading and at worst deliberately deceptive to present views emanating from this microscopic group of has-beens as representative of the broad feminist movement.

Are you saying that if it's incredibly rare and possibly the result of someone who is unstable then it doesn't matter and we should just ignore it since it's thousands of miles away and not even in my country?

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RE: What does contemporary feminism do for men? - 9/9/2013 5:02:46 AM   
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Well, I don't know if that's true...


Some isnt all.


I think that's the key point in this thread. Doubtlessly some feminists are as Nick describes, but for the argument to be more compelling I would want to see evidence that this was the prevailing voice in feminism. Maybe I missed it in reading the two threads all in one go, but I don't think that evidence has been produced here.


It's an old tactic, actually. Within any ideology or school of thought, it's relatively easy to find those who are on the fringe.

It's like in football, when sizing up the defensive line, you might try plays that would exploit whatever weaknesses or holes you might find. Similarly, the goofball fringe in an ideological group would be the weak link which the opposition can then attack.

I'm not sure if there even is a prevailing voice in feminism, but I think in evaluating any group, one has to discern their ability to "police their own," so to speak. Do they openly acknowledge their weak links? Are they willing to criticize and dissociate themselves from their weak links? Or do they refrain from doing so in the belief that they must show solidarity no matter what?

Sometimes, it might be wiser to make a tactical concession regarding the weaknesses of a position, in order to move past that and concentrate more on the strengths. Some people seem reluctant to do that as they see it as a sign of weakness, thinking that the best defense is a good offense. Sometimes, that may be the case, but if overused, it can be seen as disingenuous and arrogant.




I did a similar thing in my dissertation when looking at the impact of 1956 on the Marxist left, but in this case I don't think A level sociology qualifies me to comment! I think you are right though, that methodology would provide a much clearer picture than simply 'look at the crazy extremists!'

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