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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/19/2006 12:35:28 AM   
Owned1


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Status: offline 		Just a thought as I read through this topic.  Could you imagine if the female sub/slaves started acting like thier male counterparts. 

The male Dom world would not know what to do!!!  I would imagine first off they would be extatic until they began to realize we were serious in all aspects and had all transformed to do me NOW subs.

One begins to realize why more and more women are becoming bisexual and often moving completly over to the lesbian only side.

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/19/2006 1:41:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Owned1

Just a thought as I read through this topic.  Could you imagine if the female sub/slaves started acting like thier male counterparts. 

The male Dom world would not know what to do!!!  I would imagine first off they would be extatic until they began to realize we were serious in all aspects and had all transformed to do me NOW subs.

One begins to realize why more and more women are becoming bisexual and often moving completly over to the lesbian only side.

Owned

Seriously.  This is a DAILY occurance, not just something that I come across on a rare occasion.  More often than not, I have at minimum, three or four such careless, selfish emails in my inbox.

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/19/2006 6:49:22 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Owned1
Just a thought as I read through this topic.  Could you imagine if the female sub/slaves started acting like thier male counterparts. 

The male Dom world would not know what to do!!! 


Oh it does happen, just, thankfully not as often as to our female counterparts.
Block, delete, ingore works well but I for one am glad that it is far from a regular occurance.


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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/19/2006 6:59:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Owned1

One begins to realize why more and more women are becoming bisexual and often moving completly over to the lesbian only side.

Owned


Oh happy days!!!


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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/19/2006 8:24:10 AM   
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Just a thought as I read through this topic.  Could you imagine if the female sub/slaves started acting like thier male counterparts. 


Actually I get a few similar messages from male subs, some of them from "straight" male subs. When I question why they wrote to me if they are straight, they reply that although their profile says straight, they are actually either bi or gay



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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/19/2006 8:46:24 AM   
MisPandora


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ORIGINAL: Arpig

quote:

Just a thought as I read through this topic.  Could you imagine if the female sub/slaves started acting like thier male counterparts. 


Actually I get a few similar messages from male subs, some of them from "straight" male subs. When I question why they wrote to me if they are straight, they reply that although their profile says straight, they are actually either bi or gay


Or just not all that discerning for who gives them attention when they're playing with their weenie?  I'm totally not surprised to see men getting emails from these guys.  They just DON'T care!

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/19/2006 3:05:13 PM   
MizSuz


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My standard response is "You just did."

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/19/2006 3:19:07 PM   
Emperor1956


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quote:

 Arpig and MisPandora said: 
quote:

ORIGINAL: Arpig


quote:

Just a thought as I read through this topic.  Could you imagine if the female sub/slaves started acting like thier male counterparts. 


Actually I get a few similar messages from male subs, some of them from "straight" male subs. When I question why they wrote to me if they are straight, they reply that although their profile says straight, they are actually either bi or gay



Or just not all that discerning for who gives them attention when they're playing with their weenie?  I'm totally not surprised to see men getting emails from these guys.  They just DON'T care!


I too have gotten inquiries from submissive men.  Most often its been at a public scene venue or a dungeon party when some guy starts talking to Me (or to My submissive) and lets it be known that he wouldn't mind the sort of attention he saw Me give her earlier.  Its not that surprising tho, in that there is a nonsexual component to B/D/S/M and in public I tend to stress that, rather than a sexual sort of play.  So MisPandora, for some guys it may not be that they don't care who plays with their weenie, but more, they don't care who holds the other end of the flogger.

Of course, I have noticed two things.  First, when I've done a public fisting scene...they are MUCH less likely to come up and ask for attention (smirk).  and Second, yes, there are a lot of LKF's in the public scene...and probably 100 times as many LKF's on CollarMe.

E.

(OH,  LKF?   "Little knothole fuckers" who stick their dicks in anywhere.)

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/20/2006 5:00:23 AM   
draba


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Status: offline 		I thought it was a double negative also. Maybe it was meant to be No, Mistress does not.........

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/20/2006 5:23:57 AM   
mistressdawnn03


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Status: offline 		I would like to say a big Thank You Ladies and Gentlemen, not only is this all true but I was just able to (like 5 secs ago) use "Please read in the Recent Forum Posts :  No Mistress does NOT want" as a response to an email that read "id like to eat your ass". Will they never get it?
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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/20/2006 5:45:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mistressdawnn03

I would like to say a big Thank You Ladies and Gentlemen, not only is this all true but I was just able to (like 5 secs ago) use "Please read in the Recent Forum Posts :  No Mistress does NOT want" as a response to an email that read "id like to eat your ass". Will they never get it?
Mistress Dawn


LOLOL,

I would have said, that's fine, bring 50,000 dollars in a grocery bag, I'll be brown bagging it, while you do lunch.

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/20/2006 7:49:48 AM   
MistressOfGa


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Status: offline 		No, Mistress does not want....
 
1. To be told she is less than a Mistress if she shows human emotions.
2. To be asked if I will be supplying your "pretty dress up clothes" for you.
3. To open an email that reads "Hi how r u?"
4. To open an email that reads "I am a dom, you may approach" WTF??

quote:

I would have said, that's fine, bring 50,000 dollars in a grocery bag, I'll be brown bagging it, while you do lunch.


THIS is priceless! lol Thanks for the laugh this morning :)




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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/20/2006 9:01:57 AM   
TxBlkMistress


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Status: offline 		What a great post, now I don't feel like the lone ranger...lol

Of course I've been through all of the above, but would like to stress:
Really hate the cut and paste form emails

The ones that only say "hi" and nothing else, and of course they have no profile

The liars which seem to be from either nigeria or india that once you bust them on the location lie and several others they have told which more often than not includes a fake pic, don't understand why you won't give them another chance, cause they "love" you.

oh and let's not forget those that "love" you on the very first email and don't see why they can't move into your house and get married three months later...one told me that being together is all we need, we don't need a wedding....lol (first and second email...then I blocked...lol)

psssst...um....guess what?  You not being able to relocate is not the only thing keeping us apart....might also be cause you are or look old enough to be my grandfather and come across as a jerk...and the ever popular...I'm JUST NOT INTERESTED.   so you can save the emails on how upset I should be because you can not move here, and unfortunately for me (as he puts it), that will not change any time soon.  all this sent on his very first email mind you...lol

No, you are not so special that I will forget all that I am looking for and do what "you" want....which is usually cyber and online domination.

Please...keep a list of the Domme's you spam....you have sent me the same dumbass email under different niks with the same lame ass picture at least 5 times in as many months

If you can't put at least one complete sentence together on an email, why would I give you my number? especially on the first email

And that you soooo much on imparting the knowledge of how long my profile is...I do believe I state that in the beginning...so if you have a problem...I believe there is a next button or something.

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/20/2006 11:45:50 AM   
DreamyLadySnow


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Status: offline 		This Lady does not want:
- to be told that I am 'missing out' becuase their kink is not listed in my profile.

Gee, thanks, I'll try that because some stranger thousands of miles away told me to.

- to be 'mommy' to a man 12 years older than I am.

How does that work and what on earth would I get out of it?

What Mistress does want:

- a boy who actually listens to what they are being told.


LS

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/20/2006 2:06:59 PM   
DoraExplorer


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Status: offline 		All of this (cut and paste, standard emails, yuk!), plus
 
* to be told I'm narrow-minded because there are a few things I'm not interested in
* a series of emails saying - in their entirety - "hi"; "your *sic* up late"; "it's raining here"; and expecting me to pick up their badly thrown ball
* emails from subs who were turned down previously and who obviously don't remember who they've written to
* emails from subs who think that because they come to London for their job every 3 months, this constitutes 'regular'
* being told that he doesn't have a very high pain threshold and is actually not that much into s&m  but hey, perhaps we could not do that and explore the more sensual side (means he wants me to go on top)
* an approach stating how loyal and loving he can be, which is at odds with his rant in his journal about ex Dommes, people he spoke to, pros etc.
 
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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/20/2006 9:18:11 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		Ok, adding to the list ...

No, Mistress does not want:
  • to hear how wonderful you are, and how easy you are to get along with when you are well out of our age range (had an 18 year old with that one)
  • to be told that our goals are unrealistic and that we'd better realize that (and, of course, pick someone like the guy telling us this because he wants to be cucked and thinks that our arrangement would be perfect for that)
  • to be told that we are fakes or players because we are relatively new (hasn't happened for awhile, but yeah ... more than once)
  • to be addressed with "hey sexy" "what's up beautiful" or any other variations that you can possibly come up with, other than "hello (or hi) Miss"
  • to be contacted by multiple one-liners from the same person, followed by "why won't you talk to me" when I refuse to carry a conversation.
  • to be told that "Dommes make the best submissives" (which, for the record, cannot possibly be true - that would make them switches, thank you very much)
  • to be told that you can bench press more than our boy(s) when you know nothing of them (and yes, this actually was used as a pathetic attempt as a pickup line ... it was actually kinda funny)
  • to be asked if we are into things that our profile clearly states that we are not

That about covers most of the memorable ones for the moment.

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/20/2006 10:50:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Sylverdawn

Im glad you have clarified for us what you dont want.. I appreciate the information.


You're greatness!  *smooch*

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/21/2006 12:05:05 AM   
formenteralady


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Status: offline 		-Fantasies involveing someone's relatives.
-Subs with absolutely no self esteem, and carry on a conversation because of it
-Being told I'm better then a man, and a goddess, because I can grow life inside of me...that's just kinda strange
-Being told that you'd think we'd get along, but I am not into "XYZ", and that it's such a pitty that I wouldn't try that.
-And frankly I'm just tired of people wanting super Domme and not a real human being, I really don't want to Domme someone over the internet, expeicaly don't want to do it to someone who's just an anon character who means nothing to me, and who I really know nothing about.


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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/21/2006 7:35:18 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Tit pictures from a *female sub* who is extremely pushy about spelling out *her* fantasies in vivid detail. I've told *her* twice I'm not interested and *she* keeps going on about *her* fantasies etc. I told HIM to go find wanking material somewhere else and blocked.

~Lashra

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/21/2006 7:52:49 AM   
MisPandora


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-- to hear you try to explain how you at age 30 have 20 years of SM experience.  No matter how you try to rationalize it, you'll come out an idiot!

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