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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/21/2006 8:25:46 AM

MsSonnetMarwood

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No I don't want:

- to be sent an email "introduction" that is just a cut and paste of your profile AND contains a complaint about how people keep contacting you wanting something you aren't offering AND is clear that you don't fit what MY profile says I seek.

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/21/2006 3:32:03 PM

undergroundsea

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Surely, any domme worth her salt would want any random sub to come clean her house naked, as she stands over him with a whip and invites over her domme girlfriends and vanilla girlfriends (heck even her sisters as long as it as a female who will giggle at the sub) to watch. Right? And everyone knows the proper salutation for an introductory letter is My Dear Esteemed Mistress. ;-)

Seriously, I think we will find general agreement about blatant examples as those described in this discussion. Beyond that, what is appropriate (should the title Mistress be used, should a list of BDSM interests be given) will become subjective. I think that even those who observe standard social ettiquete are not always sure about how best to present their persona in an introductory letter, and some amount of learning occurs in most cases.

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/21/2006 7:43:18 PM

MisPandora

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quote:

ORIGINAL: undergroundsea
Seriously, I think we will find general agreement about blatant examples as those described in this discussion. Beyond that, what is appropriate (should the title Mistress be used, should a list of BDSM interests be given) will become subjective. I think that even those who observe standard social ettiquete are not always sure about how best to present their persona in an introductory letter, and some amount of learning occurs in most cases.

Trouble is, Sea, is that social etiquette is not taught anymore. It's not a required program in school. Most parents these days don't know Emily Post from Martha Stewart. I observe "unsocialized" individuals every moment of my life and it's horrifying to me. Yet I cannot give up or surrender the hope that I will come across a gentleman in my age range who will be at least a wee bit socialized (ok, maybe a little rough on the edges).

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/22/2006 7:36:14 AM

restlesssyn

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... to hear about your Scat fetish in a graphic story

... to get an emaill saying 'hi' and that's it, what is this? Grade school?
... to hear how devoted you can be, three counties, states, or countries away from Me.
... to hear about how for the last 15+ years you've wanted to *fill in the blank* but haven't found ANYONE yet. So not into hearing about YOUR failures, really.
... to hear how 'interesting, fresh or real' My profile is. I know...dipshit, I wrote it. Jeezus!
... playing message tag answering questions that are answered in My FRIGGING PROFILE.
... being sent ANY kind of sissified pictures of men... if want a girl... I'll have a girl... you wanna dress up... find someone that likes to play with hairy Barbies!
... repeated requests for My picture when you neither have one on your profile or provide Me with one.

I'm sure I'll think of more soon, with all the rather useless communications I've been getting lately it's a vicious cycle

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/24/2006 5:35:35 AM

DoraExplorer

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This is a great thread... so far I've directed about 8 'subs' to it!

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/24/2006 6:18:34 AM

yourMissTress

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I just had to post this here as it's not only fitting but specifically mentioned. This is quite typical IME of men online. Screen Names and Collar Me ID changed to protect the clueless and Me.

Loser (8/23/2006 2:26:10 PM): Hello
Loser (8/23/2006 2:26:12 PM): TALK TO ME
MissTress (8/23/2006 2:26:21 PM): ? how funny
Loser (8/23/2006 2:26:37 PM): I am not laughing
MissTress (8/23/2006 2:26:58 PM): oh, sorry, I am. And will continue to do so on my way to block you
Loser (8/23/2006 2:32:37 PM): did you block mea?
Loser(8/23/2006 2:32:41 PM): me?
MissTress (8/23/2006 2:35:11 PM): no, but I will if you continue to talk to me as if I owe you something
Loser(8/23/2006 2:36:37 PM): did I come across as if you own me something, if I did then please forgive
MissTress (8/23/2006 2:37:09 PM): the "TALK TO ME" was great
Loser(8/23/2006 2:37:13 PM): am I backing up????
Loser (8/23/2006 2:37:28 PM): lol
MissTress (8/23/2006 2:38:01 PM): ok, who are you and what do you want?
Loser (8/23/2006 2:38:25 PM): I am Master Loser from collarme.com
Loser (8/23/2006 2:38:43 PM): I will give you time to look up my profile, lol
Loser (8/23/2006 2:39:28 PM): got to go pee anyway
MissTress (8/23/2006 2:39:32 PM): oh, that's funny
MissTress (8/23/2006 2:39:38 PM): why do I want to look at it?
Loser (8/23/2006 2:39:56 PM): because you have the need too
Loser (8/23/2006 2:40:02 PM): brb \
MissTress (8/23/2006 2:40:16 PM): ha ha ah
MissTress (8/23/2006 2:40:24 PM): where did you get my screen name?
Loser (8/23/2006 2:42:30 PM): it was written on the wall in the mens restroom at the bus station
MissTress (8/23/2006 2:42:38 PM): wonderful
Loser (8/23/2006 2:42:42 PM): lol
MissTress (8/23/2006 2:42:47 PM): have a good day.
Loser (8/23/2006 2:42:59 PM): you love it
Loser (8/23/2006 2:43:07 PM): and you know you do
Loser (8/23/2006 2:43:27 PM): talk to me...will it work twice?
Loser (8/23/2006 2:44:34 PM): call me...101-555-1212 ext 119
Loser (8/23/2006 2:45:04 PM): you are still getting this, so call me
Loser (8/23/2006 2:45:40 PM): I will not pee until you call me
Loser (8/23/2006 8:42:49 PM): hello Goddess
Loser (8/23/2006 8:43:55 PM): I am naked and on my knees as I message you

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/24/2006 6:27:13 AM

RavenMuse

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quote:

ORIGINAL: yourMissTress
Loser (8/23/2006 2:45:40 PM): I will not pee until you call me

They say truth is stranger than fiction, hell you couldn't make this shit up!
Wonder if his bladder has exploded yet

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/24/2006 6:35:34 AM

yourMissTress

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I half expected to see a complaint about his poor bladder when I awoke this morning....

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"If you have to tell people that you are a lady, you are not." My Grandmother

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/24/2006 5:32:10 PM

m0nk

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

quote:

No Mistress does not want

*to receive your phone numbers and IM addresses.

*to receive one more email that asks if you may petition

*to receive one more email that asks for more information regarding what I seek in a slave

edited to add:

*to hear how oral you are

well a mistress just did ask for my IM
only speak for yourself

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/24/2006 6:14:52 PM

Misstoyou

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quote:

ORIGINAL: m0nk

well a mistress just did ask for my IM
only speak for yourself

I hope it works out for you, but the difference is *she* asked. She didn't receive it out of the blue from a perfect stranger. I'm fairly friendly, lol, but personally, I've yet to use even one of those "offers."

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/26/2006 12:08:40 AM

naughtynick

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Its funny how a woman can complain about having too many emails/offers or too much attention that most males wish for. But if a male complains about being ignored all the time and receiving NO EMAILS OR OFFERS OR ATTENTION, he is labeled as a bitter whiner and looked down upon.

< Message edited by naughtynick -- 8/26/2006 12:10:52 AM >

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/26/2006 12:28:11 AM

naughtynick

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How would most women prefer it? Having too much attention or being ignored? what would you choose? I would choose having too much attention.

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/26/2006 12:52:31 AM

SweetDommes

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I would prefer to be contacted by a few sincere guys who honestly believe that they are compatable with us. We have recieved messages from about 10 people since I changed the profile that we are starting to look around a bit again, and of the 10, only 3 have been worth talking to - one is, unfortunately, too young and from too far away, and the other two have spontaniously quit talking to us ... and the other 7 were variations of what has been mentioned in this thread as what we don't want. I would much rather have skipped the 7 losers, and the 2 vanishers - although I would have missed out on a potentially good friend (although, he hasn't been chatty either), I honestly would have rather not gotten any messages.

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/26/2006 1:16:57 AM

mons

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sweetdommes greeting
i understand what you mean i had wonderful young males but they are just too young, and then there are the nuts i had one guys just play shy she top from the bottom and they thank good we never meant but he was like so strange and we talk for so long so very long i trusted him. then he turn strange we had a very good time speaking on the phone. i am a twin and i tell you this man would not believe that it was me talking with him. i do not think he ever believe me this was the breaking point i hiumor him first mistake. then i was like you believe this my twin is scare to damn of computer she will not come near on.

i have come to meet so wonderful males but as you said there are on that just do not need to write if you playing games he made read this he needs too.

to all of the wonderful males we dommes do think you great it is just someone wingnuts hang out in the attic making it hard to see who is real

mons

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/26/2006 1:25:32 AM

naughtynick

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Too bad that all males in a whole are labeled as potential sleaze or rapist. We are judged upon before we make an action.

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/26/2006 6:01:31 AM

MyNameisMaam

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I have laughed so hard tears are falling down my face!!! I think I have actually received emails and instant messages from most of these people!

naughtynick - if you really believe that "all males...are labeled" and that "all males...are judged...before we make an action" then I have to wonder what you are doing to perpetuate or to end the myth.

-Ma'am

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/26/2006 7:17:28 AM

Reflectivesoul

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I got a kick out of this thread heh ty ty ty for the laughs this morning Ladies

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Too add to it...

No, I dont want to hear how you have an anal fixation and want to know if you can come investigate my anal cavity... ( cringes... that one went right on block and delete..)
I dont want to recieve the same e-mail from you on 12 different Id's... hello I didnt reply to any of the other messages, get a clue..
I dont want 5 line e-mails telling me that you're interested in BDSM and your age... I already know you're interested in BDSM and your age is in your profile... try telling me something I dont know... ( DUH )
No, I dont want or for love of pete understand how I am supposed to "watch you" ( thats was all one e-mail contained... I'm like yeah.... sure.... mmmk....)
"hi" does not constitute as an introduction...
"Hello Goddess, Mistress, Oh Beautiful Great One, <insert others here, etc>... get off it bub I have an id use that or just dont bother.
No, I really dont want to know about your fantasy with vaccuum cleaners ( although I got a really good laugh from that one)
No, I am not a lesbian and no matter how many times you e-mail me that is NOT going to change... ( unless of course its Tigresse heh *winks* )
and My favorite of all..... No you may not approach unless somehow you have figured out a way to bring your scrawny ass through the computer screen....

There are probably dozens we still havent listed and I'm sure there will be lots more too add to the list as time continues on... but one of the sweetest e-mails I got was completely backwards... I felt so bad for the fella, you could just kinda tell he's inexperienced and was nervous as ever trying to write and say hello. I still talk with him too... some of the boys should really get a clue, they bitch cause we laugh at stupid e-mails but ya know if they would put a bit of effort into contacting someone they might get a better response.

For the one who asked if we would rather have too much attention or none, I'd prefer the none at all. It would be better than digging through a ton of messages that mean nothing at all... kinda like no attention is better than negative attention ( or a piss poor excuse at an attempt of attention. )

< Message edited by Reflectivesoul -- 8/26/2006 7:18:42 AM >

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ooooo..I bet THATS gonna leave a mark!!!!

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Gimme some crayons, I want color and I want it now DAMNIT!

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/26/2006 7:35:11 AM

MsKatHouston

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quote:

... to hear about your Scat fetish in a graphic story

or to get said graphic scat story when I first wake up, pre first cup of coffee

You got that one too eh? niiiccceeee

This is a great thread, I've laughed a lot over this one

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/26/2006 11:47:47 AM

DivaDuchess

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* Please let me just see you once, I'll bring the wife ... she's 'curious' (yea right)
* Do you use your slaves as toilets?
* What if I want to be burned (like anything is your choice outside 'hard limits)
* Can I use 'fuck me' as my trigger word? (first off that TWO words and ... only if that's what you want)
* Do you do groups?
* I want, I want, I want (wawawawa - again, not their choice. I didn't realize the slave was the one in charge)

Gotta love the ones that send email that ask my bra size. I usually reply with 'big enough'. Those that get all pissy when you tell them you don't believe their purple haired, tattooed, pierced until they looking like a pin cushioned body appeals. I had one of those this week.

Okay ... I'm done ranting about this weeks emails *lol*

Diva

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/26/2006 12:01:34 PM

SweetDommes

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quote:

ORIGINAL: naughtynick

Too bad that all males in a whole are labeled as potential sleaze or rapist. We are judged upon before we make an action.

Actually, very very few are labled or judged before making an action. Each and every one of the things that has been listed so far is something that a guy has sent to someone - and we are NOT judging all guys by those morons. If you feel that we are, then well ... that's your problem. Personally, I like to believe that most guys are honestly clueless rather than obnoxious and mentally handicapped, but when they do things (such as what we've all listed) that prove that they don't even have basic manners ... well, yeah, I'm going to be irritated with them and judge THEM as being worthless.

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