perverseangelic
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ORIGINAL: McWhips
Monetery payments ARE NOT part of a romantic relationship its a fee and a business arrangment.
Financial dominantion is a -fetish- as well. I -gaurentee- if you looked for it, you cuold find hundereds of submissive men who are -seeking- this type of relationship.
Even in a less drastic manner. Say you work, and your money goes dirrectly into your dominant partners account. That is monetary payments, of a kind. There are many people on this board who make a decent pay check, and then turn that check over to their dominant partner.
Again, I wouldn't say that seeing a professional dominant is a relationship. Rather, it's receiving a service for a payment. I dunno if I think that a client/dominant relationship is a relationship in the common usage. It -is- however, a totally "normal" form of BDSM interact and expression, especially for those with other partners or who have a fetish that few find appealing.
I maintain, though, if you don't like it, IGNORE IT AND MOVE ON. We've -all- assured you this -isn't- the only type of dominantion in the BDSM community. We've assured you that there are plenty out there that aren't into this. We've recomended joining your realtime community so you can actually meet face to face. There are bunches of "money dommes" who are in it just for the money. There are some who are in it because it is a kink. There are some who are in it as a job as well as a lifestyle. There are also MANY MANY people who don't mess with money at all, even to the degree of controlling household finance. How many times must we say this?
Get invovled in your community. Unless you're a masochist with a huge amount of time, you'll have better luck there than with online dating.
Ignore the people whose fetishes or practices don't appeal to you. They aren't worth your time anyway.
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ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel
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You are using the word 'submissive' (a word that in fact, doesn't really exist)
submissive adj. Willing or inclined to submit; yielding; oedient; docile -submissively adv - submissiveness n.
Funk & Wagnalls Standard Desk Dictionary copyright 1984
Yeah,...... it does.
Jewel
I think she meant that it's and adv. or adj. not a noun. He's been using it as a noun, as which it doesn't, in fact, exist.
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) who was into financial domination but could not find a dominia who had that interest alone. He wanted me to ... lol... and It just wasn't who I was... He even went as far to offer his financial fetish tributes as buying me shoes - instead of just money - ach... Demon was ok about it, but in the end, it just wasn't part of who and what I was. lol... can you believe I turned down Blahniks? 
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