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ORIGINAL: Totalmaster4you

Hi RL
No I'm not a masochist.Sometimes I'll write just to watch the response but this one I wanted to see how many other were tired of the sarcasm and caustic postings from supposed slaves and subs. Unfortunately not enough seem to care so it will go on and get worse until we do care.

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ORIGINAL: Totalmaster4you

Greeting to all the Masters, Dominants, Dommes and Tops. I've been reading on this site as well as others and in my humble opinion I've been aware of a growing level of bitchiness from those that self identify as slaves and submissives. We all participate for different reasons, me to add facts if they are lacking and positive outcomes.
Diversity of ideas is not welcomed, rampant bitchiness, a lack of discussion is this the standard that we want as our means of exchanging information and maybe making new friends. So what do we say?

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
Since this is precisely the teachings my Master insists I follow, you are basically requesting I disobey him to suit you. Some submissives and slaves are trained to be submissive to all dominats.  Some, like me, are trained to live as an equal human being amongst our fellow human beings, while submitting completely and totally to our Masters. 

1) He enjoys knowing I can and will hold my own in the world, be it at work, socially, with family & friends, in various communities, wherever.  He holds a higher value to that which is reserved and pure, only for him. It gives him great pride to see me behave confident and strong, intolerant of anyone crossing any of the boundaries set out for me, yet to splay myself open to him for the taking, be it physically, mentally, emotionally or spiritually.

And so I ask, deference?  Deference to whom?  To what?  When? How?   No my dear, I think I shall continue to follow orders as laid out by he who owns me.  My conduct with others doesn't seem to be a problem to him, and if it ever is, that is when it will change.
ownedgirlie,
i cannot agree enough with the above parts of your post.  WOW - this is exactly how things are with U/us as well.  Very well stated........slave luci 

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ORIGINAL: Totalmaster4you

Plz don't use the sub/slave line well they're not my Dom.

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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

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ORIGINAL: Totalmaster4you
But this a BDSM site with slaves and submissive interacting with Dominants and Masters where I would expect a certain amount of decorum and defrence. Plz don't use the sub/slave line well they're not my Dom.
To me, it's not a sub/slave "line," it's a fact.  No one here is my dominant.  My Master doesn't expect or desire that i submit or "defer" to anyone simply because they say they are a dom/master.  As i stated before, there are areas where every sub/slave is expected to defer but the general boards is not one of them.  i exhibit decorum but i don't defer to someone simply because they identify as dominant.......slave luci

Ditto.

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

(in reply to slaveluci)

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ORIGINAL: Totalmaster4you

PeggyO,
Well said. My reason for writing was how do we address a vague word such as standard. My thought was if the group was tired of the caustic comments this would provide an opportunity to say so.

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I dare you to introspect and agree with me.

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ORIGINAL: Totalmaster4you

<snip> Over the past year or so I've noticed that responses to OP's were becoming more caustic with many put downs and rude remarks. <snip> But this a BDSM site with slaves and submissive interacting with Dominants and Masters where I would expect a certain amount of decorum and defrence. Plz don't use the sub/slave line well they're not my Dom. I addressed this to all the Tops, Owners, Dominants and Dommes on the ask a Master board to see if they are pleased with the direction "the conversations" are taking on their board.
 To those few who understood what my intent was, thank you for your time, your words and your observations.

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ORIGINAL: Sinergy


Ya know, a woman who is assertive and intelligent and powerful, yet submissive to me, is the most profoundly sexually attractive person on the planet.

I wonder if the person is not a powerful enough or intelligent enough personality to create a submissive desire in somebody who is not a Stepford submissive.

Sinergy

p.s.  I simply laugh at people who try to boss around submissives and slaves who are not their own;  I say Dude/Dudette, get yer own.

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ORIGINAL: maybemaybenot

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ORIGINAL: Totalmaster4you

I've been aware of a growing level of bitchiness from those that self identify as slaves and submissives.

** enters quietly with head bowed and speaks in a hushed tone*

You nailed it right there !!  They " identify " themselves as slaves and submissives.
Don't let them fool you, they are not twue or real submissives.

** exits on tiptoes, making not a sound, kneels at the door, awaiting permission to leave**

                           mbmbn 

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ORIGINAL: Totalmaster4you
So what do we say?

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ORIGINAL: julietsierra

You see, the reason some of are a bitch is because what we have to say - in essence, the lesson we teach - is more important than what you think of us.

*smiling her teacher-ish smile*